5 letter word ending with igor
onewordeach
2015.05.22 19:56 Kaibakura onewordeach
Improv, one word at a time.
2016.05.03 00:32 tacobellscannon AskOuija: Get your answers one letter at a time
AskReddit, Ouija-style.
2017.01.22 00:23 donotblockthebox Political Compass Memes
Political Compass Memes
2023.05.31 01:27 business-Raven [Hiring] Solar Advisor 3500$-7000$ per Sale [Remote]
Company:Apricot Solar
Installer:Freedom Forever
Job Postion: Solar Advisor
Pay: 3500 split commission first sale observation 7000-10000 full commission
-2 lead generator companies
We have partnered, as a super-dealer, with the second largest industry leader in residential solar power, surpassing Titan and Tesla in 2022. 100% Debt-free company whose 5-star customers earned the company gross revenue in 2022 of almost $2 Billion USD. A+ rated by BBB with over 100,000 happy and satisfied homeowners. Inc. 5000 rates the company as one of the fastest growing companies every year for the last five years. We seek: 1- Ambitious, self-starters with solid work ethic, part time or full time.
2- No experience necessary but we enthusiastically welcome seasoned/experienced solar consultants.
3- Impeccable integrity and good communication skills.
4- Must possess coach-ability to learn this unique, 100% home-based approach to solar sales with zero door-knocking and zero cold-calling.
We offer: 1- Average commissions of $7k to $10k per personal sale.
2- Ability to split commissions with new team members that you have invited to your team while they earn while they learn.
3- Ambitious Solar Consultants who wish to develop a team of Solar Advisors anywhere in the USA can earn override commissions averaging $1400 to $2500 per sale from each sale on your team.
4- We offer, for FREE proprietary marketing software, which generates more qualified homeowner solar leads than you will be able to handle.
5- Daily, live online zoom training from TOP experts in team building as well as in solar sales (verified $6, 7 and 8 figures million-dollar earners).
6- ALL of our sales are produced via live zoom calls… no in-home sales so you can generate sales anywhere in the USA where we are licensed to do business. Our homeowners enjoy: 1- 25-year production guarantee (unique in the industry) 2- Eligibility for 30% tax credit as well as other local perks, unique to each state. 3- No red-line, so we can price-match any quote from a competitor. 4- Our company has its own trucks, warehouses for timely delivery of solar components within the USA, and they employ their own W-2 employees for all facets of the solar installation process. No subcontracting of the solar installation process.
5- As soon as the homeowner contracts our services, he is assigned a project/site manager who will immediately contact the homeowner and get the project started within 24-48 hours.
Must be atleast 18 to apply.
Onboarding instructions below
The first step is to watch our overview video at the link below, and then fill out the short form that appears at the end to get started. Make sure to finish video completely, and scroll to the bottom. You can skip to the end of the video to get to the sign up portion as well.
https://onboarding.apricotsolar.com/recruit-affiliate/1679698549293x274687705253493280/novideo
Once you fill out the short form, you will receivean email from me with next steps.
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Installer:Freedom Forever
Job Postion: Solar Advisor
Pay: 3500 split commission first sale observation 7000-10000 full commission
-2 lead generator companies
We have partnered, as a super-dealer, with the second largest industry leader in residential solar power, surpassing Titan and Tesla in 2022. 100% Debt-free company whose 5-star customers earned the company gross revenue in 2022 of almost $2 Billion USD. A+ rated by BBB with over 100,000 happy and satisfied homeowners. Inc. 5000 rates the company as one of the fastest growing companies every year for the last five years. We seek: 1- Ambitious, self-starters with solid work ethic, part time or full time.
2- No experience necessary but we enthusiastically welcome seasoned/experienced solar consultants.
3- Impeccable integrity and good communication skills.
4- Must possess coach-ability to learn this unique, 100% home-based approach to solar sales with zero door-knocking and zero cold-calling.
We offer: 1- Average commissions of $7k to $10k per personal sale.
2- Ability to split commissions with new team members that you have invited to your team while they earn while they learn.
3- Ambitious Solar Consultants who wish to develop a team of Solar Advisors anywhere in the USA can earn override commissions averaging $1400 to $2500 per sale from each sale on your team.
4- We offer, for FREE proprietary marketing software, which generates more qualified homeowner solar leads than you will be able to handle.
5- Daily, live online zoom training from TOP experts in team building as well as in solar sales (verified $6, 7 and 8 figures million-dollar earners).
6- ALL of our sales are produced via live zoom calls… no in-home sales so you can generate sales anywhere in the USA where we are licensed to do business. Our homeowners enjoy: 1- 25-year production guarantee (unique in the industry) 2- Eligibility for 30% tax credit as well as other local perks, unique to each state. 3- No red-line, so we can price-match any quote from a competitor. 4- Our company has its own trucks, warehouses for timely delivery of solar components within the USA, and they employ their own W-2 employees for all facets of the solar installation process. No subcontracting of the solar installation process.
5- As soon as the homeowner contracts our services, he is assigned a project/site manager who will immediately contact the homeowner and get the project started within 24-48 hours.
Must be atleast 18 to apply.
Onboarding instructions below
The first step is to watch our overview video at the link below, and then fill out the short form that appears at the end to get started. Make sure to finish video completely, and scroll to the bottom. You can skip to the end of the video to get to the sign up portion as well.
https://onboarding.apricotsolar.com/recruit-affiliate/1679698549293x274687705253493280/novideo
Once you fill out the short form, you will receivean email from me with next steps.
2023.05.31 01:27 Chemical_Sorbet_7166 Will he ever come back?
I (23F) am feeling unlovable after (38 M) played with my senses
Is there a difference between “do not contact me” and “do not contact me again”?
Does one imply the person will eventually come back?
Three years ago I met this guy online and straight away he put my photo as his Lock Screen and sent me romantic messages. Anyways during that time I was really depressed and we ended up ending conversation. Then a year later on my bday he popped up again and we resumed communication. It was like a Dr Jekyll and mr Hyde from him. He switched from being kind to me to being so cruel and sarcastic. I knew he was stalking me on my instagram because anytime I would post anything activism related he would advise me not to. Anyways I remember one time I told him i was training at work at he said “training, I like the sound of that”. He was in and out of my life during this time and he would take 3-5 days to respond to me and then if I didn’t respond quickly he would be passive aggressive. Anyways he would disappear for weeks and I would feel my heart so scared to loose him. One day I told him about my family history of trauma and how when my parents don’t like what I do they stop talking to me. He told me “thanks for telling me that”. I told him one day I was afraid he’d do the same. He said he’d never. Anyways by the end of it I was put on antidepressants which induced a manic episode. I remember I was sending messages and he was being snarky and sarcastic to me and twice I caught him online but ignoring my messages. He’s 38 and I was only 22. I confronted him but he just deleted his profile picture so I sent him a manic text telling him that he taught me that people were going to use me and that he can’t keep using the excuse he’s busy at work. I regret sending that message. He blocked me and in my manic mind I texted him so many messages on his number (I wasn’t thinking) to avoid him leaving because he still wasn’t replying. After three days of this stupid and manic behaviour I called him but he didn’t answer and he texted “all of this has to stop. Don’t text me” and it’s been a year and I haven’t heard anything back from him. Of course I’d never contact him but my heart is so broken over him and I have no idea why. I’m off the meds but everyday I wish I could get a second chance. I feel used and discarded especially after he saw such private parts of me and I opened up. Advice how to move on?
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Is there a difference between “do not contact me” and “do not contact me again”?
Does one imply the person will eventually come back?
Three years ago I met this guy online and straight away he put my photo as his Lock Screen and sent me romantic messages. Anyways during that time I was really depressed and we ended up ending conversation. Then a year later on my bday he popped up again and we resumed communication. It was like a Dr Jekyll and mr Hyde from him. He switched from being kind to me to being so cruel and sarcastic. I knew he was stalking me on my instagram because anytime I would post anything activism related he would advise me not to. Anyways I remember one time I told him i was training at work at he said “training, I like the sound of that”. He was in and out of my life during this time and he would take 3-5 days to respond to me and then if I didn’t respond quickly he would be passive aggressive. Anyways he would disappear for weeks and I would feel my heart so scared to loose him. One day I told him about my family history of trauma and how when my parents don’t like what I do they stop talking to me. He told me “thanks for telling me that”. I told him one day I was afraid he’d do the same. He said he’d never. Anyways by the end of it I was put on antidepressants which induced a manic episode. I remember I was sending messages and he was being snarky and sarcastic to me and twice I caught him online but ignoring my messages. He’s 38 and I was only 22. I confronted him but he just deleted his profile picture so I sent him a manic text telling him that he taught me that people were going to use me and that he can’t keep using the excuse he’s busy at work. I regret sending that message. He blocked me and in my manic mind I texted him so many messages on his number (I wasn’t thinking) to avoid him leaving because he still wasn’t replying. After three days of this stupid and manic behaviour I called him but he didn’t answer and he texted “all of this has to stop. Don’t text me” and it’s been a year and I haven’t heard anything back from him. Of course I’d never contact him but my heart is so broken over him and I have no idea why. I’m off the meds but everyday I wish I could get a second chance. I feel used and discarded especially after he saw such private parts of me and I opened up. Advice how to move on?
2023.05.31 01:26 throwawayawayawayait AP
Approx 9 months since my husband confessed to affair and went NC with AP. AP is a teacher at my kids elementary school. She taught my 10yo in 2nd grade. My 10yo liked her as a teacher. I need to add that she had text my husband that she put in her resignation letter and was going to a different school district(so I’ve been saying just make it until May …during this whole process) Anyway, my 10yo bid on a day with her with fake money her earned by reading throughout the year. I was so upset but we decided to just let it be ( honestly wish she would have talked him out of it, but whatever). So that day was last week, my husband decided to pick my son up from school early, so that he wasn’t with her the whole day(he did this for me, bc it was bothering me so much). Apparently she told my son “tell your dad he is a meanie for getting you early”. So after work, and after school was out my husband took the kids to the park that is DIRECTLY ACROSS THE STREET FROM OUR HOUSE while I was cooking dinner. And guess who was at the park? AP was having a party for her class at the park across from OUR house. ( let me add NONE OF MY KIDS TEACHERS INCLUDING HER, have had an end of the year party at a park(she does know where we live)). My son saw her said hi and she said “tell your dad I’m still mad at him, just kidding, just kidding “ My husband called me and told me she was at the park. So I got out there and am staring at her, I have a hat on so I don’t think she knew who I was. My husband called his therapist and went in the house to talk. I got tunnel vision, anger…. And went up to her and said “Hey I have a question for you”. We walked away from the lady she was talking to. I asked her if she was leaving the school next year. She said No I am not. I asked her why?? She said the principal kept asking her why she was leaving, and then said “I’m sorry”. I said no you’re not, you’re not sorry. She said ok, I’m not sorry, I said I know you’re not sorry. She said she didn’t want to go back and forth and I said ok and we both walked off.
Tell me am I over reacting What is she doing ??????
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Tell me am I over reacting What is she doing ??????
2023.05.31 01:26 OceanRainBlu3 Vagabond Format Update LIVE
Hello everyone, hope you're doing well! Today I come before you with an update to my in-progress format, Vagabond (My original post can be found here). Some changes have been made and new-cool stuff and I wanted to get some feedback:)
Discord Server
One thing missing from my last was a way to play Vagabond; I essentially just introduced the format, talked about it, and assumed people would just "figure it out". I definitely think having a central place to play would be beneficial and as such have made a Discord server. I don't really care how people play Vagabond, whether it be MTGA, Cockatrice, or something else, but please keep it civil. The link is here.
Updated Banlist
Vraska's Fall, Infectious Inquiry, Prologue to Phyresis, Infectious Bite, Kumano Faces Kakkazan, and Tolarian Terror are banned.
Tolarian Terror is the only card "new" to the banlist but every other card was only a maybe. After further testing these cards can not exist for the health of the format and are banned-banned.
Further details can be found in the banlist channel of the discord server.
"Starter" Decks
Another error with my first post was not including a "starting place" for potential players; I more or less just laid out the ruleset and assumed everyone would just make their own decks with some minor guidelines. This thinking was incorrect and as such I have made 16 "starter" decks, one for each color, each color pair, and a proof-of-concept 3-color deck. These are not tuned or complete builds and not all-encompassing of the format. Lots of potential decks still be brewed and optimizations to be made.
Disclaimer: Most decks are $5-10 but some running actual standard or pioneer staples like Consider can be $25-30
With that said though, here're the decks:
https://archidekt.com/decks/4619432/monowhite_defenders
https://archidekt.com/decks/4616188/monoblue_control
https://archidekt.com/decks/4619522/monoblack_aggro
https://archidekt.com/decks/4616471/monored_aggro
https://archidekt.com/decks/4615349/monogreen_ramp
https://archidekt.com/decks/4619885/azorius_soldier
https://archidekt.com/decks/4619756/dimir_zombies
https://archidekt.com/decks/4626828/rakdos_vampires
https://archidekt.com/decks/4620767/gruul_oil
https://archidekt.com/decks/4626629/selesnya_tokens
https://archidekt.com/decks/4632705/orzhov_midrange
https://archidekt.com/decks/4619580/izzet_prowess
https://archidekt.com/decks/4626477/golgari_graveyard_stuff
https://archidekt.com/decks/4626346/boros_aggro
https://archidekt.com/decks/4626731/simic_domain
https://archidekt.com/decks/4632707/abzan_toxic
Wrapup
That ends today's post. Let me know what you think and if you're interested go ahead and join the discord. Feel free to bring your own build(s) or if you don't like brewing use any of the above decks:)
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Discord Server
One thing missing from my last was a way to play Vagabond; I essentially just introduced the format, talked about it, and assumed people would just "figure it out". I definitely think having a central place to play would be beneficial and as such have made a Discord server. I don't really care how people play Vagabond, whether it be MTGA, Cockatrice, or something else, but please keep it civil. The link is here.
Updated Banlist
Vraska's Fall, Infectious Inquiry, Prologue to Phyresis, Infectious Bite, Kumano Faces Kakkazan, and Tolarian Terror are banned.
Tolarian Terror is the only card "new" to the banlist but every other card was only a maybe. After further testing these cards can not exist for the health of the format and are banned-banned.
Further details can be found in the banlist channel of the discord server.
"Starter" Decks
Another error with my first post was not including a "starting place" for potential players; I more or less just laid out the ruleset and assumed everyone would just make their own decks with some minor guidelines. This thinking was incorrect and as such I have made 16 "starter" decks, one for each color, each color pair, and a proof-of-concept 3-color deck. These are not tuned or complete builds and not all-encompassing of the format. Lots of potential decks still be brewed and optimizations to be made.
Disclaimer: Most decks are $5-10 but some running actual standard or pioneer staples like Consider can be $25-30
With that said though, here're the decks:
https://archidekt.com/decks/4619432/monowhite_defenders
https://archidekt.com/decks/4616188/monoblue_control
https://archidekt.com/decks/4619522/monoblack_aggro
https://archidekt.com/decks/4616471/monored_aggro
https://archidekt.com/decks/4615349/monogreen_ramp
https://archidekt.com/decks/4619885/azorius_soldier
https://archidekt.com/decks/4619756/dimir_zombies
https://archidekt.com/decks/4626828/rakdos_vampires
https://archidekt.com/decks/4620767/gruul_oil
https://archidekt.com/decks/4626629/selesnya_tokens
https://archidekt.com/decks/4632705/orzhov_midrange
https://archidekt.com/decks/4619580/izzet_prowess
https://archidekt.com/decks/4626477/golgari_graveyard_stuff
https://archidekt.com/decks/4626346/boros_aggro
https://archidekt.com/decks/4626731/simic_domain
https://archidekt.com/decks/4632707/abzan_toxic
Wrapup
That ends today's post. Let me know what you think and if you're interested go ahead and join the discord. Feel free to bring your own build(s) or if you don't like brewing use any of the above decks:)
2023.05.31 01:26 ReferendumAutonomic 3 British women murdered with no penalty
Autistic's "caregivers received $5,000 per month...charged with false imprisonment, abuse or neglect and failure to report...pneumonia, wounds across her body, bedsores and ulcers. She was also in septic shock due to infection and suffered cardiac arrest." https://uinterview.com/news/caregivers-who-allegedly-tortured-autistic-woman-to-death-were-paid-250000-by-new-mexico-to-care-for-he
"common medications that can trigger depression...Beta blockers...birth control...Levodopa or Sinemet CR are used to treat Parkinson's...Corticosteroids...Stimulants." https://m.jpost.com/health-and-wellness/article-744470
"Certified Peer Support (CPS) specialists to do the outreach. At this point, the INSET model in Westchester County, NY may be the only fully functioning program. They currently have 4 CPS assisting 20 individuals each...But it is not, I repeat not, a relationship of the CPS telling an individual what they have to do or choose." https://mhpolicy.org/finding-a-better-way/
Palestinian doctor in ireland, "patient’s (Qatari) father had “cried and cried and cried”...A psychiatric assessment would take a minimum of between 50 and 60 minutes." Why did suffolk county court blindly believe dr. hsiesh who didn't let me speak and met for less than 5 minutes? https://www.irishtimes.com/health/2023/05/29/doctor-denies-acting-as-representative-of-the-qatari-embassy-to-treat-psychiatric-patient/
texas baptist licensed professional counselor, "Pray about it...take it to God, and then take it to people who you know, and trust...Jesus being perfect but not flawless as a sinless human and the need for a community to battle isolation." https://www.denisonforum.org/biblical-living/podcast/mental-health-psychology-and-faith-a-conversation-with-chris-legg-lpc/
Pastor Randy Reid, Clanton First Assembly of God, "mass shootings in America is not a mental illness problem, it’s a spiritual problem." https://www.clantonadvertiser.com/2023/05/29/column-its-not-just-mental-illness/
new york city mayor, "Adams unwittingly implies that the Nazi response to schizophrenics is acceptable: murder them...poverty as proof of dangerous and savage psychosis." https://www.citywatchla.com/index.php/cw/important-reads/27013-the-death-penalty-for-homelessness CBS video on 176,000 calls per year. https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/jordan-neely-death-mental-health-crisis-new-york-city/
Ineffective addiction treatment $24 billion by 2030, more than 20 million Americans. Global behavioural health market $128 billion. https://www.globenewswire.com/news-release/2023/05/30/2678490/0/en/Addiction-Treatment-Market-Size-Worth-USD-24-3-Billion-by-2030-at-9-2-CAGR-Report-by-Market-Research-Future-MRFR.html https://www.pharmiweb.com/press-release/2023-05-30/behavioural-health-market-to-attain-an-estimated-worth-of-us-1562-billion-by-2028-at-a-cagr-of-34
"What are the causes of hallucinations?...Stress and traumatic events...Deprivation of senses...Epilepsy and seizures...antipsychotics, antidepressants, and antihistamines...mess with the way neurotransmitters work in the brain, which can change how people see things." https://www.sportskeeda.com/health-and-fitness/what-are-common-causes-hallucination
"paranoid"...malevolent spirits of Muslim culture...he could feel the presence of the jinn but not see it. What the officer witnessed was his trying to fight the powerlessness he felt as Jinn cursed him." https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/up-and-running/202304/the-hallucinations-you-never-heard-of
Noone should modify someone's body without informed consent. "perception of autistic people and people with [intellectual and developmental disabilities] overall, that we’re not able to make our own decisions. Big decisions like those around health care, education, living arrangements,” they said. “All too often our decisions are viewed with suspicion and fear...In Arkansas, doctors can shield themselves against lawsuits over gender-affirming care if they can prove that their minor patient did not have conditions including autism, depression, ADHD, an eating disorder, an intellectual disability or a psychotic disorder." https://19thnews.org/2023/05/trans-laws-autistic-youth-mental-health/
florida termination of guardianship forms https://www.formsworkflow.com/Form/searchresults/17503-flssi-guardianship-termination-of/1
"Brain in Hand combines practical solution-based coaching with a user-led digital self-management system to help (autistic) individuals build their independence." https://www.miragenews.com/digital-support-reduces-anxiety-in-autistic-1016215/
No penalty for 3 british murders including a 20 year old woman, "choked in her sleep after being given inappropriate medication which had caused 'significant sedation'. The coroner said there was insufficient consideration of 'polypharmacy." https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/people-shouldnt-live-poor-conditions-27003379
Deprescribing "four drugs for his moods." https://medshadow.org/14-prescriptions-by-different-doctors/
"Research suggests a connection between low iron levels and symptoms of depression, anxiety, and schizophrenia, Levin and Gattari write." https://www.newswise.com/articles/could-low-iron-be-making-your-mental-health-symptoms-worse
Some processed frozen "meals contribute toward inflammation in the gut, which is where most serotonin...2015 study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition suggested sugary and starchy foods could contribute to depression." https://news.yahoo.com/5-foods-negative-impact-mental-094501356.html
risperdal and haldol cause me muscle spasms. "Serotonin syndrome − a rare but very serious drug reaction...ending the pain once it starts − include standing or walking around, massaging the affected area, improved (calcium) nutrition, sleeping in comfortable positions" doesn't work on my face. https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2023/05/29/what-causes-muscle-spasms/70249143007/
"I'm not a doctor, but I play one on federal court." https://images.cartoonstock.com/lowres/abortions-rights-usa-judge-matthew_kacsmaryk-abortion_pills-abortion_drugs-prescription-EC501549_low.jpg
Boot Camps for (kidnapped) Kids: Tough Love or Torture, "even going to the bathroom requires permission (as at zucker hillside)." Comment, "80% fail bc their parents didn't go." https://youtu.be/A7Y_yEiJJCU
True story of 40 murders, "Boot Camp" (2008) starring Mila Kunis, "He's not even a real doctor...I don't recognize your fucking credentials." https://youtu.be/idBabcDUy-Q
Three For The Road 1987 Charlie Sheen movie about politician's daughter "doped to the gills" and kidnapped to institution. https://youtu.be/VgB84kX9emE
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"common medications that can trigger depression...Beta blockers...birth control...Levodopa or Sinemet CR are used to treat Parkinson's...Corticosteroids...Stimulants." https://m.jpost.com/health-and-wellness/article-744470
"Certified Peer Support (CPS) specialists to do the outreach. At this point, the INSET model in Westchester County, NY may be the only fully functioning program. They currently have 4 CPS assisting 20 individuals each...But it is not, I repeat not, a relationship of the CPS telling an individual what they have to do or choose." https://mhpolicy.org/finding-a-better-way/
Palestinian doctor in ireland, "patient’s (Qatari) father had “cried and cried and cried”...A psychiatric assessment would take a minimum of between 50 and 60 minutes." Why did suffolk county court blindly believe dr. hsiesh who didn't let me speak and met for less than 5 minutes? https://www.irishtimes.com/health/2023/05/29/doctor-denies-acting-as-representative-of-the-qatari-embassy-to-treat-psychiatric-patient/
texas baptist licensed professional counselor, "Pray about it...take it to God, and then take it to people who you know, and trust...Jesus being perfect but not flawless as a sinless human and the need for a community to battle isolation." https://www.denisonforum.org/biblical-living/podcast/mental-health-psychology-and-faith-a-conversation-with-chris-legg-lpc/
Pastor Randy Reid, Clanton First Assembly of God, "mass shootings in America is not a mental illness problem, it’s a spiritual problem." https://www.clantonadvertiser.com/2023/05/29/column-its-not-just-mental-illness/
new york city mayor, "Adams unwittingly implies that the Nazi response to schizophrenics is acceptable: murder them...poverty as proof of dangerous and savage psychosis." https://www.citywatchla.com/index.php/cw/important-reads/27013-the-death-penalty-for-homelessness CBS video on 176,000 calls per year. https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/jordan-neely-death-mental-health-crisis-new-york-city/
Ineffective addiction treatment $24 billion by 2030, more than 20 million Americans. Global behavioural health market $128 billion. https://www.globenewswire.com/news-release/2023/05/30/2678490/0/en/Addiction-Treatment-Market-Size-Worth-USD-24-3-Billion-by-2030-at-9-2-CAGR-Report-by-Market-Research-Future-MRFR.html https://www.pharmiweb.com/press-release/2023-05-30/behavioural-health-market-to-attain-an-estimated-worth-of-us-1562-billion-by-2028-at-a-cagr-of-34
"What are the causes of hallucinations?...Stress and traumatic events...Deprivation of senses...Epilepsy and seizures...antipsychotics, antidepressants, and antihistamines...mess with the way neurotransmitters work in the brain, which can change how people see things." https://www.sportskeeda.com/health-and-fitness/what-are-common-causes-hallucination
"paranoid"...malevolent spirits of Muslim culture...he could feel the presence of the jinn but not see it. What the officer witnessed was his trying to fight the powerlessness he felt as Jinn cursed him." https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/up-and-running/202304/the-hallucinations-you-never-heard-of
Noone should modify someone's body without informed consent. "perception of autistic people and people with [intellectual and developmental disabilities] overall, that we’re not able to make our own decisions. Big decisions like those around health care, education, living arrangements,” they said. “All too often our decisions are viewed with suspicion and fear...In Arkansas, doctors can shield themselves against lawsuits over gender-affirming care if they can prove that their minor patient did not have conditions including autism, depression, ADHD, an eating disorder, an intellectual disability or a psychotic disorder." https://19thnews.org/2023/05/trans-laws-autistic-youth-mental-health/
florida termination of guardianship forms https://www.formsworkflow.com/Form/searchresults/17503-flssi-guardianship-termination-of/1
"Brain in Hand combines practical solution-based coaching with a user-led digital self-management system to help (autistic) individuals build their independence." https://www.miragenews.com/digital-support-reduces-anxiety-in-autistic-1016215/
No penalty for 3 british murders including a 20 year old woman, "choked in her sleep after being given inappropriate medication which had caused 'significant sedation'. The coroner said there was insufficient consideration of 'polypharmacy." https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/people-shouldnt-live-poor-conditions-27003379
Deprescribing "four drugs for his moods." https://medshadow.org/14-prescriptions-by-different-doctors/
"Research suggests a connection between low iron levels and symptoms of depression, anxiety, and schizophrenia, Levin and Gattari write." https://www.newswise.com/articles/could-low-iron-be-making-your-mental-health-symptoms-worse
Some processed frozen "meals contribute toward inflammation in the gut, which is where most serotonin...2015 study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition suggested sugary and starchy foods could contribute to depression." https://news.yahoo.com/5-foods-negative-impact-mental-094501356.html
risperdal and haldol cause me muscle spasms. "Serotonin syndrome − a rare but very serious drug reaction...ending the pain once it starts − include standing or walking around, massaging the affected area, improved (calcium) nutrition, sleeping in comfortable positions" doesn't work on my face. https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2023/05/29/what-causes-muscle-spasms/70249143007/
"I'm not a doctor, but I play one on federal court." https://images.cartoonstock.com/lowres/abortions-rights-usa-judge-matthew_kacsmaryk-abortion_pills-abortion_drugs-prescription-EC501549_low.jpg
Boot Camps for (kidnapped) Kids: Tough Love or Torture, "even going to the bathroom requires permission (as at zucker hillside)." Comment, "80% fail bc their parents didn't go." https://youtu.be/A7Y_yEiJJCU
True story of 40 murders, "Boot Camp" (2008) starring Mila Kunis, "He's not even a real doctor...I don't recognize your fucking credentials." https://youtu.be/idBabcDUy-Q
Three For The Road 1987 Charlie Sheen movie about politician's daughter "doped to the gills" and kidnapped to institution. https://youtu.be/VgB84kX9emE
2023.05.31 01:25 ReferendumAutonomic 3 British women murdered with no penalty; "assessment...minimum...60 minutes"
Autistic's "caregivers received $5,000 per month...charged with false imprisonment, abuse or neglect and failure to report...pneumonia, wounds across her body, bedsores and ulcers. She was also in septic shock due to infection and suffered cardiac arrest." https://uinterview.com/news/caregivers-who-allegedly-tortured-autistic-woman-to-death-were-paid-250000-by-new-mexico-to-care-for-he
"common medications that can trigger depression...Beta blockers...birth control...Levodopa or Sinemet CR are used to treat Parkinson's...Corticosteroids...Stimulants." https://m.jpost.com/health-and-wellness/article-744470
"Certified Peer Support (CPS) specialists to do the outreach. At this point, the INSET model in Westchester County, NY may be the only fully functioning program. They currently have 4 CPS assisting 20 individuals each...But it is not, I repeat not, a relationship of the CPS telling an individual what they have to do or choose." https://mhpolicy.org/finding-a-better-way/
Palestinian doctor in ireland, "patient’s (Qatari) father had “cried and cried and cried”...A psychiatric assessment would take a minimum of between 50 and 60 minutes." Why did suffolk county court blindly believe dr. hsiesh who didn't let me speak and met for less than 5 minutes? https://www.irishtimes.com/health/2023/05/29/doctor-denies-acting-as-representative-of-the-qatari-embassy-to-treat-psychiatric-patient/
texas baptist licensed professional counselor, "Pray about it...take it to God, and then take it to people who you know, and trust...Jesus being perfect but not flawless as a sinless human and the need for a community to battle isolation." https://www.denisonforum.org/biblical-living/podcast/mental-health-psychology-and-faith-a-conversation-with-chris-legg-lpc/
Pastor Randy Reid, Clanton First Assembly of God, "mass shootings in America is not a mental illness problem, it’s a spiritual problem." https://www.clantonadvertiser.com/2023/05/29/column-its-not-just-mental-illness/
new york city mayor, "Adams unwittingly implies that the Nazi response to schizophrenics is acceptable: murder them...poverty as proof of dangerous and savage psychosis." https://www.citywatchla.com/index.php/cw/important-reads/27013-the-death-penalty-for-homelessness CBS video on 176,000 calls per year. https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/jordan-neely-death-mental-health-crisis-new-york-city/
Ineffective addiction treatment $24 billion by 2030, more than 20 million Americans. Global behavioural health market $128 billion. https://www.globenewswire.com/news-release/2023/05/30/2678490/0/en/Addiction-Treatment-Market-Size-Worth-USD-24-3-Billion-by-2030-at-9-2-CAGR-Report-by-Market-Research-Future-MRFR.html https://www.pharmiweb.com/press-release/2023-05-30/behavioural-health-market-to-attain-an-estimated-worth-of-us-1562-billion-by-2028-at-a-cagr-of-34
"What are the causes of hallucinations?...Stress and traumatic events...Deprivation of senses...Epilepsy and seizures...antipsychotics, antidepressants, and antihistamines...mess with the way neurotransmitters work in the brain, which can change how people see things." https://www.sportskeeda.com/health-and-fitness/what-are-common-causes-hallucination
"paranoid"...malevolent spirits of Muslim culture...he could feel the presence of the jinn but not see it. What the officer witnessed was his trying to fight the powerlessness he felt as Jinn cursed him." https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/up-and-running/202304/the-hallucinations-you-never-heard-of
Noone should modify someone's body without informed consent. "perception of autistic people and people with [intellectual and developmental disabilities] overall, that we’re not able to make our own decisions. Big decisions like those around health care, education, living arrangements,” they said. “All too often our decisions are viewed with suspicion and fear...In Arkansas, doctors can shield themselves against lawsuits over gender-affirming care if they can prove that their minor patient did not have conditions including autism, depression, ADHD, an eating disorder, an intellectual disability or a psychotic disorder." https://19thnews.org/2023/05/trans-laws-autistic-youth-mental-health/
florida termination of guardianship forms https://www.formsworkflow.com/Form/searchresults/17503-flssi-guardianship-termination-of/1
"Brain in Hand combines practical solution-based coaching with a user-led digital self-management system to help (autistic) individuals build their independence." https://www.miragenews.com/digital-support-reduces-anxiety-in-autistic-1016215/
No penalty for 3 british murders including a 20 year old woman, "choked in her sleep after being given inappropriate medication which had caused 'significant sedation'. The coroner said there was insufficient consideration of 'polypharmacy." https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/people-shouldnt-live-poor-conditions-27003379
Deprescribing "four drugs for his moods." https://medshadow.org/14-prescriptions-by-different-doctors/
"Research suggests a connection between low iron levels and symptoms of depression, anxiety, and schizophrenia, Levin and Gattari write." https://www.newswise.com/articles/could-low-iron-be-making-your-mental-health-symptoms-worse
Some processed frozen "meals contribute toward inflammation in the gut, which is where most serotonin...2015 study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition suggested sugary and starchy foods could contribute to depression." https://news.yahoo.com/5-foods-negative-impact-mental-094501356.html
risperdal and haldol cause me muscle spasms. "Serotonin syndrome − a rare but very serious drug reaction...ending the pain once it starts − include standing or walking around, massaging the affected area, improved (calcium) nutrition, sleeping in comfortable positions" doesn't work on my face. https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2023/05/29/what-causes-muscle-spasms/70249143007/
"I'm not a doctor, but I play one on federal court." https://images.cartoonstock.com/lowres/abortions-rights-usa-judge-matthew_kacsmaryk-abortion_pills-abortion_drugs-prescription-EC501549_low.jpg
Boot Camps for (kidnapped) Kids: Tough Love or Torture, "even going to the bathroom requires permission (as at zucker hillside)." Comment, "80% fail bc their parents didn't go." https://youtu.be/A7Y_yEiJJCU
True story of 40 murders, "Boot Camp" (2008) starring Mila Kunis, "He's not even a real doctor...I don't recognize your fucking credentials." https://youtu.be/idBabcDUy-Q
Three For The Road 1987 Charlie Sheen movie about politician's daughter "doped to the gills" and kidnapped to institution. https://youtu.be/VgB84kX9emE
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"common medications that can trigger depression...Beta blockers...birth control...Levodopa or Sinemet CR are used to treat Parkinson's...Corticosteroids...Stimulants." https://m.jpost.com/health-and-wellness/article-744470
"Certified Peer Support (CPS) specialists to do the outreach. At this point, the INSET model in Westchester County, NY may be the only fully functioning program. They currently have 4 CPS assisting 20 individuals each...But it is not, I repeat not, a relationship of the CPS telling an individual what they have to do or choose." https://mhpolicy.org/finding-a-better-way/
Palestinian doctor in ireland, "patient’s (Qatari) father had “cried and cried and cried”...A psychiatric assessment would take a minimum of between 50 and 60 minutes." Why did suffolk county court blindly believe dr. hsiesh who didn't let me speak and met for less than 5 minutes? https://www.irishtimes.com/health/2023/05/29/doctor-denies-acting-as-representative-of-the-qatari-embassy-to-treat-psychiatric-patient/
texas baptist licensed professional counselor, "Pray about it...take it to God, and then take it to people who you know, and trust...Jesus being perfect but not flawless as a sinless human and the need for a community to battle isolation." https://www.denisonforum.org/biblical-living/podcast/mental-health-psychology-and-faith-a-conversation-with-chris-legg-lpc/
Pastor Randy Reid, Clanton First Assembly of God, "mass shootings in America is not a mental illness problem, it’s a spiritual problem." https://www.clantonadvertiser.com/2023/05/29/column-its-not-just-mental-illness/
new york city mayor, "Adams unwittingly implies that the Nazi response to schizophrenics is acceptable: murder them...poverty as proof of dangerous and savage psychosis." https://www.citywatchla.com/index.php/cw/important-reads/27013-the-death-penalty-for-homelessness CBS video on 176,000 calls per year. https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/jordan-neely-death-mental-health-crisis-new-york-city/
Ineffective addiction treatment $24 billion by 2030, more than 20 million Americans. Global behavioural health market $128 billion. https://www.globenewswire.com/news-release/2023/05/30/2678490/0/en/Addiction-Treatment-Market-Size-Worth-USD-24-3-Billion-by-2030-at-9-2-CAGR-Report-by-Market-Research-Future-MRFR.html https://www.pharmiweb.com/press-release/2023-05-30/behavioural-health-market-to-attain-an-estimated-worth-of-us-1562-billion-by-2028-at-a-cagr-of-34
"What are the causes of hallucinations?...Stress and traumatic events...Deprivation of senses...Epilepsy and seizures...antipsychotics, antidepressants, and antihistamines...mess with the way neurotransmitters work in the brain, which can change how people see things." https://www.sportskeeda.com/health-and-fitness/what-are-common-causes-hallucination
"paranoid"...malevolent spirits of Muslim culture...he could feel the presence of the jinn but not see it. What the officer witnessed was his trying to fight the powerlessness he felt as Jinn cursed him." https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/up-and-running/202304/the-hallucinations-you-never-heard-of
Noone should modify someone's body without informed consent. "perception of autistic people and people with [intellectual and developmental disabilities] overall, that we’re not able to make our own decisions. Big decisions like those around health care, education, living arrangements,” they said. “All too often our decisions are viewed with suspicion and fear...In Arkansas, doctors can shield themselves against lawsuits over gender-affirming care if they can prove that their minor patient did not have conditions including autism, depression, ADHD, an eating disorder, an intellectual disability or a psychotic disorder." https://19thnews.org/2023/05/trans-laws-autistic-youth-mental-health/
florida termination of guardianship forms https://www.formsworkflow.com/Form/searchresults/17503-flssi-guardianship-termination-of/1
"Brain in Hand combines practical solution-based coaching with a user-led digital self-management system to help (autistic) individuals build their independence." https://www.miragenews.com/digital-support-reduces-anxiety-in-autistic-1016215/
No penalty for 3 british murders including a 20 year old woman, "choked in her sleep after being given inappropriate medication which had caused 'significant sedation'. The coroner said there was insufficient consideration of 'polypharmacy." https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/people-shouldnt-live-poor-conditions-27003379
Deprescribing "four drugs for his moods." https://medshadow.org/14-prescriptions-by-different-doctors/
"Research suggests a connection between low iron levels and symptoms of depression, anxiety, and schizophrenia, Levin and Gattari write." https://www.newswise.com/articles/could-low-iron-be-making-your-mental-health-symptoms-worse
Some processed frozen "meals contribute toward inflammation in the gut, which is where most serotonin...2015 study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition suggested sugary and starchy foods could contribute to depression." https://news.yahoo.com/5-foods-negative-impact-mental-094501356.html
risperdal and haldol cause me muscle spasms. "Serotonin syndrome − a rare but very serious drug reaction...ending the pain once it starts − include standing or walking around, massaging the affected area, improved (calcium) nutrition, sleeping in comfortable positions" doesn't work on my face. https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2023/05/29/what-causes-muscle-spasms/70249143007/
"I'm not a doctor, but I play one on federal court." https://images.cartoonstock.com/lowres/abortions-rights-usa-judge-matthew_kacsmaryk-abortion_pills-abortion_drugs-prescription-EC501549_low.jpg
Boot Camps for (kidnapped) Kids: Tough Love or Torture, "even going to the bathroom requires permission (as at zucker hillside)." Comment, "80% fail bc their parents didn't go." https://youtu.be/A7Y_yEiJJCU
True story of 40 murders, "Boot Camp" (2008) starring Mila Kunis, "He's not even a real doctor...I don't recognize your fucking credentials." https://youtu.be/idBabcDUy-Q
Three For The Road 1987 Charlie Sheen movie about politician's daughter "doped to the gills" and kidnapped to institution. https://youtu.be/VgB84kX9emE
2023.05.31 01:25 johntelevision AITA golf edition
So I will try to paint a quick picture here, but much like my short game I can get a bit long winded.
Booked a tee time for 9 this morning, couldn’t have asked for better weather so got a foursome together and was only able to find 9 holes around lunch time in the area. Find out (after paying full price for 9 holes) that there’s a high school tournament being held at the course. No biggie, pro shop says at worst we might have a bit of a wait towards the tail end. Again not a problem, last thing any of us wanted to do was get in the way of future golf addicts. We make it to hole 5 before we’re waiting 10-15 mins to tee off, doing our best to not even come close to the kids playing. After hole 6, we circle back finding a pocket of daylight back on hole 3 so rather than wait, we doubled back. We played 3 and 4 with no issue, but were approached by a cart headed straight for us on a par 3 while one of us was lined up to hit. It was a marshall, think nothing of it and back off to wait for him to get to us. He’s setting up for league, asks us what we’re doing, asks if we think it’s ok to steal from the golf course and tells us to go in and pay for another 9 before leaving. We tried explaining we doubled back to get through a full 9 and didn’t want to get in any of the kids way. We’re nowhere near anyone at this point so we figure 5 funnels towards the clubhouse so we’ll just hit, head towards the green, pick up and go. Marshall parks his cart on the tee box and says if we don’t leave he’s calling the cops. In the end we drove back to our cars, dropped our clubs off, didn’t pay for any additional golf and will take that course out of the rotation for a place that we usually play at least once a week.
Am I wrong for thinking the Marshall was a total dweeb and having no interest in ever returning to that course or is he in the right and we were the douches?
For the record, it was a Tuesday round after a holiday weekend, we weren’t drinking like usual or it’d likely be a different story..
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Booked a tee time for 9 this morning, couldn’t have asked for better weather so got a foursome together and was only able to find 9 holes around lunch time in the area. Find out (after paying full price for 9 holes) that there’s a high school tournament being held at the course. No biggie, pro shop says at worst we might have a bit of a wait towards the tail end. Again not a problem, last thing any of us wanted to do was get in the way of future golf addicts. We make it to hole 5 before we’re waiting 10-15 mins to tee off, doing our best to not even come close to the kids playing. After hole 6, we circle back finding a pocket of daylight back on hole 3 so rather than wait, we doubled back. We played 3 and 4 with no issue, but were approached by a cart headed straight for us on a par 3 while one of us was lined up to hit. It was a marshall, think nothing of it and back off to wait for him to get to us. He’s setting up for league, asks us what we’re doing, asks if we think it’s ok to steal from the golf course and tells us to go in and pay for another 9 before leaving. We tried explaining we doubled back to get through a full 9 and didn’t want to get in any of the kids way. We’re nowhere near anyone at this point so we figure 5 funnels towards the clubhouse so we’ll just hit, head towards the green, pick up and go. Marshall parks his cart on the tee box and says if we don’t leave he’s calling the cops. In the end we drove back to our cars, dropped our clubs off, didn’t pay for any additional golf and will take that course out of the rotation for a place that we usually play at least once a week.
Am I wrong for thinking the Marshall was a total dweeb and having no interest in ever returning to that course or is he in the right and we were the douches?
For the record, it was a Tuesday round after a holiday weekend, we weren’t drinking like usual or it’d likely be a different story..
2023.05.31 01:25 thatskymirian The 0.21.5 update is expected to release on May 31st and the next event is slated to begin on June 1st + Known Issues for Huawei
(You can read the previous post about this issue here).
Shared by TGC on all major communication channels. Check out their tweet here:
[May 30th]
Thank you everyone for the kind messages you’ve sent us! It meant a lot to us through all the work this past week, and helped us power through a really difficult situation. We’re happy to share that over the weekend we made a lot of progress towards restoring capacity to our development servers, thanks to our awesome and hardworking IT and engineering folks.
The 0.21.5 update is now expected to release tomorrow (May 31st, all times PDT), and our next event is slated to begin the day after that (June 1st). We’ve taken steps to make sure that you’ll still be able to play the full event without any further issues. The dates for that event have been adjusted so that it will still be available for the originally planned duration.
We did want to acknowledge, though, that due to complications caused by last week’s fire, players on Huawei ended up with the 0.21.5 patch earlier than players on other platforms, and for them the event began on May 29th, the event launch date that was scheduled before the fire.
Technically this means that those players will have access to the event for three additional days, and be able to gather event currency during that extra time. However, they’ll likely encounter other issues:
Please note that players on all other platforms will still have complete, originally planned access to the event when it begins, and we’re taking steps to make sure that everyone has access to collect the full amount of intended event currency once it’s live for all platforms. Once the event is underway we’ll send an inbox message explaining more.
Keep an eye out for a blog post coming later today with all the details of the event, which we’re excited to share! Thank you all for your support, and we’ll see you all in 0.21.5 soon.
Reminder I'm not TGC staff, just reposting their announcements.
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Thank you, everyone, for the caring messages in regard to the recent incident with our servers 🙏Transcript:
The 0.21.5 update should be released tomorrow.
Some of the issues caused by this incident should be addressed, and all details will be available through the link below 🔎
For more details: https://bit.ly/SkyAccidentAffecting0215
Thank you everyone for the kind messages you’ve sent us! It meant a lot to us through all the work this past week, and helped us power through a really difficult situation. We’re happy to share that over the weekend we made a lot of progress towards restoring capacity to our development servers, thanks to our awesome and hardworking IT and engineering folks.
The 0.21.5 update is now expected to release tomorrow (May 31st, all times PDT), and our next event is slated to begin the day after that (June 1st). We’ve taken steps to make sure that you’ll still be able to play the full event without any further issues. The dates for that event have been adjusted so that it will still be available for the originally planned duration.
We did want to acknowledge, though, that due to complications caused by last week’s fire, players on Huawei ended up with the 0.21.5 patch earlier than players on other platforms, and for them the event began on May 29th, the event launch date that was scheduled before the fire.
Technically this means that those players will have access to the event for three additional days, and be able to gather event currency during that extra time. However, they’ll likely encounter other issues:
- Players can only play together when they’re on the same update, so Huawei players may be unable to see friends or anyone else.
- A themed Daily Quest tomorrow (May 31st) before the 0.21.5 update is released will cause a crash if a player tries to collect the event currency that is awarded after completing it.
- The incorrect price for this year’s new IGC item will be displayed until the event starts for the whole playerbase (though it will not be possible to unlock since it will require more event currency than what is available in three days).
- When the event begins for everyone on June 1, the event phase will be reset from Day 3 to Day 1.
Please note that players on all other platforms will still have complete, originally planned access to the event when it begins, and we’re taking steps to make sure that everyone has access to collect the full amount of intended event currency once it’s live for all platforms. Once the event is underway we’ll send an inbox message explaining more.
Keep an eye out for a blog post coming later today with all the details of the event, which we’re excited to share! Thank you all for your support, and we’ll see you all in 0.21.5 soon.
2023.05.31 01:24 ReferendumAutonomic 3 British women murdered with no penalty; "assessment...minimum...60 minutes"
Autistic's "caregivers received $5,000 per month...charged with false imprisonment, abuse or neglect and failure to report...pneumonia, wounds across her body, bedsores and ulcers. She was also in septic shock due to infection and suffered cardiac arrest." https://uinterview.com/news/caregivers-who-allegedly-tortured-autistic-woman-to-death-were-paid-250000-by-new-mexico-to-care-for-he
"common medications that can trigger depression...Beta blockers...birth control...Levodopa or Sinemet CR are used to treat Parkinson's...Corticosteroids...Stimulants." https://m.jpost.com/health-and-wellness/article-744470
"Certified Peer Support (CPS) specialists to do the outreach. At this point, the INSET model in Westchester County, NY may be the only fully functioning program. They currently have 4 CPS assisting 20 individuals each...But it is not, I repeat not, a relationship of the CPS telling an individual what they have to do or choose." https://mhpolicy.org/finding-a-better-way/
Palestinian doctor in ireland, "patient’s (Qatari) father had “cried and cried and cried”...A psychiatric assessment would take a minimum of between 50 and 60 minutes." Why did suffolk county court blindly believe dr. hsiesh who didn't let me speak and met for less than 5 minutes? https://www.irishtimes.com/health/2023/05/29/doctor-denies-acting-as-representative-of-the-qatari-embassy-to-treat-psychiatric-patient/
texas baptist licensed professional counselor, "Pray about it...take it to God, and then take it to people who you know, and trust...Jesus being perfect but not flawless as a sinless human and the need for a community to battle isolation." https://www.denisonforum.org/biblical-living/podcast/mental-health-psychology-and-faith-a-conversation-with-chris-legg-lpc/
Pastor Randy Reid, Clanton First Assembly of God, "mass shootings in America is not a mental illness problem, it’s a spiritual problem." https://www.clantonadvertiser.com/2023/05/29/column-its-not-just-mental-illness/
new york city mayor, "Adams unwittingly implies that the Nazi response to schizophrenics is acceptable: murder them...poverty as proof of dangerous and savage psychosis." https://www.citywatchla.com/index.php/cw/important-reads/27013-the-death-penalty-for-homelessness CBS video on 176,000 calls per year. https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/jordan-neely-death-mental-health-crisis-new-york-city/
Ineffective addiction treatment $24 billion by 2030, more than 20 million Americans. Global behavioural health market $128 billion. https://www.globenewswire.com/news-release/2023/05/30/2678490/0/en/Addiction-Treatment-Market-Size-Worth-USD-24-3-Billion-by-2030-at-9-2-CAGR-Report-by-Market-Research-Future-MRFR.html https://www.pharmiweb.com/press-release/2023-05-30/behavioural-health-market-to-attain-an-estimated-worth-of-us-1562-billion-by-2028-at-a-cagr-of-34
"What are the causes of hallucinations?...Stress and traumatic events...Deprivation of senses...Epilepsy and seizures...antipsychotics, antidepressants, and antihistamines...mess with the way neurotransmitters work in the brain, which can change how people see things." https://www.sportskeeda.com/health-and-fitness/what-are-common-causes-hallucination
"paranoid"...malevolent spirits of Muslim culture...he could feel the presence of the jinn but not see it. What the officer witnessed was his trying to fight the powerlessness he felt as Jinn cursed him." https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/up-and-running/202304/the-hallucinations-you-never-heard-of
Noone should modify someone's body without informed consent. "perception of autistic people and people with [intellectual and developmental disabilities] overall, that we’re not able to make our own decisions. Big decisions like those around health care, education, living arrangements,” they said. “All too often our decisions are viewed with suspicion and fear...In Arkansas, doctors can shield themselves against lawsuits over gender-affirming care if they can prove that their minor patient did not have conditions including autism, depression, ADHD, an eating disorder, an intellectual disability or a psychotic disorder." https://19thnews.org/2023/05/trans-laws-autistic-youth-mental-health/
florida termination of guardianship forms https://www.formsworkflow.com/Form/searchresults/17503-flssi-guardianship-termination-of/1
"Brain in Hand combines practical solution-based coaching with a user-led digital self-management system to help (autistic) individuals build their independence." https://www.miragenews.com/digital-support-reduces-anxiety-in-autistic-1016215/
No penalty for 3 british murders including a 20 year old woman, "choked in her sleep after being given inappropriate medication which had caused 'significant sedation'. The coroner said there was insufficient consideration of 'polypharmacy." https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/people-shouldnt-live-poor-conditions-27003379
Deprescribing "four drugs for his moods." https://medshadow.org/14-prescriptions-by-different-doctors/
"Research suggests a connection between low iron levels and symptoms of depression, anxiety, and schizophrenia, Levin and Gattari write." https://www.newswise.com/articles/could-low-iron-be-making-your-mental-health-symptoms-worse
Some processed frozen "meals contribute toward inflammation in the gut, which is where most serotonin...2015 study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition suggested sugary and starchy foods could contribute to depression." https://news.yahoo.com/5-foods-negative-impact-mental-094501356.html
risperdal and haldol cause me muscle spasms. "Serotonin syndrome − a rare but very serious drug reaction...ending the pain once it starts − include standing or walking around, massaging the affected area, improved (calcium) nutrition, sleeping in comfortable positions" doesn't work on my face. https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2023/05/29/what-causes-muscle-spasms/70249143007/
"I'm not a doctor, but I play one on federal court." https://images.cartoonstock.com/lowres/abortions-rights-usa-judge-matthew_kacsmaryk-abortion_pills-abortion_drugs-prescription-EC501549_low.jpg
Boot Camps for (kidnapped) Kids: Tough Love or Torture, "even going to the bathroom requires permission (as at zucker hillside)." Comment, "80% fail bc their parents didn't go." https://youtu.be/A7Y_yEiJJCU
True story of 40 murders, "Boot Camp" (2008) starring Mila Kunis, "He's not even a real doctor...I don't recognize your fucking credentials." https://youtu.be/idBabcDUy-Q
Three For The Road 1987 Charlie Sheen movie about politician's daughter "doped to the gills" and kidnapped to institution. https://youtu.be/VgB84kX9emE
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"common medications that can trigger depression...Beta blockers...birth control...Levodopa or Sinemet CR are used to treat Parkinson's...Corticosteroids...Stimulants." https://m.jpost.com/health-and-wellness/article-744470
"Certified Peer Support (CPS) specialists to do the outreach. At this point, the INSET model in Westchester County, NY may be the only fully functioning program. They currently have 4 CPS assisting 20 individuals each...But it is not, I repeat not, a relationship of the CPS telling an individual what they have to do or choose." https://mhpolicy.org/finding-a-better-way/
Palestinian doctor in ireland, "patient’s (Qatari) father had “cried and cried and cried”...A psychiatric assessment would take a minimum of between 50 and 60 minutes." Why did suffolk county court blindly believe dr. hsiesh who didn't let me speak and met for less than 5 minutes? https://www.irishtimes.com/health/2023/05/29/doctor-denies-acting-as-representative-of-the-qatari-embassy-to-treat-psychiatric-patient/
texas baptist licensed professional counselor, "Pray about it...take it to God, and then take it to people who you know, and trust...Jesus being perfect but not flawless as a sinless human and the need for a community to battle isolation." https://www.denisonforum.org/biblical-living/podcast/mental-health-psychology-and-faith-a-conversation-with-chris-legg-lpc/
Pastor Randy Reid, Clanton First Assembly of God, "mass shootings in America is not a mental illness problem, it’s a spiritual problem." https://www.clantonadvertiser.com/2023/05/29/column-its-not-just-mental-illness/
new york city mayor, "Adams unwittingly implies that the Nazi response to schizophrenics is acceptable: murder them...poverty as proof of dangerous and savage psychosis." https://www.citywatchla.com/index.php/cw/important-reads/27013-the-death-penalty-for-homelessness CBS video on 176,000 calls per year. https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/jordan-neely-death-mental-health-crisis-new-york-city/
Ineffective addiction treatment $24 billion by 2030, more than 20 million Americans. Global behavioural health market $128 billion. https://www.globenewswire.com/news-release/2023/05/30/2678490/0/en/Addiction-Treatment-Market-Size-Worth-USD-24-3-Billion-by-2030-at-9-2-CAGR-Report-by-Market-Research-Future-MRFR.html https://www.pharmiweb.com/press-release/2023-05-30/behavioural-health-market-to-attain-an-estimated-worth-of-us-1562-billion-by-2028-at-a-cagr-of-34
"What are the causes of hallucinations?...Stress and traumatic events...Deprivation of senses...Epilepsy and seizures...antipsychotics, antidepressants, and antihistamines...mess with the way neurotransmitters work in the brain, which can change how people see things." https://www.sportskeeda.com/health-and-fitness/what-are-common-causes-hallucination
"paranoid"...malevolent spirits of Muslim culture...he could feel the presence of the jinn but not see it. What the officer witnessed was his trying to fight the powerlessness he felt as Jinn cursed him." https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/up-and-running/202304/the-hallucinations-you-never-heard-of
Noone should modify someone's body without informed consent. "perception of autistic people and people with [intellectual and developmental disabilities] overall, that we’re not able to make our own decisions. Big decisions like those around health care, education, living arrangements,” they said. “All too often our decisions are viewed with suspicion and fear...In Arkansas, doctors can shield themselves against lawsuits over gender-affirming care if they can prove that their minor patient did not have conditions including autism, depression, ADHD, an eating disorder, an intellectual disability or a psychotic disorder." https://19thnews.org/2023/05/trans-laws-autistic-youth-mental-health/
florida termination of guardianship forms https://www.formsworkflow.com/Form/searchresults/17503-flssi-guardianship-termination-of/1
"Brain in Hand combines practical solution-based coaching with a user-led digital self-management system to help (autistic) individuals build their independence." https://www.miragenews.com/digital-support-reduces-anxiety-in-autistic-1016215/
No penalty for 3 british murders including a 20 year old woman, "choked in her sleep after being given inappropriate medication which had caused 'significant sedation'. The coroner said there was insufficient consideration of 'polypharmacy." https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/people-shouldnt-live-poor-conditions-27003379
Deprescribing "four drugs for his moods." https://medshadow.org/14-prescriptions-by-different-doctors/
"Research suggests a connection between low iron levels and symptoms of depression, anxiety, and schizophrenia, Levin and Gattari write." https://www.newswise.com/articles/could-low-iron-be-making-your-mental-health-symptoms-worse
Some processed frozen "meals contribute toward inflammation in the gut, which is where most serotonin...2015 study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition suggested sugary and starchy foods could contribute to depression." https://news.yahoo.com/5-foods-negative-impact-mental-094501356.html
risperdal and haldol cause me muscle spasms. "Serotonin syndrome − a rare but very serious drug reaction...ending the pain once it starts − include standing or walking around, massaging the affected area, improved (calcium) nutrition, sleeping in comfortable positions" doesn't work on my face. https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2023/05/29/what-causes-muscle-spasms/70249143007/
"I'm not a doctor, but I play one on federal court." https://images.cartoonstock.com/lowres/abortions-rights-usa-judge-matthew_kacsmaryk-abortion_pills-abortion_drugs-prescription-EC501549_low.jpg
Boot Camps for (kidnapped) Kids: Tough Love or Torture, "even going to the bathroom requires permission (as at zucker hillside)." Comment, "80% fail bc their parents didn't go." https://youtu.be/A7Y_yEiJJCU
True story of 40 murders, "Boot Camp" (2008) starring Mila Kunis, "He's not even a real doctor...I don't recognize your fucking credentials." https://youtu.be/idBabcDUy-Q
Three For The Road 1987 Charlie Sheen movie about politician's daughter "doped to the gills" and kidnapped to institution. https://youtu.be/VgB84kX9emE
2023.05.31 01:24 mrsvee Day 6 - 5MO - Looking for guidance?
Hey all, apologies in advance for the length of this.
I want to begin with my most humble thanks. This community and its positive regard for sleep training along with its wealth of information has quite literally saved my family. If I hadn't begun the sleep training journey I truly think I would have been committed. Moving on!
We are on day 6/night 7 of sleep training our 5 month 2 week, breastfed, formerly co-sleeping/nurse to sleep baby, Charlotte. I'm really impressed with how well it has gone so far, but there are still a couple of areas I think we need some advice on and I'm open to any and all critique from those more knowledgeable than myself. Here's our current schedule-
5AM - wake up (usually she is stirring from around 4, and absolutely cannot settle, this is one area of opportunity I would like to address)
6AM first nap - 90 minutes
7.30-10ish awake
10-12 2nd nap - 120 minutes
12-230ish awake
230-315 3rd nap, 30-45 min tops (I'll interrupt if she starts going over)
15 minute catnap around 5:30 in a carrier or in the car
700 bedtime (that is IF we can keep her up that long, she is generally miserable and ends up going down around 630/645)
She will often wake after being put to bed but I don't intervene until at least 10PM, at which point we often end up co-sleeping.
Naps are a dream. She does still fuss/cry probably 50% of the time but it's for one or two minutes tops. Going down at night? She really doesn't do as well. Still, her initial time going down for bed at night isn't too bad, but she wakes after the first sleep cycle and has a LOT of difficulty getting back to sleep.
So, I guess this is only day 7 and perhaps I need to just give it time to see if things adjust a little on their own, but if I could - I would really love to not get up at 4AM and have her taking a nap an hour after she wakes up every day. I also would love to understand/address why it's so much harder for her to go down at night than at nap time.
I'm also curious how to navigate breastfeeding at night. I don't believe she is ready to night wean yet. Is there a world in which we can continue a couple of night feedings without ruining our sleep training progress?
And honestly, any other areas of opportunity that someone may see- I am totally open! Thanks so much for your time!
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I want to begin with my most humble thanks. This community and its positive regard for sleep training along with its wealth of information has quite literally saved my family. If I hadn't begun the sleep training journey I truly think I would have been committed. Moving on!
We are on day 6/night 7 of sleep training our 5 month 2 week, breastfed, formerly co-sleeping/nurse to sleep baby, Charlotte. I'm really impressed with how well it has gone so far, but there are still a couple of areas I think we need some advice on and I'm open to any and all critique from those more knowledgeable than myself. Here's our current schedule-
5AM - wake up (usually she is stirring from around 4, and absolutely cannot settle, this is one area of opportunity I would like to address)
6AM first nap - 90 minutes
7.30-10ish awake
10-12 2nd nap - 120 minutes
12-230ish awake
230-315 3rd nap, 30-45 min tops (I'll interrupt if she starts going over)
15 minute catnap around 5:30 in a carrier or in the car
700 bedtime (that is IF we can keep her up that long, she is generally miserable and ends up going down around 630/645)
She will often wake after being put to bed but I don't intervene until at least 10PM, at which point we often end up co-sleeping.
Naps are a dream. She does still fuss/cry probably 50% of the time but it's for one or two minutes tops. Going down at night? She really doesn't do as well. Still, her initial time going down for bed at night isn't too bad, but she wakes after the first sleep cycle and has a LOT of difficulty getting back to sleep.
So, I guess this is only day 7 and perhaps I need to just give it time to see if things adjust a little on their own, but if I could - I would really love to not get up at 4AM and have her taking a nap an hour after she wakes up every day. I also would love to understand/address why it's so much harder for her to go down at night than at nap time.
I'm also curious how to navigate breastfeeding at night. I don't believe she is ready to night wean yet. Is there a world in which we can continue a couple of night feedings without ruining our sleep training progress?
And honestly, any other areas of opportunity that someone may see- I am totally open! Thanks so much for your time!
2023.05.31 01:24 CommanderKeys1207 How Do I Move Past Credit Card Rejections And Understand What I'm Doing Wrong?
I was rejected from two credit cards recently for different reasons when I thought I was safe and I'm struggling to understand some of the details. I'm hoping that this group can help me understand what I did wrong, what actions to take, and when I'll be able to apply for additional cards.
At the time of the applications, I was at 5/24, 3/12, 1/6, and 1/3 (add 1 to each of the numbers if the system counts my corporate credit card, which it shouldn't as it doesn't show up on my personal credit reports).
Rejection 1: Capital One SavorOne
Reasons for Rejection (Transunion was cited as the main bureau though all 4 were listed):
Rejection 2: Citi AAdvantage Platinum Select
Reasons for Rejection (Experian was cited as the only bureau):
My solutions (tentative, as I am curious what other more experienced people suggest here):
General postscript question: How do people get so many cards so quickly? I see people who are 10/24 or more and they still get approved.
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At the time of the applications, I was at 5/24, 3/12, 1/6, and 1/3 (add 1 to each of the numbers if the system counts my corporate credit card, which it shouldn't as it doesn't show up on my personal credit reports).
- Credit Score 750-770.
- Total open personal cards: 7.
- I have never missed a payment or carried a balance.
- Utilization: Credit Karma tells me that the system thinks I have 43% utilization on one card and 10% on another with 1% or less on the others. This represents about a 3% utilization across all my cards.
Rejection 1: Capital One SavorOne
Reasons for Rejection (Transunion was cited as the main bureau though all 4 were listed):
- Based on your credit report from one or more of the agencies on the back of this letter, number of bank cards tradelines opened in the last 24 months.
- Based on your credit report from one or more of the agencies on the back of this letter, there are too many revolving accounts.
Rejection 2: Citi AAdvantage Platinum Select
Reasons for Rejection (Experian was cited as the only bureau):
- Your credit report shows a large number of unused credit compared to your available credit lines.
- Your credit report shows you recently opened one or more accounts.
- Also, Experian cited "Insufficient credit history on accounts." I have had credit cards for more than a decade and my average account age is more than 3 years. How is this accurate?
My solutions (tentative, as I am curious what other more experienced people suggest here):
- Reduce my available credit limits (at the time of application they were at 90% of my annual income).
- Submit a request for consideration with Citi on the Platinum Select after reducing my available credit and noting the report had incorrect information (to at least make them confirm more details).
- Wait several months to let my recent card in March to be older. Due to some uses, I want to wait the minimum reasonable time but know I can't rush this and might want to wait until September to get to 0/6). Between the two, the Platinum Select is more important to my plans.
- For CapitalOne, it seems they follow 5/24? I was researching this after my rejection and saw some references to it. If so, I'll follow this rule.
General postscript question: How do people get so many cards so quickly? I see people who are 10/24 or more and they still get approved.
2023.05.31 01:23 MilkweedStars ~{Class Fight}~
 | ”CERES STOP!” submitted by MilkweedStars to GachaClubPOV [link] [comments] Those words was the only thing you needed to hear to know that top student, Ceres Estrella, was currently beating up the principal’s daughter. Ceres was your friend, and you knew that he doesn’t fight unless it was for defense but this one doesn’t seem for defense. It seemed that it was out of jealousy and anger. This was very out of character for him, he never acts like this. He doesn’t starts fights! And him fighting with Kelly, unbelievable….but…what even happened? —————————————————— ~{Backstory}~ ”Mummy why do I feel sad, should give him away or feel this bad?” At the dining table, Ceres looked at his food with sadness in his eyes. You knew that he had a crush on the boy next door to his house, but his chances with him were low. Heartbreak was waiting at the door if he ever confessed to him. So, he stood quietly during lunch as he looked at the boy from far away. Problem was, Kelly also seemed to like him. And she was being a little bitch by teasing and taunting Ceres about the boy. He tried to stay away from her, but she was persistent about it. And there was nothing he could do, she was the principal’s daughter and can easily blackmail his secrets. ”No no no! Don’t you choke-“ Daddy chimed in, ”Go for the throat.” ”For the throat?!” Ceres’ mother protested against his father as he looked at him in shock. He can’t do that! He doesn’t have the guts to hurt anyone. But his father looked down at him, his eyes silted like a cat’s eye as he repeated it again ”Go for the throat. Don’t be weak Ceres.” Father got up from his seat as he left the dining room, Ceres could only sit there speechless. Pluto put his hand on his shoulder, clearly worried for him. ”You don’t have to listen to him Ceres…” ~{End of Backstory}~ —————————————————— Looking at Ceres, it was clear that he was in a fit of rage. He loomed over at Kelly, growling as he seemed to not give up so easily…. Pluto tried to make him stop, but he didn’t. Students started surrounding them as they chanted at them to fight. Rules: •You can’t join in the fight, or do you want to be expelled 🤨/j •You will be a student, please- •No harming or killing •Rules from subreddit rawr, this was inspired from Class Fight by Melanie Martinez. this was childish jenny, see ya! |
2023.05.31 01:23 Pulelehua ~ Island wide community events for the month of June ~
Aloha everyone!
It’s been awhile since we put together a list of events. With so many things happening in the month of June and throughout the summer time, I thought it’d be nice to have a monthly community calendar again.
If there’s anything exciting that you know of happening in June ~ feel free to share it in the comments!
The festival is a culturally based experience for both local residents and visitors. It is organized as a combined multi generational effort including members of the community from all spheres of influence - providing them with a platform to showcase the gifts and talents of those cultures present in Hawaii. Presentations of cultural dance expression, culturally based education programs, food, music, fashion and art will be held throughout the three day event.
https://www.hikuauli.com
Adorned in the flowers and colors of the Hawaiian Islands, regal pāʻū riders on horseback will represent each of the eight islands, led by their respective princesses and the pāʻū queen. The floral parade will also feature hula hālau, equestrian units, marching bands, a horse-drawn carriage and more.
After the parade, enjoy a ho‘olaule‘a (music and art festival) at Hulihe‘e Palace, including a free concert featuring top Hawaiian recording artists. Then take time to visit the many shops, galleries and historic landmarks of Historic Kailua Village.
https://konaparade.org
All proceeds from the Day go towards the historic preservation, maintenance and operations of the Palace and grounds.
https://daughtersofhawaii.org/events/hoolaulea/
Ka‘ahumanu Place will be closed on Saturday for the annual Kamehameha Day canoe regatta craft fair with exciting vendors, a food booth and more.
https://bigislandnow.com/2023/05/16/50th-annual-kamehameha-day-canoe-regatta-coming-to-kailua-pie
Although North Kohala is a small community, each year on June 11th it puts forth a large grassroots effort to present a full day of celebration and tribute to King Kamehameha I. Visitors are welcomed to the North Kohala towns of Hawi and Kapa'au on Sunday, June 11, 2023 to take part in this unique local event. All events are free.
https://hawaiilgbtlegacyfoundation.com/events/hawaiʻi-island-lgbtq-pride/
All events are free, but entrance fees may apply. Some programs are sponsored by Friends of Hawai‘i Volcanoes National Park and Hawai‘i Pacific Parks Association. Programs are subject to change or cancellation without notice. Check the park calendar for more information.
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It’s been awhile since we put together a list of events. With so many things happening in the month of June and throughout the summer time, I thought it’d be nice to have a monthly community calendar again.
If there’s anything exciting that you know of happening in June ~ feel free to share it in the comments!
- Hawaiʻi Kuauli Pacific & Asia Cultural Festival ~ June 9-11th ~
The festival is a culturally based experience for both local residents and visitors. It is organized as a combined multi generational effort including members of the community from all spheres of influence - providing them with a platform to showcase the gifts and talents of those cultures present in Hawaii. Presentations of cultural dance expression, culturally based education programs, food, music, fashion and art will be held throughout the three day event.
https://www.hikuauli.com
- King Kamehameha Day Celebration Parade in Historic Kailua Village ~ June 10th ~
Adorned in the flowers and colors of the Hawaiian Islands, regal pāʻū riders on horseback will represent each of the eight islands, led by their respective princesses and the pāʻū queen. The floral parade will also feature hula hālau, equestrian units, marching bands, a horse-drawn carriage and more.
After the parade, enjoy a ho‘olaule‘a (music and art festival) at Hulihe‘e Palace, including a free concert featuring top Hawaiian recording artists. Then take time to visit the many shops, galleries and historic landmarks of Historic Kailua Village.
https://konaparade.org
- King Kamehameha Day Celebration Ho‘olaule‘a at the Hulihe‘e Palace ~ June 10th ~
All proceeds from the Day go towards the historic preservation, maintenance and operations of the Palace and grounds.
https://daughtersofhawaii.org/events/hoolaulea/
- 50th annual Kamehameha Day canoe regatta at the Kailua Pier ~ June 10th ~
Ka‘ahumanu Place will be closed on Saturday for the annual Kamehameha Day canoe regatta craft fair with exciting vendors, a food booth and more.
https://bigislandnow.com/2023/05/16/50th-annual-kamehameha-day-canoe-regatta-coming-to-kailua-pie
- North Kohala Kamehameha Day Celebration ~ June 11th ~
Although North Kohala is a small community, each year on June 11th it puts forth a large grassroots effort to present a full day of celebration and tribute to King Kamehameha I. Visitors are welcomed to the North Kohala towns of Hawi and Kapa'au on Sunday, June 11, 2023 to take part in this unique local event. All events are free.
- Procession of Royal Societies 8:00 AM - 9:00 AM. There are four Royal Societies: The Royal Order of Kamehameha, ʻAhahui Kaʻahumanu, Hale o Nā Aliʻi and Māmakakaua (Daughters and Sons of Hawaiian Warriors). The four Royal Societies will lead, followed by the Daughters of Hawaiʻi, the ʻAhahui Kaʻiulani and Hawaiian Civic Clubs.
- Lei Draping Ceremony and Tradition Paʻu Parade 9:00 AM - 10:30 AM: See the original statue of King Kamehameha I in all its holiday glory. The statue in Kapa'au is decorated with many 20-foot-long floral lei created in tribute to the King. Watch a traditional pa'u parade with horses and riders adorned in flowers and colors to represent each Hawaiian Island. At 9:00 AM the road closes while Honorees and Pa'u riders make their way from Kohala High and Elementary School to the statue and Kamehameha Park in Kapa'au. Parade to begin promptly at 9:00 AM.
- Hana Noeʻau 11:00 AM - 2:00 PM: Enjoy "hands-on"education exhibits that ends the dayʻs festivities at the statue.
- ʻAha 12:00 PM - 1:00 PM: Join us as we celebrate the Kohala Festivities and the ceremonial release of KŪKULU, A Tribute to the Pillars of Mauna a Wākea, a compilation CD acknowledging, recognizing and honoring all who stand for Mauna Kea and places everywhere around the world.
- Hawaiʻi Island LGBTQ Pride ~ June 24th ~
https://hawaiilgbtlegacyfoundation.com/events/hawaiʻi-island-lgbtq-pride/
- June Events at Hawai‘i Volcanoes National Park ~
All events are free, but entrance fees may apply. Some programs are sponsored by Friends of Hawai‘i Volcanoes National Park and Hawai‘i Pacific Parks Association. Programs are subject to change or cancellation without notice. Check the park calendar for more information.
- Battle of Midway: A Japanese Perspective – The Battle of Midway, June 4 – 7, 1942, marked a turning point in World War II. The U.S. Navy and the Imperial Japanese Navy would stand toe-to-toe battling for control of the Pacific. From the first decoded messages to the strategic decisions that would alter the course of history, Ben Hayes, historian and program manager for the park’s Interpretation & Education team, takes us through this epic conflict from a different perspective. Part of Hawai‘i Volcanoes’ ongoing After Dark in the Park programs and sponsored by the Friends of Hawaiʻi Volcanoes National Park. Free, but park entrance fees apply.
- When: June 6 at 7 p.m. Doors open at 6:30 p.m.
- Where: Kīlauea Visitor Center auditorium
- Ulana Lau Hala Demonstration – Learn to weave lau hala with practitioners from ʻAha Pūhala o Puna. Hawaiians have used hala (pandanus) tree to create many useful and beautiful items for centuries. Learn to weave lau hala and take home your own small piece of lau hala art. Part of Hawaiʻi Volcanoes National Park’s ongoing ‘Ike Hana Noʻeau (Experience the Skillful Work) Hawaiian cultural programs, and co-sponsored by Hawai‘i Pacific Parks Association and the Friends of Hawai‘i Volcanoes National Park. Free, but park entrance fees apply.
- When: June 14 from 10 a.m. to noon
- Where: ʻŌhiʻa Wing (across Crater Rim Drive from Kīlauea Visitor Center)
- Saving Wahi Pana (Storied Places) in Kaʻū – Discover how the County of Hawaiʻi Public Access, Open Space, Natural and Cultural Resource Commission (PONC) program and your tax dollars are preserving public access, open space, and natural and cultural resources in Kaʻū. Presented by Alexandra Kelepolo and Jodie Rosam. Part of Hawaiʻi Volcanoes’ ongoing Kahuku Coffee Talk programs and sponsored by Hawaiʻi Pacific Parks Association. Free admission, and Kaʻū coffee will be available for sale.
- When: June 17 at 9:30 a.m.
- Where: Kahuku Visitor Contact Station
- Bert Naihe in Concert – Come be entertained by the Hawaiian music of Bert Naihe. Born and raised in Hilo, Bert enjoys the art of Hawaiian music and performs with Hālau o ka Ua Kanilehua and Kumu Hula Johnny Lum Ho. Bert’s first CD, “You’re the One,” was released in 2014 and features his own catchy versions of longtime favorites. Part of Hawaiʻi Volcanoes National Park’s ongoing Nā Leo Manu Hawaiian cultural programs, and co-sponsored by Hawai‘i Pacific Parks Association and the Friends of Hawaiʻi Volcanoes National Park. Free, but park entrance fees apply.
- When: June 21 from 7 p.m. to 8 p.m.
- Where: Kīlauea Visitor Center Auditorium
- Uēkahuna, Thomas A. Jaggar Museum, and the Hawaiian Volcano Observatory – For decades, the Thomas A. Jaggar Museum has welcomed people from all over the world, sharing volcano science and Hawaiian culture adjacent to the awe-inspiring view that is Kīlauea volcano. The earthquakes of the 2018 eruption and summit collapse damaged the foundations of the historic buildings beyond repair. Join Jadelyn Moniz-Nakamura, Ph.D., as she takes us on a journey through the past of this sacred place known as Uēkahuna. The evolution of the area will be shared on the eve of the park’s efforts to restore a more natural landscape and provide a dramatic viewing area and rest stop for locals and visitors alike. Part of Hawai‘i Volcanoes’ ongoing After Dark in the Park programs and sponsored by the Friends of Hawaiʻi Volcanoes National Park. Free, but park entrance fees apply.
- When: June 20 at 7 p.m.
- Where: Kīlauea Visitor Center auditorium
- Artist-in-Residence Comics Journalist Andy Warner Returns – Join the park in welcoming back New York Times bestselling comics journalist, author and artist Andy Warner as the artist in residence for June. Come meet Andy as he presents the creative mind behind the art. Part of Hawai‘i Volcanoes’ ongoing After Dark in the Park programs and sponsored by the Friends of Hawaiʻi Volcanoes National Park and the National Parks Arts Foundation. Free, but park entrance fees apply.
- When: June 27 at 7 p.m.
- Where: Kīlauea Visitor Center auditorium
- Explore Kahuku – The Kahuku Unit, one of Hawai‘i Volcanoes National Park’s best-kept secrets, is open Thursday through Sunday from 8 a.m. to 4 p.m., and it’s free! Guided ranger programs and talks are offered on the weekends, check the park calendar for more info. Sturdy footwear, water, rain gear, sun protection and a snack are recommended for all hikes.
- When: Thursday through Sunday, 8 a.m. to 4 p.m.
- Where: Kahuku is located in Ka‘ū, about a 50-minute drive south of the park’s main entrance. Enter Kahuku on the mauka (inland) side of Highway 11 near mile marker 70.5
- A Walk into the Past with Dr. Thomas A. Jaggar – Walk back to 1939 and talk with the founder of the Hawaiian Volcano Observatory, Dr. Thomas A. Jaggar, at the edge of Kīlauea volcano. Dressed in period costume, actor Dick Hershberger brings the renowned geologist to life. You’ll learn what motivated Dr. Jaggar to dedicate his life to the study of Hawaiian volcanoes, and how his work helps save lives today. Space is limited; pick up a free ticket at the Kīlauea Visitor Center lānai the day of the program. This program is subject to cancellation during inclement weather. Supported by Kīlauea Drama Entertainment Network.
- When: Fridays, June 2, 9, 16, 23 and 30 at 9:30 a.m. and 11:30 a.m. Each performance is about an hour
- Where: Meet at Kīlauea Visitor Center
- Stewardship at the Summit Rainforest Restoration – Volunteer to help remove invasive, non-native plant species that prevent native plants from growing in Hawai‘i Volcanoes National Park. Wear sturdy hiking shoes and long pants. Bring a hat, rain gear, day pack, snacks and water. Gloves and tools are provided. Under 18? Parental or guardian accompaniment with written consent is required. Visit the park website for details.
- When: June 2, 10, 16, 24 & 30. Meet at 8:45 a.m.
- Where: Meet project leaders Paul and Jane Field at Kīlauea Visitor Center on any of the above dates
- Explore the Summit and Other Ranger-Led Walks – Discover Kīlauea volcano on an easy one-hour, ranger-led walk offered daily. Other ranger-led programs may be offered; check with rangers at Kīlauea Visitor Center for additional programs.
- When: Explore the Summit is offered daily at 11 a.m. and 2 p.m.
- Where: Meet at Kīlauea Visitor Center lānai
2023.05.31 01:23 HercHuntsdirty Girlfriend Left After I Opened Up About Anxiety
I (26M) was recently broken up with by my (24F) girlfriend of 6 years right after opening up to her about how I had been struggling a lot mentally recently. That's not necessarily the cause, but it happens to be a terrible coincidence. It sucks because it was incredibly difficult to open up about to begin with. I’ve always been Steady Eddy for her and my family, I was the athlete, reliable etc so it just added to the pressure to not talk about it.
Backstory to the unfortunate mental struggles:
About 10 weeks ago I had a very long night out and woke up extremely hungover. My brother met up with me that night in our parents car and ended up staying with us for a few drinks, so evidently he left the car.
Of course, I woke up and had a boatload of caffeine so I was already on edge a little bit. My brother was still asleep, so my mom asked me if I could quickly drive my dad to the car so he could take it home. No problem, I hopped in my car and drove there with my dad.
On the way home, completely unprovoked and no anxiety prior, I had an insane panic attack. I’ve never experienced anything like it before. I think I’ve only had one panic attack in my life, and for some reason it left me with a very small amount of social anxiety but it slowly went away over the years. During this attack, my hands and feet were completely numb and sweating. At first, I had literally no idea what was going on - I thought it was a legitimate health issue. I ended up taking a bit to drive home, but I made it.
Unfortunately since then it left me with anxiety while driving. It really bothers me given that I am a car fanatic and always dreamed of owning something cool, Plus, the last thing I want is to fear a panic attack every time I get behind the wheel.
Since then, I've just had heightened anxiety in general. I've had one other panic attack in the past (about 5 years ago while we were early in to our relationship) and it left lingering anxiety, but I knew it wasn't permanent. I learned to manage it from the first panic attack, it just took some time. I'm hoping I can start a clean slate and forget the lingering affects of both that happened in the past.
Mental Health Backstory on her end:
To preface this, we both have anxiety/depression in our genetics unfortunately. In fact, her mom spent some time in the hospital when they were young because of how bad it got.
She also apparently had a ton of anxiety from work recently (she's a nurse, I'm in tech).
On my mothers side of the family, my mom, grandma and great grandma have struggled with anxiety their entire lives, some of them taking antidepressants.
Not fun genes for either of us to have, but we persevered!
Our Relationship:
This is what has been getting to me, our relationship was very healthy. We argued probably 2-3 times per year, we spent the majority of days together - as we lived only a 5 minute drive apart. We were both fully a part of each other's families. All of the normal relationship stuff, we were completely engulfed in it. We had also been looking at engagement rings for a bit and ALWAYS talked about our life together.
When I was about 19 before we were together, I used to drunkenly talk about her all of the time to my friends saying "if she ever gets out of the relationship with her boyfriend (at that time) she's the one I'm going for". When I was graduating high school, I went into her class on yearbook day, grabbed her yearbook and wrote my number in it. Long story short, she ended up single and within a month of that happening, we were together.
The "problems" we had over the years that were semi-recurring:
I didn't suggest enough of our plans. I explained to her a number of times that I'd happily go anywhere, I just don't tend to suggest ideas because sometimes she wanted to, other times she didn't. I've lived by the motto "happy wife, happy life" in that relationship, so I tended to go along with whatever she suggested.
We didn't take enough pictures together. I don't really like being in too many pictures and that bothered her.
We didn't travel together enough. This goes back to the anxiety, I hate flying and haven't done it in almost a decade. However, I have an appointment with my doctor in early July where I'm requesting some "emergencies only" anxiety medication to use for that exact scenario. Note - she went on a number of trips over the years with her closest friends. Furthermore, we had done weekend getaways via car together but those apparently don't count. To add, her friends are hopping on planes at least once per month to go somewhere, I think comparison became the thief of joy here.
I didn't tell her I loved her enough or hug her enough. This one is hard for me because I felt like I definitely told her I loved her a lot. She used to occasionally say "do you even love me", semi-joking but also serious, and I always told her of course I did and even though I may not say it a number of times a day, of course I do. I also did a TON of things for her to show how much I cared (ie. she very rarely had to make a lunch for work, I cooked for her almost every day and we don't even live together) The hugging thing is a bit different, as she's always been extremely affectionate and I never really have been. I truly think it comes down to how I was raised, affection just wasn't a huge part of my childhood. (note, that's not a problem for me or anything, I had incredible family/parents, it just wasn't as prominent as it was in her childhood)
I cared a lot about money and how we could set ourselves up to move out. She had taken 5 trips (two of them by train, three by plane) with her friends in the past year and after the 5th one I asked if she planned on slowing down so she could focus on tackling her student debt and so we could start saving to move out, have a wedding etc. Specifically, I wanted us to be in the position where we weren't renting a home, ESPECIALLY given how much money we were making combined. This part kind of confused me because she was the first one to suggest moving out, but when it came time to adjusting the lifestyle to prepare for it, she didn't like the idea. But, I did use it as a crutch for my anxiety to get out of things sometimes and I did open up to her about that. As an example though, I still went with her to the Gucci store and helped her pick out a very expensive purse to celebrate getting her first real nursing job after graduating. I don't feel that I cared about money (especially given the stage we were in in our lives) more than any of my buddies with girlfriends. I wanted us to be set up well for the coming stages of our lives; they were fast approaching. Furthermore, her friends are catching a plane every weekend and are living with their parents but pay cheque to pay cheque with no prospects of ever leaving unless it's renting
The Situation:
About 7-ish weeks ago, a few weeks after my panic attack, my girlfriend was very adamant that we needed to book a trip together. She said we hadn't been on a "real" trip during our relationship (by real, she means getting on a plane). We were sitting down in her bed on my laptop looking at destinations and flights, but I was incredibly anxious about the whole thing. As we were about to book, I broke down and was fully vulnerable to her for one of the first times in the 6 year relationship. I said that I just don't see myself getting onto a plane right now without some kind of medication to calm me down. On top of that, it would stress me out financially a bit, as I'm a full-time masters student and working full time. Plus, it was during my one-week semester break, so I honestly just wanted to relax.
From that day on, our relationship started going downhill. She said she felt extremely disappointed by the whole situation and she couldn't shake the feeling. We then started only hanging out maybe once per week and it was very bland when we did. A couple weeks after that incident, I slept over at her house and I could tell she was genuinely just not happy at that time.
Brief backstory - despite being 26, my mom still gives me a ton of flack if I sleep at her house. It was rare that I got away with it. But, I did it that night anyway because she always asked me to sleep over but I rarely wanted to have to deal with my mom. I thought it would help show her I'm really trying to get better. She also invited me over the following evening and I obviously went.
After that day, I don't think we saw each other for about 2 weeks. I texted her on a Friday evening and said I just don't feel like she wants to be with me anymore. She picked me up so we could talk, and explained that she felt very disappointed about how we were so close to booking the trip and ended up not doing it. She said she needed a break and I was fine with it, I understood where she was coming from.
During this time, I started seeing a therapist. I found one online who was one of the highest rated in my province and was also extremely experienced in marital/pre-marital counselling so I could tell her about the relationship issues I was having along with my anxiety.
Fast forward about 2 more weeks (last weekend) she texted me saying she was ready to talk and picked me up. She said it's probably best if we just end the relationship for the time being. She explained that she felt she had been disappointed a few times over the years and was bottling a lot of things up. She said she needed time to "find herself again" and didn't know if we would get back together at all in the future or not. Then, we sat there talking in her car for another 30 minutes like things were normal so it really threw me off.
I ended up texting her the next day and asked if I could pick her up because I was confused from the night prior since we talked so normally after the breakup conversation. We ended up talking again, sharing some tears and what not, but I kind of understood why she felt she needed to be alone for a bit, even though she didn't know if we would get back together or not. She said that people do this all of the time and sometimes they come back stronger, but if it was meant to be then we'll get back together. I also told her about how much help I'm getting and how I'm setting a goal to take a vacation when I finish my masters in November. She was noticeably happy and asked a lot about how I was talking to my therapist about improving as a person and a (what I thought was soon to be) fiancé. She asked for all of the details about what we talked about in regards to our relationship and was very happy that I was putting that much effort in.
A couple days ago is when she deleted are photos together, but it came right after she posted an Instagram story while out with a friend who has no stability whatsoever. This friend has been on and off with the same guy (who treats her terribly) for as long as we were together. Not to mention, she sleeps around a ton. I can't help but feel like some of this breakup is being influenced by her friends (specifically this one) wanting her to be single like they are out of jealousy or something. Or, they want her to be flying somewhere once a month with them with no plans for the future. My girlfriend has cried to me in the past because she had been brought to places she didn't want to be because her friend wanted to go for a guy. That friend has also been binge drinking several times weekly for years. The following night, her two friends posted a story of her incredibly drunk in the back of a car with her feet out of the window I'm sure in hopes that I would see it. We're grown ass adults, I can't help but feel like that's just not a cool thing to do to your friend in general? I don't care how drunk you are, in fact I expected her to have a night out with her friends and let loose but posting someone else like that is just insanely stupid to me! To put the icing on the cake, one of my long time buddies from high school decided to go for one of her friends and I gave him substantial warnings about her. Within a year, that relationship was completely over with and she was on to the next.
Neither of us were ever the type one to have one-night stands or get around, so I'm not concerned about anything like that during the breakup. If it happens it happens, but I won't be sleeping with anyone until I've put in all of my effort to saving everything we've built. She's only ever been with me and her ex, while I've had a handful more partners before her - but I've experienced enough in my 26 years to know that there was is only one woman for me.
After all of this, I still couldn't shake the feeling that I felt I was being abandoned during the one time in my entire life I've opened up to anyone and really wanted some support. I'm also just having a hard time processing why it happened and how I can salvage it.
I've texted her once per week since the breaks & breakup happened just telling her that I loved her and wished we were going to XYZ events coming up. I also always say in the message that "You don't have to respond or even read it, I just want you to know". I'm having a hard time deciding if I should continue giving her that weekly text or not, but I really do want her to know how much I care and thought we were a dream team.
I just can't help but feel like we had "problems" that were very fixable and were very minor compared to 99% of couples. Her two best friends have had 5+ boyfriends each in the time that we were together and countless one-night stands. Every time they would break up, I'd hear a story from my girlfriend about how terribly they were treated by these guys and we talked about how lucky we are to have each other. There was no forms of jealousy or self-consciousness between us either, neither of us were bothered when we went out alone with our respective friend groups. I also never for a second worried when she travelled with her friends that she'd cheat or something.
This wraps in with why I can't process the breakup. Aside from the few things we argued about here and there (few times a year) it was an incredibly healthy relationship. I had a great relationship with her friends (despite some of the things I've said about them above) and would often times opt to go out drinking with her group over my group of buddies. I acknowledged my shortcomings as a boyfriend (ie. the affection) with my therapist and she's giving me some help with it. Am I crazy for thinking 1. that I can fix what's happened and 2. Part of this breakup might just be her wanting to see how much I actually care?
Anyway, I might add to this if I remember more important points. I just needed to get some of this off my chest. If you've made it this far into my story, thanks for reading!
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Backstory to the unfortunate mental struggles:
About 10 weeks ago I had a very long night out and woke up extremely hungover. My brother met up with me that night in our parents car and ended up staying with us for a few drinks, so evidently he left the car.
Of course, I woke up and had a boatload of caffeine so I was already on edge a little bit. My brother was still asleep, so my mom asked me if I could quickly drive my dad to the car so he could take it home. No problem, I hopped in my car and drove there with my dad.
On the way home, completely unprovoked and no anxiety prior, I had an insane panic attack. I’ve never experienced anything like it before. I think I’ve only had one panic attack in my life, and for some reason it left me with a very small amount of social anxiety but it slowly went away over the years. During this attack, my hands and feet were completely numb and sweating. At first, I had literally no idea what was going on - I thought it was a legitimate health issue. I ended up taking a bit to drive home, but I made it.
Unfortunately since then it left me with anxiety while driving. It really bothers me given that I am a car fanatic and always dreamed of owning something cool, Plus, the last thing I want is to fear a panic attack every time I get behind the wheel.
Since then, I've just had heightened anxiety in general. I've had one other panic attack in the past (about 5 years ago while we were early in to our relationship) and it left lingering anxiety, but I knew it wasn't permanent. I learned to manage it from the first panic attack, it just took some time. I'm hoping I can start a clean slate and forget the lingering affects of both that happened in the past.
Mental Health Backstory on her end:
To preface this, we both have anxiety/depression in our genetics unfortunately. In fact, her mom spent some time in the hospital when they were young because of how bad it got.
She also apparently had a ton of anxiety from work recently (she's a nurse, I'm in tech).
On my mothers side of the family, my mom, grandma and great grandma have struggled with anxiety their entire lives, some of them taking antidepressants.
Not fun genes for either of us to have, but we persevered!
Our Relationship:
This is what has been getting to me, our relationship was very healthy. We argued probably 2-3 times per year, we spent the majority of days together - as we lived only a 5 minute drive apart. We were both fully a part of each other's families. All of the normal relationship stuff, we were completely engulfed in it. We had also been looking at engagement rings for a bit and ALWAYS talked about our life together.
When I was about 19 before we were together, I used to drunkenly talk about her all of the time to my friends saying "if she ever gets out of the relationship with her boyfriend (at that time) she's the one I'm going for". When I was graduating high school, I went into her class on yearbook day, grabbed her yearbook and wrote my number in it. Long story short, she ended up single and within a month of that happening, we were together.
The "problems" we had over the years that were semi-recurring:
I didn't suggest enough of our plans. I explained to her a number of times that I'd happily go anywhere, I just don't tend to suggest ideas because sometimes she wanted to, other times she didn't. I've lived by the motto "happy wife, happy life" in that relationship, so I tended to go along with whatever she suggested.
We didn't take enough pictures together. I don't really like being in too many pictures and that bothered her.
We didn't travel together enough. This goes back to the anxiety, I hate flying and haven't done it in almost a decade. However, I have an appointment with my doctor in early July where I'm requesting some "emergencies only" anxiety medication to use for that exact scenario. Note - she went on a number of trips over the years with her closest friends. Furthermore, we had done weekend getaways via car together but those apparently don't count. To add, her friends are hopping on planes at least once per month to go somewhere, I think comparison became the thief of joy here.
I didn't tell her I loved her enough or hug her enough. This one is hard for me because I felt like I definitely told her I loved her a lot. She used to occasionally say "do you even love me", semi-joking but also serious, and I always told her of course I did and even though I may not say it a number of times a day, of course I do. I also did a TON of things for her to show how much I cared (ie. she very rarely had to make a lunch for work, I cooked for her almost every day and we don't even live together) The hugging thing is a bit different, as she's always been extremely affectionate and I never really have been. I truly think it comes down to how I was raised, affection just wasn't a huge part of my childhood. (note, that's not a problem for me or anything, I had incredible family/parents, it just wasn't as prominent as it was in her childhood)
I cared a lot about money and how we could set ourselves up to move out. She had taken 5 trips (two of them by train, three by plane) with her friends in the past year and after the 5th one I asked if she planned on slowing down so she could focus on tackling her student debt and so we could start saving to move out, have a wedding etc. Specifically, I wanted us to be in the position where we weren't renting a home, ESPECIALLY given how much money we were making combined. This part kind of confused me because she was the first one to suggest moving out, but when it came time to adjusting the lifestyle to prepare for it, she didn't like the idea. But, I did use it as a crutch for my anxiety to get out of things sometimes and I did open up to her about that. As an example though, I still went with her to the Gucci store and helped her pick out a very expensive purse to celebrate getting her first real nursing job after graduating. I don't feel that I cared about money (especially given the stage we were in in our lives) more than any of my buddies with girlfriends. I wanted us to be set up well for the coming stages of our lives; they were fast approaching. Furthermore, her friends are catching a plane every weekend and are living with their parents but pay cheque to pay cheque with no prospects of ever leaving unless it's renting
The Situation:
About 7-ish weeks ago, a few weeks after my panic attack, my girlfriend was very adamant that we needed to book a trip together. She said we hadn't been on a "real" trip during our relationship (by real, she means getting on a plane). We were sitting down in her bed on my laptop looking at destinations and flights, but I was incredibly anxious about the whole thing. As we were about to book, I broke down and was fully vulnerable to her for one of the first times in the 6 year relationship. I said that I just don't see myself getting onto a plane right now without some kind of medication to calm me down. On top of that, it would stress me out financially a bit, as I'm a full-time masters student and working full time. Plus, it was during my one-week semester break, so I honestly just wanted to relax.
From that day on, our relationship started going downhill. She said she felt extremely disappointed by the whole situation and she couldn't shake the feeling. We then started only hanging out maybe once per week and it was very bland when we did. A couple weeks after that incident, I slept over at her house and I could tell she was genuinely just not happy at that time.
Brief backstory - despite being 26, my mom still gives me a ton of flack if I sleep at her house. It was rare that I got away with it. But, I did it that night anyway because she always asked me to sleep over but I rarely wanted to have to deal with my mom. I thought it would help show her I'm really trying to get better. She also invited me over the following evening and I obviously went.
After that day, I don't think we saw each other for about 2 weeks. I texted her on a Friday evening and said I just don't feel like she wants to be with me anymore. She picked me up so we could talk, and explained that she felt very disappointed about how we were so close to booking the trip and ended up not doing it. She said she needed a break and I was fine with it, I understood where she was coming from.
During this time, I started seeing a therapist. I found one online who was one of the highest rated in my province and was also extremely experienced in marital/pre-marital counselling so I could tell her about the relationship issues I was having along with my anxiety.
Fast forward about 2 more weeks (last weekend) she texted me saying she was ready to talk and picked me up. She said it's probably best if we just end the relationship for the time being. She explained that she felt she had been disappointed a few times over the years and was bottling a lot of things up. She said she needed time to "find herself again" and didn't know if we would get back together at all in the future or not. Then, we sat there talking in her car for another 30 minutes like things were normal so it really threw me off.
I ended up texting her the next day and asked if I could pick her up because I was confused from the night prior since we talked so normally after the breakup conversation. We ended up talking again, sharing some tears and what not, but I kind of understood why she felt she needed to be alone for a bit, even though she didn't know if we would get back together or not. She said that people do this all of the time and sometimes they come back stronger, but if it was meant to be then we'll get back together. I also told her about how much help I'm getting and how I'm setting a goal to take a vacation when I finish my masters in November. She was noticeably happy and asked a lot about how I was talking to my therapist about improving as a person and a (what I thought was soon to be) fiancé. She asked for all of the details about what we talked about in regards to our relationship and was very happy that I was putting that much effort in.
A couple days ago is when she deleted are photos together, but it came right after she posted an Instagram story while out with a friend who has no stability whatsoever. This friend has been on and off with the same guy (who treats her terribly) for as long as we were together. Not to mention, she sleeps around a ton. I can't help but feel like some of this breakup is being influenced by her friends (specifically this one) wanting her to be single like they are out of jealousy or something. Or, they want her to be flying somewhere once a month with them with no plans for the future. My girlfriend has cried to me in the past because she had been brought to places she didn't want to be because her friend wanted to go for a guy. That friend has also been binge drinking several times weekly for years. The following night, her two friends posted a story of her incredibly drunk in the back of a car with her feet out of the window I'm sure in hopes that I would see it. We're grown ass adults, I can't help but feel like that's just not a cool thing to do to your friend in general? I don't care how drunk you are, in fact I expected her to have a night out with her friends and let loose but posting someone else like that is just insanely stupid to me! To put the icing on the cake, one of my long time buddies from high school decided to go for one of her friends and I gave him substantial warnings about her. Within a year, that relationship was completely over with and she was on to the next.
Neither of us were ever the type one to have one-night stands or get around, so I'm not concerned about anything like that during the breakup. If it happens it happens, but I won't be sleeping with anyone until I've put in all of my effort to saving everything we've built. She's only ever been with me and her ex, while I've had a handful more partners before her - but I've experienced enough in my 26 years to know that there was is only one woman for me.
After all of this, I still couldn't shake the feeling that I felt I was being abandoned during the one time in my entire life I've opened up to anyone and really wanted some support. I'm also just having a hard time processing why it happened and how I can salvage it.
I've texted her once per week since the breaks & breakup happened just telling her that I loved her and wished we were going to XYZ events coming up. I also always say in the message that "You don't have to respond or even read it, I just want you to know". I'm having a hard time deciding if I should continue giving her that weekly text or not, but I really do want her to know how much I care and thought we were a dream team.
I just can't help but feel like we had "problems" that were very fixable and were very minor compared to 99% of couples. Her two best friends have had 5+ boyfriends each in the time that we were together and countless one-night stands. Every time they would break up, I'd hear a story from my girlfriend about how terribly they were treated by these guys and we talked about how lucky we are to have each other. There was no forms of jealousy or self-consciousness between us either, neither of us were bothered when we went out alone with our respective friend groups. I also never for a second worried when she travelled with her friends that she'd cheat or something.
This wraps in with why I can't process the breakup. Aside from the few things we argued about here and there (few times a year) it was an incredibly healthy relationship. I had a great relationship with her friends (despite some of the things I've said about them above) and would often times opt to go out drinking with her group over my group of buddies. I acknowledged my shortcomings as a boyfriend (ie. the affection) with my therapist and she's giving me some help with it. Am I crazy for thinking 1. that I can fix what's happened and 2. Part of this breakup might just be her wanting to see how much I actually care?
Anyway, I might add to this if I remember more important points. I just needed to get some of this off my chest. If you've made it this far into my story, thanks for reading!
2023.05.31 01:22 Pryncess121 PSLF Forgiveness and Sweet Refund? 🤞🏾
 | So... I have been in a limbo state because of transfers and timing. This speaks to receiving PSLF forgiveness prior to Sweet settlement finalizing and wondering if I'll get a refund as I'm in the full class. I'm thinking (hoping) so with negative balances showing? Unsure but will continue to be patient. Long detailed history below for context lol. Just sharing because nobody had been able to tell me anything other than Mohela saying "if you get PSLF forgiveness you won't get a refund." submitted by Pryncess121 to BorrowerDefense [link] [comments] -I went to Argosy University, applied for BD in January 2022. I am considered full class in the Sweet Settlement. -I attended school 2006-2009. Loans originally with AidVantage I believe, then consolidated and transferred to Sallie Mae/Navient. Once I started working in nonprofit, I started PSLF program and loans transferred to Fed Loan. - I've been keeping up with PSLF certifications over the years. I got notice about the PSLF waivers, and my payment counts last year were updated from 26 to about 78. I expected PSLF forgiveness to come within the next few years. -Last summer got notice about transfer to Mohela, and I had submitted new PSLF forms that were still processing. They transferred over to Mohela as processing along with my loan balances around Sept 2022. -January 4, 2023 I logged into Mohela to check status of my forms and saw a $0 balance. Also had a $0 balance onSl Student Aid but no notice. Finally talked with Mohela who verified I was considered PSLF direct to discharge and my loans were forgiven. They generated a letter for me and uploaded to my portal. They said my PSLF was granted in November 2022 but it was taking up to 90 days to notify borrowers. -Sweet settlement finalized January 28, 2023. No change since then on Student Aid or Mohela. I updated my AidVantage account login and contact info just in case anything there changed. -I got a random email from AidVantage this morning (5/30/2023) that looked like an automated email about payment pause and forbearance. Which didn't make sense because I have no loans. I then logged in to look at my account. All had zero balances which was expected, but then I clicked loan details to expand and the negative balances appeared. |
2023.05.31 01:21 throwaway8860072 NJ- Reimbursement for Uber
I was involved in a minor accident, my car was still drivable. The accident was 100% the other driver’s fault (rear end). I am filing the claim with my own insurance company, they will go after the other company for the money.
Here’s the issue: I dropped off my car at the repair shop today to begin repairs, that may take multiple weeks. There was a rental car place 5 minutes down the road so Geico (my insurance) made a reservation with enterprise. I am only 20 years old, but enterprise assured me that they would be able to rent to me, as long as I have a valid credit card for a deposit.
I showed up at the rental car counter and they told me I need to be 25. After informing them it was through insurance, they told me I would be able to rent me a compact car (which is totally fine), but they did not have any compact cars available. So I was stranded at the rental car counter, and all of the rental car agencies in the area were about to close.
Enterprise told me they would call me when a compact car is available but that could be a week or more, and i need a car to get to work. I made a reservation with Hertz for tomorrow who I know from past experience will rent to younger people without issues.
However I had to spend almost $30 on Uber to get home from the rental car place and I will have to spend another $30 to get to hertz tomorrow. My insurance (geico) said due to NJ state law they cannot reimburse me for uber expenses. Considering the accident is not my fault will the other company be able to reimburse me the $60 for uber? The other adjuster (progressive) is out of the office for the next week.
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Here’s the issue: I dropped off my car at the repair shop today to begin repairs, that may take multiple weeks. There was a rental car place 5 minutes down the road so Geico (my insurance) made a reservation with enterprise. I am only 20 years old, but enterprise assured me that they would be able to rent to me, as long as I have a valid credit card for a deposit.
I showed up at the rental car counter and they told me I need to be 25. After informing them it was through insurance, they told me I would be able to rent me a compact car (which is totally fine), but they did not have any compact cars available. So I was stranded at the rental car counter, and all of the rental car agencies in the area were about to close.
Enterprise told me they would call me when a compact car is available but that could be a week or more, and i need a car to get to work. I made a reservation with Hertz for tomorrow who I know from past experience will rent to younger people without issues.
However I had to spend almost $30 on Uber to get home from the rental car place and I will have to spend another $30 to get to hertz tomorrow. My insurance (geico) said due to NJ state law they cannot reimburse me for uber expenses. Considering the accident is not my fault will the other company be able to reimburse me the $60 for uber? The other adjuster (progressive) is out of the office for the next week.
2023.05.31 01:21 Middle_Piglet2369 PLEASE READ - need solidarity (postpartum tear healing
Hi! Sorry in advance for the gross details. I had my daughter in January and had a 2nd degree perineum tear that required stitches. Two weeks postpartum I tripped on my daughters bouncy chair and took a few big steps to catch myself and pulled a stitch (I was still taking pain meds at the time and didn't realize how bad the tear was. I probably should have gone in when it happened. It pulled the skin apart at one or two stitches closest to my vaginal opening. When I went to my follow up appointment at 5 weeks she said the stitches were gone but it was still separated in the spot where the stitch was missing. When she was examining the area she said it started bleeding. She swabbed to check for infection and it came by negative. She told me to come back at 7 weeks. I did and she said it looked healed and to wait 2 more weeks for sex but that otherwise it was looking fine. Fast forward weeks later when I'm 9-10 weeks postpartum and I'm curious what my junk looks like. I took a picture and noticed that there was a bright red skin tag looking thing where the stitch was missing. I called my doctor and her nurse said it would "resolve itself". I waited a week and it hadnt... It had no feeling in it except at the very base of it. I ended up cutting it off myself g g it didn't hurt much. It has since grown back several times and I just keep taking it off but it's getting annoying. I made an appointment but her earliest availability is 2 weeks out so I just pulled it off again but it bleeds bad every time but with no feeling in it. What the heck is it? Scar tissue?? Why does it keep coming back? I found another Reddit page that said it may be granulated tissue?? How is my OB going to fix it?
HAS THIS HAPPENED TO ANYONE
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2023.05.31 01:20 EmuBackground8088 Can't be drafted if you're in the army, now.
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2023.05.31 01:20 MiahSaint Planning ahead for OML around Zarude
First season really playing OML, and I did... okay leading Togekiss (L50 15/14/15 - AS/AP), Zarude (L42.5 15/14/14), and a very suboptimal Mewtwo (L42 Psy/SB, 13/15/12).
Was at 2650 after Weather Cup, hilariously down to 2100 during Little Cup, and ending in the 2300-2400 range with OML. Full L50 teams were a problem, and I lost to about 70% of teams that ran a Melmetal.
I obviously need to upgrade my 3rd spot. I have a hundo Rhyperior and Swampert, a 14/15/14 Groudon and a decent Excadrill. Who should I start walking? Thanks!
PS Zarude is just a ton of fun. I run him with Bite, and the main reason I did as well as I did in OML was the sheer number of top lefts after Mewtwo and Kyogre safe swaps.
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Was at 2650 after Weather Cup, hilariously down to 2100 during Little Cup, and ending in the 2300-2400 range with OML. Full L50 teams were a problem, and I lost to about 70% of teams that ran a Melmetal.
I obviously need to upgrade my 3rd spot. I have a hundo Rhyperior and Swampert, a 14/15/14 Groudon and a decent Excadrill. Who should I start walking? Thanks!
PS Zarude is just a ton of fun. I run him with Bite, and the main reason I did as well as I did in OML was the sheer number of top lefts after Mewtwo and Kyogre safe swaps.
2023.05.31 01:19 Papoosema I can't believe it's over
 | Elden Ring is my first Fromsoft game ever and although I really didn't like it at first somewhere along my playthrough everything clicked for me and now it's probably my favorite game ever. After 200+ grueling hours of trying to do exactly everything in the game and collect basically everything I didn't lock myself out of. I finished the game with 0 cheese and 0 summons today beating Elden Beast on my 3rd try although Radagon took me 30-40 tries, which is nothing compared to Mohg and Malenia who took a couple of days. I feel completely empty at the moment I'm at a loss for words at this utterly amazing masterpiece and even though I'm happy I beat it I'm sad that its over since I've heard nothing is quite like your first playthrough. Going into NG+ however I was wondering if I could possibly get a couple of pointers on my build, I loved using the humble lance and the devastating misericorde for basically my whole playthrough to stance break enemies with impaling thrust and then shiv the shit out of them with criticals on the dagger but I'm wondering if there's a way to optimize this build, I basically went 50/50 STR and DEX with the quality affinity on both weapons. I used the dagger talisman and shard of alexander for impaling thrust and crit damage since that was the bread and butter of the build. Is there a way to increase the damage on this build further since I don't quite understand stats and scaling in this game and I want to have the build be as strong as it can before NG+ submitted by Papoosema to Eldenring [link] [comments] Oh and btw I chose Fia's ending because hugs. https://preview.redd.it/amwr73r2f33b1.png?width=1031&format=png&auto=webp&s=989b8617d53a320825b70d1321d9e0b68294cfc5 |
2023.05.31 01:19 Wonderful_Pumpkin922 Need help w perspective
I do not even know where to begin. I am a new mom, we had our daughter the end of 2022 and since she has been home things have been very nice. My husband and I both love being parents and I felt very supported during my pregnancy and after for a few months.
These past few months have been a rollercoaster of emotions, we're not communicating and having lots of disagreements or just avoiding each other all together. It's hard to describe each event or what exactly has been going on but my husband feels very distant and overwhelmed by life.
I have been asking him a lot of questions and checking in with him often, bc it seems like since probably feb we have been having issues (it is now June).
We got to the point where we were having convos about seperating and I started to think he was seeing someone else or messaging other people online (something he has done in the past, but I thought we had worked through)
I found out yesterday that he has not been taking his SSRI medication since at least December. He has been on this medication regularly since 2018- so looking back it explains a lot of the things I was seeing/ issues we were having. He recently started taking them again but he says hes not sure why he started them again. We have always had a bit of a communication prob where I ask too many questions and he shuts down very easily.
I was feeling really sorry for him and wanting to morph into "caregiver" mode to help him get back to his whole, well self. Yesterday I was feeling especially understanding but today I can't help but feel like mad? at him. idk if that's even the right feeling or word. But it's like he has no accountability for the past 6 months that I was suffering daily and trying to figure out like a damn detective what was going on with him/us & he knew all along?
idk how to feel/ handle this. I am needing some opinions and perspectives so plz lemme have it!!
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These past few months have been a rollercoaster of emotions, we're not communicating and having lots of disagreements or just avoiding each other all together. It's hard to describe each event or what exactly has been going on but my husband feels very distant and overwhelmed by life.
I have been asking him a lot of questions and checking in with him often, bc it seems like since probably feb we have been having issues (it is now June).
We got to the point where we were having convos about seperating and I started to think he was seeing someone else or messaging other people online (something he has done in the past, but I thought we had worked through)
I found out yesterday that he has not been taking his SSRI medication since at least December. He has been on this medication regularly since 2018- so looking back it explains a lot of the things I was seeing/ issues we were having. He recently started taking them again but he says hes not sure why he started them again. We have always had a bit of a communication prob where I ask too many questions and he shuts down very easily.
I was feeling really sorry for him and wanting to morph into "caregiver" mode to help him get back to his whole, well self. Yesterday I was feeling especially understanding but today I can't help but feel like mad? at him. idk if that's even the right feeling or word. But it's like he has no accountability for the past 6 months that I was suffering daily and trying to figure out like a damn detective what was going on with him/us & he knew all along?
idk how to feel/ handle this. I am needing some opinions and perspectives so plz lemme have it!!
2023.05.31 01:19 likeshockeyguys7 [ADVICE] Does anyone have any advice when it comes to pricing as a BETA reader/editor?
So I am a newer seller. I have had an account for ~1yr, but just started selling in late April. I have some experience BETA reading/editing (I am pretty experienced from the platform CritiquePartnerMatch, which does free BETA/editing swaps), and I also have a novel I am currently publishing. That said, I am a student so I don't have much education credentials (just yet), and i'm a CS major so it's not like that rlly helps me.So far I have 5 completed orders and 4 5 star reviews, 80% of which I got in the past week very rapidly.
I'd say my profile is good and SEO, and I have 7/7 gigs up. 4 are for either editing or BETA reading romance/YA/general (though my BETA reading style is effectively editing just more opinionated), and 3 are for more specific things (erotic scene editing, query letter editing, then a gig for spanish speakers). Also my gigs have cover images I made on Canva, then some decent screenshots of editing/review documents from my CritiquePartnerMatch days.
Right now all of my gigs are at $5 until mid June ($5 for an entire manuscript lol) to get the reviews coming in, but I am worried that when I do raise them I will set the wrong price and ruin things. I don't want to wait till I'm a level 1 seller because getting to $400 will take tons of time, and I am barely getting paid for manuscripts that take ~2hrs each at least.I was planning on raising my rates for full novels and doing like $5 for 50k words, $10 for 100k, then $15 for upwards w/ extras, then to raise all of these as time progresses. Then I of course plan on keeping my query letter and smaller edits fairly cheap. But I am unsure if this is a good decision, I am even considering pricing per word?
So if anyone has any advice or stories of their experience, that would be great. I just want to make the right decision. Thanks!
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I'd say my profile is good and SEO, and I have 7/7 gigs up. 4 are for either editing or BETA reading romance/YA/general (though my BETA reading style is effectively editing just more opinionated), and 3 are for more specific things (erotic scene editing, query letter editing, then a gig for spanish speakers). Also my gigs have cover images I made on Canva, then some decent screenshots of editing/review documents from my CritiquePartnerMatch days.
Right now all of my gigs are at $5 until mid June ($5 for an entire manuscript lol) to get the reviews coming in, but I am worried that when I do raise them I will set the wrong price and ruin things. I don't want to wait till I'm a level 1 seller because getting to $400 will take tons of time, and I am barely getting paid for manuscripts that take ~2hrs each at least.I was planning on raising my rates for full novels and doing like $5 for 50k words, $10 for 100k, then $15 for upwards w/ extras, then to raise all of these as time progresses. Then I of course plan on keeping my query letter and smaller edits fairly cheap. But I am unsure if this is a good decision, I am even considering pricing per word?
So if anyone has any advice or stories of their experience, that would be great. I just want to make the right decision. Thanks!