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What is VMFSL, why is it taking so much space and how can I free up that stirage for my datastore. I recently install a new esxi server 145GB of hard drive. But my datastore only has 14GB and all the rest is in a folder called vmfsl as you can see in the picture. I will like to allocate that vmfsl storage to my datastore for my VMs.

This is my first Reddit post and not gonna lie, I don’t entirely know if I’m even doing it right :’). Sorry in advance for the spiel (the longest part isn’t really essential to read, that’s just some of the symptoms).
A couple of weeks ago I was diagnosed privately with inattentive adhd and told I was touching on the hyperactive side. I’m 31(f) and honestly, this wasn’t really a surprise. I had started looking into it last year and began making notes on my phone. I was ASTOUNDED at the list of similarities. It wasn’t just a few, it really was an entire list.
-Very frequent zoning out, struggling to follow simple instructions, struggling to finish simple tasks, easily distracted, forgetfulness, high sex drive, fast talker, anger(and irritability)going from 0-100 at the stupidest things, anxiety, depression, OCD, being inarticulate especially verbally, struggling to find the words to explain myself during a conversation but knowing in my head what it is I am trying to say, always being stuck in the ‘now’ sense of time and not looking much into future plans, hyperfocus on certain things, interrupting others when they were speaking (I rarely do this now but I went YEARS doing it before realising), clumsiness (often dropping things, tripping up, walking into stuff or ending up with bruises on my legs and not knowing how), light sleeper (has to be in pitch black with either no noise or white/brown noise), very strong sense of smell, turning down volume of tv or music during a conversation so I can focus properly, low self esteem (forever thought I was slow and/or stupid), insecurities and trust issues especially in relationships, fidgeting daily (mainly my feet/toes/legs but sometimes my hands), bursts of energy, excitement at small things, hyper behaviours ESPECIALLY after alcohol consumption.
There’s more but that’s the main ones.
At first I felt relief and “okay so there’s been a reason for all this stuff then”. But now I’m feeling pretty depressed about it. I’m in the mindset of “cool, so I’ll always be stupid, anxiety will always follow me around and I’ll never have a career where I am super successful” (I work with 2-3 year olds and don’t get me wrong I LOVE it) I work really hard and have had really good compliments in every childcare setting I’ve worked, but I don’t deem myself as “successful” because the money for the job is so degrading. (Yeah I know, it was my choice picking this career path… but I can’t help get frustrated at the pay with the amount of work that goes into a completely mad and physically/mentally exhausting day).
I’m not always (or even normally) a depressing person. I consider myself as honest, very silly, playful, wise, caring, loyal, good listener (ironic I know.. but when a friend needs me for something I am 100% all ears and reliable) dark humoured and without wanting to sound big headed, fun. I go through phases of being up and down. But they are mainly up. The downs are pretty rough when they happen but I normally come through.
However I can’t help but feel so confused/frustrated and let down about myself and everything since the diagnosis. I don’t even know where or how to start managing my feelings. I’m not going to lie, I’ve been totally obsessing over adhd since the diagnosis. Definitely overwhelmed myself looking at information at first and I had to find out everything straight away and now I’ve noticed my brain putting stuff into categories as I do stuff like “that’s an adhd thing”. It’s really annoying. I think the main thing bothering me is the “what ifs”. I’ve always sort of been a “what if” person in certain moments and I know it’s not helpful, but it’s just the way my mind goes. The main “what ifs” are “what if I didn’t have adhd - would I be much smarter? Would I have entered into a successful career path?”. I’m aware that it doesn’t help my parents for years have ‘joked’ about me being stupid and it seems all my friends are way smarter (went to uni, done very well in their careers or just generally have way more knowledge about most things than me). I’m also now convinced I have dyscalculia after some research. Which is adding to the “great, another thing to add to the stupid list” thing. It sounds like I’m seeking sympathy, just know I am not. I’ve always been a bit of a hard ass on myself.
Do any fellow adhders get where I’m coming from with these thoughts and feelings? And if so, do you have any advice on how to began accepting yourself? Or to direct me on a route of positivity? Or just anything to help really. It sounds so cringe but I feel in a way I am having to get to know myself all over again. I’ve been looking into medication but I’m sort of torn. The anxiety part of my brain has me worrying about the side effects etc.
Thanks in advance for any responses,
A very frustrated and confused,
Adhder.

Long story short: Caught my wife having an EA. She admitted to it on 3/13. Lots of divorce threatening happened that night. She said she wanted to keep the affair going, so I kicked her out that night. On 3/15 we called each other. She asked if I wanted to reconcile. The wound was so fresh, I said divorce.
We met again on 3/19, to discuss the terms of a dissolution. I asked we agree to proceed with a divorce. She told me I was a horrible husband and father (I disagree). And that she gave me 1 chance to reconcile on that phone call. When I said "no" that was it. And of course, she told me how much she is continuing the EA with this other married man. She also considers the day I kicked her out as the day our marriage ended, so doesn't consider herself married. She's also pressuring her AP to get divorced, but he's not committing to leaving his wife "just yet."
Every fiber in my being wants to tell her to stop, and just shake her and tell her to snap out of it. We have a child in the mix of all of this. It's so clear it won't end well. Not saying I want to get back with her. But I know if it progresses to getting physical, and eventually ends with her getting dumped, that could be hard on our son to see it too.
Help.

I'm here in the hope of someone giving me advice so that I can choose which religion to practice, the reason why I posted this in this sub is because I'm looking forward to practicing Christianity the most. I'm a 21-year-old quite average dude depending on how u perceive a person to be "average", I have family issues, my parents divorced then my father passed away at 14, my family has never been a happy one, I'm now studying economics in uni, I do have many friends tho the real ones can only be 2 or 3, I try to balance my life with my top priorities: Long-term happiness (Family, future love ones, friends, finance, knowledge,...); short-term happiness ( still all those above but add sometimes f-ing around and do drugs and u know all those). But my life always seems to be falling apart and yet my lifelong path is yet to be pursued, I find substitutes for it but nothing really made me feel like this is the right way of thinking, the right way of perceiving things and doing things, feels like I'm just in this constant state of being stressed out, getting out of it then coming back (or even worse than stressed). I've made many mistakes throughout my life I can never forget them the same way as I could never fix them, I'm unable to forgive myself or the ones I care about that disappointed me. Therefore I think being religious could be an answer, my family members are Buddhists, and I have always thought religions are bullshit (no offense), but now here I am willing to dedicate myself to anything that would make me and my people better (my family, friends and the ones I care about) because if I can improve myself I will share it as much as I could. So yes, thank you everyone for reading this. I hope you all have a great day, great life, we might never meet but if everyone on earth could be a better version of themselves every day isn't that such a miracle (as I always say to my friends)?

Hey everyone!
I'm back with my little mini series of trying new types of coffee drinks whenever I can!
I'm new to this community and just got my Nespresso CitiZ, so I'm very excited to try new drinks and different capsules. Any suggestions for new drinks to try making or different pods to try are appreciated!
Today I made a Cortado, I didn't have much time this morning so I thought I'd try a smaller drink. And it was absolutely delicious! I'll definitely be making this again.
If you don't know, a Cortado is equal parts espresso & milk.
How I made it: Pulled one shot of Nespresso Ethiopia Blend. Then, steam and froth 40ml milk in my Aeroccino. Pour the steamed milk & foam on top, and boom, a tasty espresso drink.
I believe I made it correctly but any advice on how to improve it is appreciated! I hope everyond has an amazing day!

Hello, everyone!
It's your boy. You all know it's currently the meta to climb the ladder of life by duo queuing. Just here trying to find my partner XD. Jokes aside, here is a little about me.
A little about me: I’m 24 years of age, Caucasian, 5’9, and have average body type. I am a university student. I'm currently studying mathematics and various other things on my free time. Yeah yeah a little nerdy, but you KNOW how I get down! XD. Pretty chill and a bit eccentric. A bit of a book enjoyer. Do a little bit of jogging sometimes. A lot of PC gaming haha. I also love voice chatting. Would love to talk to you! 😳
What I want: I would like to meet a nice mature guy who knows what he wants. Maybe someone a lil nerdy or silly like me haha. Someone who likes to voice chat a lot and someone who would be willing to try to meet up if everything went smoothly (no rushing). I am very chill and expect the same 😎
If you are at all interested, feel free to dm me here on Reddit. Feel free to send me your Disc., and I will add you asap (highly prefer discord. Basically a must to talk to me)
Thank you so much, and have a great day!

We are polar opposites, she’s the pretty one, the older one and the social one. While I’m all the opposite.
She hanges out with her friends every. Single. Day. She told me that a few days ago was her first day of not having someone over for around 3 months.
But whenever I see her with her friends, she’s all happy, but when she’s with me or anyone in my family she acts like she hates us, and doesn’t want anything to do with us. Especially me.
Today and yesterday, and the day before, she kept telling me that I have to go to school for no reason, (there’s basically less than a week left and it’s term 1 and I’m in year 9) while she’s in year 11, so she has to go. She said that I’ll regret it, especially in maths, when we have a table on what we learn each week, and this week, we’re learning something I learnt last year.
I joked and told her that she was just jealous but she just went off at me saying, “you need to take care of yourself,” and “You have no heart I’m just trying to help you” and then it just started becoming about how I was ugly. (I wasn’t really replying to her, I was just joking around and saying that I know what we’re learning already)
I’m so confused, she’s been more distant after i gave one of my chores to her, (I do everything in the house, cook, wash the floors, dishes, clothes, etc while she does nothing) I did this because I was getting a job soon and I just needed the help.
Now it may not seem like much, but my Mum is a complete lunatic, and my sister is acting how she was acted when she first developing her mental illness’s… So I want to stop it from happening to her.

Not sure if this amounts to gaslighting but she would go on about how my teeth were pretty much about to fall out of my mouth if I didn't get stuff done. None of it was majorly expensive but it was pretty much to get me in to get my teeth checked out and treated regularly. She looked really embarrassed when she told me that my teeth were actually okay. I think she probably pushed me to see her a little more often than I would have otherwise and cost me not that much money. OTOH, her love life is hilarious, my teeth are in decent shape, and it wouldn't hurt to see a dentist regularly.

I was going for lunch when I saw my friend in a poor shape, I asked her if she's ok and she said she's not but she's still going to eat
So I decided to go eat with her but I didn't take any food as I can't really eat when i'm worried about someone.
She then tried to eat her food but was shaking too much to do so and I said "Fuck it, let's take you to the school nurse"
When she got up, she couldn't even stand straight so I became a kind of a support pillar(idk how else to explain it) for her and started walking her to the school nurse
And the whole time I walked her to the nurse, she was on the verge of fainting and I started to stress and worry even more.
School nurse explained she has low blood sugar and called her parents and she got home to recover
So in conclusion: saving someone from a potentially fatal thing is stressful as fuck

Only Europe Please- short note - If you're not into reading or receiving long messages,don't read any further + Please If you don't want to read everything because of my post being too long for you & instead of reading It all - ..skip some parts - find another person to talk to.Let's respect each other and our free time. All people criticizing/making fun of me & other people - will permanently be blocked.Pretty much as people questioning my post and giving me unwanted advice.I'm not here for any conflicts and I know I can't please everyone - I know I never will.. However It's me who should feel comfortable in my new potential friendship & obviously someone interested in being my friend - not the whole world which is why I don't need any advice from people who don't even want to be a part of my life.
Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent
(remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make any time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give you one word answer and ask you another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different🙂
What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me
Do you ever feel like an option? Like a stranger to others despite knowing them for months or years & talking to them quite often? Like there's always something and someone more important than you and you just..don't fit in and no matter what you do - your effort is never appreciated?

I'm always the one texting people immediately (or at the very least trying to) no matter where I am and who I am with (family) others? Never - except for one exception.A really lovely person.

What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and without partners..Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them ( which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (Acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation .. I also want to talk to others on a daily basis mainly because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..Why I'd rather talk to people from my continent? Well..Mainly because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - Especially given most people are always available on social media sites & keep their phones in a pocket.Once you receive & open my message - get back to me (If you're as serious as I am & really need a true friend) waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough
I'm by no means criticising people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have non important conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason.All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.

Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life

I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people really are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message Don't let anyone lie to you.Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..
You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk daily? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionally

I'm not trying to sound rude - I just don't want to meet new people and get emotionally attached - only to end up being left alone after weeks or months of daily conversations.I'm sick of that never ending story and always meeting people who ghost me without a single word (even if everything seems to be ok) or people who "change priorities" over time & become like strangers…I don't want to go through this ever again.

Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :)

It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make time for you.I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.

Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you. 🙂 I'm not really interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life.

• I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in my post or messages and just focus on some question in a certain message or... when they don't ask me any questions themselves.

• No dirty messages PLEASE.I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. No NSWF profiles..I always check people's profiles (Even comment history) - To avoid guys,trying to get inappropriate photos from adult women or? flirt with them.I also absolutely don't respond to messages from people whose comments are very rude & obviously - Messages from people who judge other people and use vulgar words to describe them or? Make fun of them.Respect is very important

• Please only adult people 18-36 age range (I'm 27)

• I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. Some people don't message me back as well and even though It is a bit disappointing I'm ok with that as long as there's no emotional bond - I think it's ok to not respond to someone's first or second message If people just think they wouldn't get along I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversation and seeing people changing priorities This is something I don't want to go through ever again for real If I'm really interested in someone's message - I respond within a matter of minutes - max 6 hours (If I'm in bed - just sleeping) you won't even hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I really was too busy to make time for others - I wouldn't be here.I either want to talk to someone..or not.I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike some people)

• Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book.

• It would be better If you guys were into emojis - just like me - just to describe your emotions through text. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough I just don't like emotionless messages.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"

• I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you ) before moving to Discord or some other app

• Time response matters to me a lot! It matters to me whether I get a message back after one hour,three hours,6 hours or..12 hours and even..after a couple of days..And If you're another person just looking for one day conversation and then? "Disappear" for some amount of time longer than one day to come back and apologize me for being busy - don't even leave me a message.I just want to be honest with you from the start.I'm interested only in daily conversations
Why can’t you see any of my interests listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest,talkative,understanding,caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but in my personal opinion,common interests are important mainly when you want to find a gaming buddy (for example) or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's interests – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life– way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you!I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke

Friendships should be natural – not forced.Both people wanting to be friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.

I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I higly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :)

We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.

If you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night)I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully.

If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies.I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new.

You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that's something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance. But others see it as false hope. Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future.You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're only responsible for ourselves - not for others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on,forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because a therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you.Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out & feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else"

Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others.Empathy is everything
Our world needs more peace 🤗 I've seen a lot of rude comments on reddit.If you don't agree with me - OK but please don't criticize me + Not everyone is here for some advice.

Listen people - I know how different my post is & I know It won't be easy for me to find what or rather who - I'm looking for BUT I always want to be myself instead of pretending someone I'm not and lying to others.I know It would be easier if (like others) I had less expectations but I I know what I want and honestly? If my post was different..I wouldn't be me.Even If I won't meet a person I'd get along with - that's ok! but don't give me any unwanted advice because I wouldn't change for someone who doesn't even know me pretty much as I wouldn't want to change anyone else.I'm not trying to "fit in" and be like everyone else - just to get more attention.Accept me for who I am or let go - is my motto.I'm not here to argue with anyone and to make fun of others.

Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abrreviations,If you don't need an emotional connection,If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship,to be natural which is why I want you to contact me If your needs are the same - I don't want you to try to change yourself only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst

No comments please.Only Private messages and chat requests.I don't really like public conversations.I do not respond to comments so If you want to send me a message just do it without saying "You can DM me"

Okay so I have always been boy crazy like really obsessed with boys my whole life. I had only one crush on a girl and that was in high school when she cut her hair really short so she was really masculine presenting. Later on I continued crushing on and dating guys. Never really expressed interest in girls again. I kissed two girls when I was drunk just to experiment. Wasn't really attracted to them. There was this one time I was sick of Tinder and me not being able to find a boyfriend I said to myself well maybe I should try and see if I like girls so I tried looking for girls on Tinder as well. But honestly I didn't really feel much attraction it was mostly just swiping girls that I felt were pretty but I didn't really want to do anything with them. I didn't want to swipe girls I knew because I wasn't even sure I wanted to do anything with them. After talking to one girl on Tinder who was in the same position as me and we were both just rambling about how men have disappointed us, although she was gorgeous I realized I didn't want to do anything. Later on I said to myself I think I am straight but maybe one day I'll meet a girl that I will like and that if I am bi right now I have a preference for men. Almost a year ago I started dating my current boyfriend. This is my first serious relationship and the first time I felt in love. I realized I have Relationship OCD. I would overanalyze everything he did, I would check if he is abusive etc. One of my obsessions is that he had a lot of threesomes in the past and he told me that it is his kink. I was angry and hurt, I didn't want to share him. I was also angry at how hypocritical he is that he only wants threesomes with girls. If he can have sex with other women why can't I with other men? Later on I developed HOCD when he told me that he saw his ex gf and she told him that she is now a lesbian so I freaked out that maybe I will turn into a lesbian and that I would have to leave him. I was scared to even look at pictures of girls and at the same time I developed cuck OCD, I was terribly afraid of becoming a cuck, I would have these sexual intrusive images of my bf being with other women and I would cry. We were talking once and he said that he wouldn't mind if I were kissing girls and that he would actually encourage that. I started freaking out what if I wanted to kiss girls? But not because of a fear of being bi or gay but I didn't want to do stuff with other people while in a relationship, especially not for someone to watch. I started looking at girls and questioning if I wanted to kiss them or if I wanted a threesome. I was disgusted by the thought. I had so much anxiety. When I would get wasted I didn't feel the anxiety and I looked at the girls and realized I didn't want to do anything with them and I felt happy, but then the anxiety came back. I was fine for some time but the last week has been hell. I was constantly having sexual intrusive thoughts I was having so much anxiety I was scared that if I ever realized I was bi I would want to have a threesome with my bf WHICH IS MY WORST NIGHTMARE. I don't want to share my boyfriend I am a really jealous and possessive person. Then I would think well what if I wanted to experiment, I don't want that, I want to be in a monogamous relationship. What if I figured out I was a lesbian??? I was constantly having these fears, I would check if I like the men or the women in tiktok videos I watched and it was always the men that turned me on. After panicking for a few days everything blurred, I didn't know what I was feeling, what I was thinking. I haven't seen my boyfriend for more than two weeks so I have been spiralling. Yesterday I managed my anxiety somehow and I felt horny for my boyfriend because I will see him today. I went to bed and I masturbated to the thought of having sex with him. I was so tired I didn't have anxiety for any of my sexual intrusive thoughts. I said to myself IDGAF. I had a dream where I had a threesome. I woke up and I started checking all of my intrusive thoughts and I felt no anxiety??? Like zero. It almost feels as if I wanted to do all of those things? And then I started replaying the threesome intrusive thoughts and I started panicking again. I don't know if I was turned on or not. I don't know what I am feeling. Right now I don't even know if I am attracted to my partner. I want to feel free and be able to think of him as I previously did. I don't care if I am bi, I just don't want to open up my relationship I want to be 100% monogamous. I don't want to have a threesome, I don't want to do stuff with other people. And I am scared that if I figure out that I am bi that I will want to experiment. I feel horrible. I was so excited to see my bf tonight but now I am not.

I have a couple of questions concerning IRAs:

I have a side business (side hustle) that I would like to start contributing income to an IRA. Can I do this if I already have a 401k with my main job (currently contributing 10% to)?
If I can start an IRA from my side job, what kind of IRA do I need to open (thorough Fidelity ideally) and how much can I contribute annually?
I have a regular brokerage account with Fidelity. Is there any way to roll the stock I already own in the brokerage account (less than $1k) over into the IRA?

THANKS!

For those that are interested in the gray area of online money making, I have decided to create a small tutorial on how to make some money with free movie streaming sites
Another reason for this post is that I've been seeing posts asking for ways that one can make money online with a limited budget and i thought that this would be a useful resource for such people.
I went ahead to create a landing page and a movie streaming leech site that essentially allows for free movie streaming. You can edit the CSS and HTML to add ads, content lockers, offer walls, donation pages etc as you see fit.
Since the site is hot linking to other websites with the content, I think no laws are being broken here.
A portfolio of free movie streaming niche sites that haven’t been up for a long time has been making $400 to $4000 a month. This can be more if marketing was more aggressive.
I have provided the complete source code for the movie sites on the links below if you want to try your hand at it.
If you are non technical and need a hand at hosting the site (node JS and MongoDB for the back-end, bootstrap for the UI ), you can always DM me and I can set it up for you.
So here we go:
There’s a certain user who is making an average of $500 a month with a few niche sites. He is monetizing it with a single popup over a 24 hour period meaning that the daily income could be much higher if he was more aggressive with ad serving. There’s also no mention of up-selling using email meaning that the income from the streaming sites would even go to $x,xxx per day if he exploited them to the max.
Here’s an attached screenshot of income from streaming sites HERE
why you should consider creating a few niche movie streaming sites

ppl like movies and they like free things. All it takes is a single tweet or mention to go viral
very little investment is needed. The scripts in the links below cost around $20 for a fully functional site
high likelihood of making money

why you maybe shouldn’t make movie streaming sites

You might have to deal with the legality of said sites in your country
hosting can be expensive if your site starts getting traction or if you decide to self host content
getting an affiliate network that works for your kind of traffic might be tricky, although not impossible.
There’s a lot of competition in the space meaning that you have to niche down e.g maybe make a site for a certain type of scifi movie

What you need to build the site

a domain – from what I’ve seen, you should choose from one of the following TLDs: .com, .site, .to, .today, .ru, .it, .pw, .ac, .ws . It seems that these are harder to be taken down than others but you are free to experiment with others
a hosting provider: you should use an offshore bulletproof hosting provider just to be safe.
a website/ script: you can either code one yourself or buy a starter kit. If you want a kit, there’s one in the links section below
something to sell: this can be anything e.g en eBook, an online course, an affiliate product etc. I personally have sold a lot of self published KDP ebooks. Also I have found some success with the CPAgrip affiliate network. What I did is change the script around and put some movies behind an offer wall.
A themoviedb.org API key: This free API key is gotten on the API section of the aforementioned site. The streaming site provider uses this free API to list movie details. You can set up a free account here

A word about the provided starter kit
The starter kit in the links below is a fully functional movie streaming website and landing page combo.
The landing page is made with normal CSS and HTML so uploading it to a static hosting provider should be straightforward.
The actual streaming site is a NodeJS, ExpressJS app hooked up to a MongoDB database. The site is hot linking to a third party hosting site for simplicity and also to solve the legal dilemma of hosting such content.
The MongoDB database code is ready to do but the code that connects to it is commented out because you need a unique connection string to connect to it. The site can still work without the db connection since it’s being used to collect emails and user data. You can always DM me to set up a custom db for you if you so need to.
I hosted the landing page and the steaming site on Vercel and Render respectively and it was fairly easy to do. There are many YouTube videos that explain in better detail how to do this.
As always, if you have any questions on how to host the sites, you can always DM me for clarifications.
The following are the live versions of the starter kit templates being offered:
landing page – here
streaming site - here
The easiest way is to use a CI solution with GitHub to the hosting platform. This set up process varies from platform to platform and there’s no need to go into the details in this non technical tutorial
getting traffic
I used the 3 major things to get traffic. They include:

SEO
influencer marketing on TikTok
YouTuber traffic

SEO
The only SEO I did was in the web pages. I made sure I used proper words in the websites without coming off as spammy. There was no off-page SEO because I was opting to go with word of mouth as the main traffic source.
YouTube Traffic
I used a website called channel crawler (just google it). It has a free tier that gives a list of YouTube channels based on, among other things, niche and YouTube subscriber count.
I figured that I should go for smaller YouTubers since the larger ones tend to already have monetized their channels with all sorts of things (membership sites, affiliate links etc). I decided to go for niche channels with under 50k subs that didn't have much of a monetization strategy.
After getting a list of YouTubers, the email extraction was repetitive and time consuming. I'd go to the channel, go to the about page and reveal the email. After doing this a number of times, YT would ask me to solve a capta. I wanted to write a bot to automate this but I decided to first do it manually to see if the idea would pan out.
Now, I noticed that YT only allows you to get about 10 emails every 24 hours. How I went around this was by creating another channel. A new channel on the same account meant a new profile that I could extract around 10 more emails. YT allows around around 50 (or is it 75) channels for a single account. So that means one can extract >500 emails per day with one email account (very tedious by hand, a python script would have made this much easier)
I extracted around around 1200 emails with this method and put them in an excel sheet.
Next came the cold emailing.
I made sure that the email copy had the following characteristics:

short, about 100 to 200 words
got straight to the point (no fluff words like ‘how is your day’)
had a clear call to action. In this case, I wanted a video review and a link on the description

I should also add that I used gmail to send out the emails. I don't think the emails were going to spam because I wasn't send too many from one account. around 40 per email account.
TikTok traffic
I basically opened an account and started following and cold messaging small TikTok creators until some decided to review the extension.
While I got some leads here, most of the traffic has come from the previous 2 traffic sources.
resources needed:
Here are the links to the resources you’ll need if you want to try this method for yourself
required:
movie streaming site starter kit (paid, very little for a fully working site)– here
movie streaming site starter kit (free but content locked) - here
movie list API key (free) - here
optional
MongoDB connection string (free) - here

So, Umbrella Vs Hat Kid is one of my most wanted Death Battle matchups, so I decided to make this to discuss why, in my honest opinion, Hat Kid wins against Umbrella in it. Feel free to agree or disagree, but keep it clean for goodness sake.
So, let’s start off with something simple: Versatility.
Umbrella… Doesn’t really have much options in terms of versatility aside from just Hungern, who is still a formidable weapon with his long tongue and ability to eat people and other things. She can also use his slobber as a method of fighting which, while gross, is another method of fighting opponents.
With Hat Kid, it’s just no contest. She has a multitude of different Hats and Badges she could use to always have a leg up against Umbrella, including: The Sprint Hat, the Brewing Hat, the Ice Hat, the Time Stop Hat, the Scooter Badge, the Projectile Badge, the Hookshot Badge, ect.
Next up, let’s go over something I feel the need to address to some people: The Train Bomb thing.
Saying Hat Kid, “canonically dies to a train bomb,” is like saying Sora from Kingdom Hearts “canonically dies to Demyx’s giant water spell if he doesn’t beat all the water forms in time.” See how that doesn’t work? Especially considering the fact Hat Kid’s survived a fall from orbit (And landed on her feet btw) and can continue to be alive without her soul.
Now then, I’ll list off one more thing involving why I think Hat Kid beats Umbrella:
Comparing the Final Bosses.
The Skullgirl is said to have the power to destroy the world, so let’s go ahead and high-ball it, saying that the Skullgirl Marie is strong enough to destroy a planet. Impressive, but then compare it to Mustache Girl.
Mustache Girl has access to the Time Pieces, which are highly powerful as not only can they control time, but a single Time Piece is capable of creating a Time Rift, which is essentially an entire pocket dimension filled with stars. Oh, and might I add Mustache Girl can hit Hat Kid with Time Pieces and Hat Kid can shrug it off? Yeah, the Skullgirl ain’t got nothing on Mustache Girl.
So, that is some of my reasoning as to why Hat Kid can beat Umbrella if this matchup ever did happen. Hope you all enjoyed and if you have any issues, leave them in the comments , but just keep them clean and friendly. Anything not that I will not answer.
Also, keep in mind this is my first time doing this, so if you want to criticize, please go easy on me.
With that, see ya later.

for a very long time i've wanted to learn singing ,i know i don't have a great voice and probabily will never be able to sing really high notes and stuff like that, but even doing some backup vocals would've made me happy. I've been playing guitar since a few years in some bands and everytime i would ask the singers how they've learned singing they would 99% of times tell me that singing was pretty much natural to them and they didn't took any lesson. A months ago i decided to start taking singing lesson and since then i fell absolutley 0 improvements, i know it's probabily a bit too soon to complain about this, but i've been tought absolutely no techquinice at all: only the first day the teacher showed me a video about how to breathe in a better way but since then he never tought me nothing, he is just letting me sing a few scales or interval with the piano for about 5 minutes and the rest of time he lets me do some karaoke with song i like ( and while i sing he just sometimes higher the pitch of the song). the only really big thing he's teaching me is solfeggio but i don't think that it mattere that much in singing. what do you guys think i should do? is it normal that i fell like this? sorry if this post bothers anyone but i'm really worried about this...

Hey, hope everyone is doing well.
I've looked everywhere for help but think I should ask you guys. I am a 21 year old DACA recipient currently in my 4th year at ucla in STEM. I need your guy's similar experience/ input on finding and obtaining a school loan.
I need to pay this upcoming quarter tuition + summer tuition but do not have the funds. I have already received scholarship money to cover a portion of spring quarter. However I cannot receive more financial aid from the gov as I was placed on probation since I did not meet the expected cumulative progress of units completed. This was because I took some time off school due to family/ mental health problems.
I have looked into taking out a loan from Ernest and Sofi but both require a cosigner. I have asked friends and teachers for help getting this co-signer but have found no luck. I am not sure what other sources would allow me to get a school loan without asking for a co-signer or requiring US citizenship. I only have one parent but they also are undocumented :(
I am not sure what to do and feel so hopeless. I am also looking into taking the quarter off to work my way up to cover summer tuition and then re-appeal my financial aid probation. The only problem with this is I am not sure if the classes I will be taking spring quarter will be next year and they are for my major :(
Also I've kept pretty much this entire dilemma to myself as I don't want family worries to be something more to be worried about. Please share me your wisdom or any advice you may , thank you

Who
www.profitduel.com
New Jersey's fastest growing side hustle. At ProfitDuel we teach you how to take advantage of promotions and bonuses offered by sportsbooks and casinos, without risking your own money. It’s a tried and tested, legal and effective way to make money online.
What
We need people in state who can help us find and review sportsbook offers and/or do some screen recordings completing the offers.
The extent of the work/job is entirely dependent on how much time you want to put in. Could be just an initial 1hr video call or on-going, regular work. Would ideally lead to a full-time role in future.
Rate depends on suitability.
Why
US sportsbooks have really advanced geo-blocking software so we aren't able to access them from the UK, you have to be in the state itself.
The first call would only be an hour and we would pay accordingly. There may well be some other ongoing work if interested, but initially we just need a video call.
Ideal for interns, students, freelancers or anyone that has an hour spare.
We will tell you exactly what to do, we just need to talk to someone physically in the state.. Really easy.
Criteria
21+ Physically in PA, OH or MD. Be willing to do an initial video call with us to kick things off. Ideally doesn't have sportsbook accounts already, but if you do then we can work around that.

Sorry in advance for any spelling errors as English is not my native language. Also posting from my phone. My wife (32f) and I (33m) have a pretty good thing going on, our baby girl just turned 2 and she the sweetest and smartest thing I ever seen.we own an apartment in a major city in our country and Both our family's leave really close by (walking distance) siblings included.good relationship with all.we dont have much time to see them as we both work at the same hospital but in different departments.I cant say we don't enjoy what we are doing but the hours (24/7) and the work load are hard and getting harder from year to year. a specially now that management roles are starting to pop( even from different hospitals ). The problem is since the birth of my girl I feel like the pession I had and the will to study and improve my skils as dried out, I just want to clock in do my job and clock out and run home back to my family. I have an idea stuke in my head for a few months to sell everything we own and buy a plot of land somewhere rural to build our dream house with room to garden and do somr woodworking ( actually I already found a place that is perfect) we can both work 50% from home as phone consultant to direct people to the madical service they need. The pay is 30% higher and my country give tex examptions to that area so we will make the same amount of money as now.(or even more) I talked to my wife about it and she says shes on board with the plan but a little bit worried and want to check all the sides of leaving there. In the meantime she's continuing to accept some roles that will take more of her time and booked some professional courses for 2023-2024 My worries are how our family will react to the idea as we are "breaking" there perfect life with the kids and grandkids close by. Especially now that they getitto old age. But my biggest fear is to be resented by my wife as I feel like im pushing more for the idea and she really like her job and on a fast track to higher and higher managements roles (she's the smartest and kindest person I know, to her patients and all). That's about sums it up.

Hi all!
Whatnot is a community marketplace that lets you buy and sell collectibles through a livestream-auction type format. If you sign up with a referral code, you'll get £10 off your first purchase with no minimum spend (so, if you want, you can find a cheap game, pack of Pokémon cards, or other item for free lol). Lots of sellers also have regular free-to-enter giveaways, so it's worth having a browse to see if there are any items that you want.
WhatNot allows people to buy from lots of different categories, such as Video Games and Collectibles, Clothing, Shoes etc. Some sellers list their items through live auctions, while others have buy-it-now listings. Please be aware that you cannot use the £10 for postage, so it's better to buy from a UK seller as opposed to a US seller, as postage will be much cheaper that way.
I've seen some people saying that you can't use it in buy-it-now listings, but I've personally never had an issue doing this. Regardless, if you click on a buy-it-now listing, it will say how much the total would be, and if a discount has been applied.
They have just started to allow UK based sellers to auction their items as well as US sellers, so now is a great time to sign up!
It's worth a browse, even if you're not planning to buy anything - I've bought from them lots of times, and their customer support is top notch.
Note that when you sign up, you have to add a payment method.
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