We met in a japanese dance group (we're both japanese descendants). Basically, I joined a year and a half ago but he has been part of this group for about 7 years now, so when I joined he was kind of my instructor for the first couple of months. He helped me learn the basics and he taught me the first choreograph, he is not a teacher but he has a lot of experience and was sent to guide me and my newbies' group because of this. Initially, I never would have thought about him being my crush but one day I realised how cute I thought he was and that I felt really overwhelmed with emotions whenever I was near him. And so, even if I knew I liked him, I also knew I wouldn't be able to just ask him out or sth like that because he wouldn't ever be interested in me (he's more of an introvert, while being in this dance group I observed how little he talked to the people around him, even after spending so many years here) so I kept quiet. Still, I wanted to be his friend even if nothing would ever happen between us, so I started to talk to him in our breaks. Little by little, we became friends, at first it was only small talk but after a while he told me about his studies, his friends and his hobbies. I was really getting to know him and the crush intensified because I knew he was not only a cute nerd but also super passionate and interesting and also very kind. There was once when we finished our dance practice really late and we had to close the building, but my dad hadn't yet come to pick me up and he stayed with me because he didn't want me to be waiting alone at night un the streets (this was kind and sweet because I already knew from before that he was extremely tired that day, he had had a long day and even after all that, he still offered and stood by my side). After a few months, we began talking by chat and unexpectedly we started chatting almost every day! I was very excited and happy about this, he really does make me feel over the moon. The thing is that, eventually, we arranged to meet together justo the 2 of us. Nothing happened that time, unfortunately. However, we still had a great time talking and getting to know each other more. When I came back home he had texted me that he had spent a wonderful time with me and that the hours passed fast when we were together. I was absolutely blushing while reading that message. Immediately after I told him we had to meet again. And we did! This time, he was brave enough to put his arm around my back the whole evening and we even held hands while talking and laughing. We had actually planned to play a game he had prepared (he brought me a board game based on my favorite series! Can you imagine!) but we were talking and when we looked at the time there was not enough time to get into the game! So we agreed to leave it for another day. There was a moment there where our faces were so so close and he was even leaning a little bit into me, I really thought he was gonna kiss me but I panicked and stayed still while looking into his eyes. I saw the second he back down and I was disappointed (to myself too, because I was so nervous I did nothing!). After that, I had to go back home so we left the café. I grabbed his arm while walking towards my bus stop and he slipped his arm to grab me hand by hand. I WAS MELTING. LITERALLY. I couldn't fathom a single thought other than "we're holding hands we're holding hands we're holding hands". So it took me unexpected that at a certain moment I noticed he made a step forward with the intention to stop walking, but I bumped a little into him and asked him what happened. He just stared at me and smiled, then kept walking. LIKE WHY DIDN'T WE KISSED RIGHT THERE AND THEN! God, this is why I'm here. I'm meeting him again this saturday and I really want to kiss him. What can I do? What kind of move can I do? How do I do it? I wish you people on reddit can help me come up with ideas to make a move on him and this time finally land a kiss <3

I've been reading this sub for years and I think a tool I built may be useful, so time to pitch in.
Before I get shouted out for self promotion in proper reddit fashion, it's free. If you like it just pick any subscription and put in the code r-screenwriting in checkout, valid until next weekend.
What I want to gain from this is to understand if my way of work appeals to other people.
There are three things that made current tools inappropriate for me.

1. I have a lot of things going on besides writing (some of them pay the production bills)
2. My outlining style is layered rather than spread
3. I do lists similar to index cards, not notes (otherwise I'd use Obsidian, go check it out if you're a note-taker)

I needed a tool in which every item in the list could be a list in itself, obviously so I could nest the the layers of the outline but also because I wanted the writing tasks to be right next to my other tasks -- they all compete for my time.
This is why I made Nestful, which lets you do those things.
There's a video explainer on the home page:
https://nestful.app
Here I expand more about the idea of working this way (regardless of using nestful or not):
https://nestful.app/blog/spontaneous-productivity
And most importantly, made a small sample board with general tasks and an outline sample ("Keepers of Alteria"). It's publicly shared so you can't edit, but click the different items in it to see more items in them, I've outlined at least the first couple episodes.
https://nestful.app/i/62cb458e-18a8-4fa8-bd3d-d7e79a195907
Now, most importantly -- what do you think about the nesting approach? Do you work similarly?

Line-up

Users with a correct line-up prediction receive 10 points in the predictions league.
Just two users were able to correctly predict the line-up chosen by Arteta, them being:
u/candiddinosaur and u/rk4dand

Score

Users with a correct score prediction receive 5 points in the predictions league.
96% of voters correctly predicted an Arsenal win. 3.2% predicted Arsenal to score 5 goals, 56% predicted Wolves to score 0 goals, and just one user was able to predict the exact score line, that being:
u/tjanPgwm868

Man of the Match

Users with a correct Man of the Match prediction receive 2 points in the predictions league.
Xhaka was voted as Arsenal's Man of the Match in the post-match ratings. 37% predicted Xhaka to win Man of the Match, including:
u/anticitizen-zero, u/blixt141, u/candiddinosaur, u/ChordalDistortion, u/cockburntown, u/dimebagactual, u/elryano, u/Isdolandoe, u/ismaithliomguinness, u/kaihoro, u/liberocinderace, u/miamlillerz, u/Neopathy, u/Paddy-23, u/RendingGale, u/rk4dand and u/tjanPgwm868

Wildcard Question

The wildcard question for this game asked users for their thoughts on the 2023/24 home kit. Despite what felt like a generally mixed reaction when the kit started to enter the public view, 77% of users say they have a positive view of the kit, with 53% liking it and 24% loving it. Only 9% claim to dislike it, with the remaining 14% being indifferent/undecided.

Miscellaneous Predictions

Xhaka goal - u/HortenWho229, u/nianman, u/hxmbyb, u/Syfkeo, u/johnnyfashion, u/ironeaglebird, u/RendingGale, u/Isdolandoe, u/ismaithliomguinness, u/miamlillerz, u/kaihoro, u/Neopathy, u/ChordalDistortion, u/dimebagactual and 3 others
Saka goal - u/kaihoro
Jesus goal - u/Sopitas, u/thejoshimitsu, u/r_110, u/m3rple and u/dimebagactual
Jesus assist - u/Ziestaul
Smith Rowe assist - u/CosmicJoker96
u/hxmbyb, u/Syfkeo, u/johnnyfashion, u/ironeaglebird and u/ismaithliomguinness will each receive 5 points for submitting the only Miscellaneous Prediction eligible for points, that prediction being a goal from Xhaka.

Predictions League Leader-board Top 10, final results

Here's a link to the full leader board

Position	User	Points
1	u/Rotom94	362
2	u/rk4dand	344
3	u/syfkeo	334
4	u/miamlillerz	316
5	u/NiallMitch10	311
6	u/anticitizen-zero	304
7	u/Mikey_Hashtags	296
8	u/WildeVallhund	288
9	u/ThomasEichorst	285
10	u/tjanPgwm868	282

Congratulations to u/Rotom94 for winning the 2022/23 Predictions League!

An incredible 362 point campaign sees u/Rotom94 take the title, 18 points ahead of u/rk4dand in 2nd place. u/Rotom94 was 3rd on the table as recently as GW26, but a Man City-esque run to finish the season saw them prevail, retaining their 1st place spot for the final 11 matches of the season.
u/Rotom94's great work picking up score, MOTM and Miscellaneous Prediction points, coupled with their consistency when keeping up with the pack on the line-up predictions, has been very impressive.
28 correct line-up predictions, 6 correct score predictions and 6 correct MOTM predictions is a great return. However, earning points for their correct Miscellaneous Predictions 7 different times is what really stands out. u/Rotom94's strategy of keeping their predictions simple and straight forward, whilst not just always doing the run-of-the-mill picks, worked a treat.
Well done to u/rk4dand, u/syfkeo and u/miamlillerz for rounding out the top 4, followed by u/NiallMitch10, u/anticitizen-zero, u/Mikey_Hashtags, u/WildeVallhund, u/ThomasEichorst and u/tjanPgwm868 completing the top 10.
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Predictions Cup results for this match

I (19F) have a big crush on C (26M). We met in a japanese dance group (we're both japanese descendants). Basically, I joined a year and a half ago but he has been part of this group for about 7 years now, so when I joined he was kind of my instructor for the first couple of months. He helped me learn the basics and he taught me the first choreograph, he is not a teacher but he has a lot of experience and was sent to guide me and my newbies' group because of this. Initially, I never would have thought about him being my crush but one day I realised how cute I thought he was and that I felt really overwhelmed with emotions whenever I was near him. And so, even if I knew I liked him, I also knew I wouldn't be able to just ask him out or sth like that because he wouldn't ever be interested in me (he's more of an introvert, while being in this dance group I observed how little he talked to the people around him, even after spending so many years here) so I kept quiet. Still, I wanted to be his friend even if nothing would ever happen between us, so I started to talk to him in our breaks. Little by little, we became friends, at first it was only small talk but after a while he told me about his studies, his friends and his hobbies. I was really getting to know him and the crush intensified because I knew he was not only a cute nerd but also super passionate and interesting and also very kind. There was once when we finished our dance practice really late and we had to close the building, but my dad hadn't yet come to pick me up and he stayed with me because he didn't want me to be waiting alone at night un the streets (this was kind and sweet because I already knew from before that he was extremely tired that day, he had had a long day and even after all that, he still offered and stood by my side). After a few months, we began talking by chat and unexpectedly we started chatting almost every day! I was very excited and happy about this, he really does make me feel over the moon. The thing is that, eventually, we arranged to meet together justo the 2 of us. Nothing happened that time, unfortunately. However, we still had a great time talking and getting to know each other more. When I came back home he had texted me that he had spent a wonderful time with me and that the hours passed fast when we were together. I was absolutely blushing while reading that message. Immediately after I told him we had to meet again. And we did! This time, he was brave enough to put his arm around my back the whole evening and we even held hands while talking and laughing. We had actually planned to play a game he had prepared (he brought me a board game based on my favorite series! Can you imagine!) but we were talking and when we looked at the time there was not enough time to get into the game! So we agreed to leave it for another day. There was a moment there where our faces were so so close and he was even leaning a little bit into me, I really thought he was gonna kiss me but I panicked and stayed still while looking into his eyes. I saw the second he back down and I was disappointed (to myself too, because I was so nervous I did nothing!). After that, I had to go back home so we left the café. I grabbed his arm while walking towards my bus stop and he slipped his arm to grab me hand by hand. I WAS MELTING. LITERALLY. I couldn't fathom a single thought other than "we're holding hands we're holding hands we're holding hands". So it took me unexpected that at a certain moment I noticed he made a step forward with the intention to stop walking, but I bumped a little into him and asked him what happened. He just stared at me and smiled, then kept walking. LIKE WHY DIDN'T WE KISSED RIGHT THERE AND THEN! God, this is why I'm here. I'm meeting him again this saturday and I really want to kiss him. What can I do? What kind of move can I do? How do I do it? I wish you people on reddit can help me come up with ideas to make a move on him and this time finally land a kiss <3

I’m at a point where I don’t really know where else to go and can’t understand what’s wrong with me.
I spent 4 years seriously dating somebody exclusively, recently just got broken up with. We live together in a 1 BR apartment and for the last 2 months we have continued to cohabitate.
It’s too long a story to get but at the beginning of this whole relationship I felt confident, charming, patient, happy, and was 100 pounds lighter (not that it makes any difference aside from how I feel I got that way). I can admit that I wasn’t my best self towards the end of the relationship especially the last two years.
I can honestly say looking back at it it was always a situation ship. I knew what I wanted and I have been broken up with 15+ times in these 4 years, with every breakup lasting a day or two after a bad argument and then her wanting to get back together. I genuinely have felt happiness in this relationship at so many times, and became obsessed with the potential of what we could have if we just worked our problems out.
She never wanted to have conversations when I was hurt or sad and apologies were half made, but out of my love for her I tried to overlook things, just for me to bring them up in future arguments because I never truly felt better (kissing 3 different people at times we were defined as exclusive and together, calling me a fat ass our entire relationship, even when I look back and see how fit I was at the beginning, and threatening being with other men because she thought it was what I deserved if I upset her ever so slightly.
I’m not blaming her solely for the position I’m in now. For the first couple of years I felt like a pushover but I truly love this woman and thought it was worth it. But in the last couple years I myself have turned into a monster too. My patience wore out and I began to call names and freak out during argument and essentially just added fuel to the fire. I developed bad vices that affected our relationship badly and lost sight of trying to be a good boyfriend. I’m not sure if this was partially because every few months something would happen she promised wouldn’t happen again, and healing would stop and distractions would begin.
Fast forward to a month ago, when I thought we finally figured our issues, she breaks up with me.
Since then we have stayed living together, and I’ve cried and felt worse than I have ever felt. The reasons were valid, but I felt completely blindsided. She tells me she still loves me and that she doesn’t know what will happen, but my head is so fucked up because during this last month, she has attempted to maintain emotional intimacy and some physical. She still kisses me and we sleep in bed together and tells me she loves me and she “doesn’t want to hurt me” but then when I’m crying in front of her she gets visibly annoyed after a few minutes and talks about how our 4 year relationship never felt like a real relationship which makes me feel like I wasted a ridiculous amount of time on somebody’s who practically never wanted me the way I wanted them.
I’m so messed up and feel like a shell or myself. I feel like I have a victim mentality which also doesn’t help but looking back on it emotionally speaking I always got the short end of the stick.
TLDR: my girlfriend turned our 4 year relationship into a situationship, and I guess was never happy with me. We live together and I can’t g pick myself up.

Hey all, I’m not sure if this is the place to be posting this or not and I apologize if it’s a bit lengthy. I work in a factory that fills orders for different companies. Over the last 3 weeks orders have dropped SIGNIFICANTLY to the point where now all three shifts are running at most 3 hours a day and cleaning the rest of the time. This morning our manager posted a letter essentially saying that they “may” have to cut down to 2 shifts. Since 3rd shift gets the most per hour via a shift differential we are all fairly positive that it will be our shift that gets cut. Our manager has said there won’t be layoffs and that there will be positions open for everyone. Unfortunately the only open positions are available on second shift and with my wife’s schedule that simply won’t work for me as someone has to be home with our kid. Now to my question: I have been here for 5 years. should I jump the gun and simply find a new job now before the “not layoffs” take place or should I wait it out to see if orders pick up? I can’t consult my manager about this because he is a snake and couldn’t tell the truth if his life depended on it.
TLDR: should I find a new job under the presumption that my job won’t exist in a few weeks
Thank you for any advice in advance!

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Single Combinations: 013 , 014 , 015 , 016 , 018 , 023 , 034 , 035 , 036 , 038 , 045 , 046 , 048 , 056 , 058 , 059 , 068 , 134 , 135 , 136 , 138 , 145 , 146 , 148 , 149 , 156 , 158 , 167 , 168 , 239 , 248 , 257 , 345 , 346 , 347 , 348 , 356 , 358 , 368 , 456 , 458 , 468 , 568
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I know that most will pick Miller, but curious about other opinions too.
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I was just playing with numbers a little bit and I don't get how this works ( I am not a math guy AT ALL), but this is breaking my head If I pick 2 random numbers = 539 and 1679 ( as an example), and decide to add the numbers that they contain together, it would be like 5 + 3 + 9 = 17 and 1 + 6 + 7 + 9 = 23 and that is 17+23 = 40, and if I do the same thing again it becomes 4 + 0 = 4 (bear with me) now, if I start just adding random combinations of these numbers together, the end result is always going to be 4 : 53 + 9 (62) and 16 + 79 (95) = 95 + 62 = 157 = 1 + 5 + 7 = 13 = 1+3 = 4 or 539 + 1679 = 2218 = 2+2+1+8 = 13 = 1+3 = 4 or 5+39 + (1+679) = 44 + 680 = 724 =7 + 2 + 4 = 13 = 1 + 3 = 4 I don't get how we can pick out random number combinations from the 2 initial numbers, add them together and still get 4 as the end result after adding them together lol.please someone explain xd

Hey there,
I have this website I'm working on and they have a plugin that creates sub-sitemaps every month. Let's say in April we uploaded 4 blog articles, it will create a sub-sitemap with all of the pages created in April under one folder. Sometimes it might divide them into parts, so for April pages we might have 3 sub-sitemaps. The name of the plugin - XML Sitemap Generator by Arne Brachhold.
I have suspicions that some of those sub-sitemaps just don't get crawled. Can it be the case?
The choice wasn't mine, they previously had some indexing issues and installed a bunch of plugins that are causing problems now. The indexing issue didn't go anywhere, additionally, they want to expand to a new location and I want to fix that crap before they add any more pages.
Now, the Yoast plugin didn't work, because all of their pages have /indexphp/ by default that they just remove before uploading new pages. Yoast picks it up and creates links towards the pages that return 404.
I'm thinking of creating and submitting a sitemap manually but I don't have much experience. So, I'm asking for help and advice for those who have had similar issues or at least some experience with manual sitemaps. Any suggestions on what to do with their sitemap?

Hey there,
I have this website I'm working on and they have a plugin that creates sub-sitemaps every month. Let's say in April we uploaded 4 blog articles, it will create a sub-sitemap with all of the pages created in April under one folder. Sometimes it might divide them into parts, so for April pages we might have 3 sub-sitemaps. The name of the plugin - XML Sitemap Generator by Arne Brachhold.
I have suspicions that some of those sub-sitemaps just don't get crawled. Can it be the case?
The choice wasn't mine, they previously had some indexing issues and installed a bunch of plugins that are causing problems now. The indexing issue didn't go anywhere, additionally, they want to expand to a new location and I want to fix that crap before they add any more pages.
Now, the Yoast plugin didn't work, because all of their pages have /indexphp/ by default that they just remove before uploading new pages. Yoast picks it up and creates links towards the pages that return 404.
I'm thinking of creating and submitting a sitemap manually but I don't have much experience. So, I'm asking for help and advice from those who have had similar issues or at least some experience with manual sitemaps. Any suggestions on what to do with their sitemap?

We've all been there. You sinned, you feel like the chief of sinners himself, and you feel like you have no business coming back to God. I know there's a thousand posts about this, and I appreciate all of them, but I wanna add another one I don't recall reading:
"This is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth." (1 Timothy 2:3-4)
You hear that? God wants everyone to be saved. That includes you. Do you really think, then, that you ought to be running from Him? It's a truly incredible gift to be aware of Jesus and what He has done for us, a privilege I think many Christians can take for granted. I've heard plenty of people say things along the lines of "God was always waiting for you, He wants you to get back up and follow him," and as encouraging as that is, I didn't have the scripture off the top of my head to back it up. I struggled to believe that God was really sitting there thinking "I sure with this guy would turn around and keep following me." Upon contemplating it, I realized, yes, in fact God does want me to follow him, His word says so right there in 1 Timothy and probably several other places that my freshly sinful mind couldn't recall.
If you feel like you have no business coming to God, you're right, 'cause we're all unworthy. That doesn't mean He wants you running away, though-- He wants you to be saved, so the least you can do is pick up the pieces and get back in the fight. God bless.

HelloI was just playing with numbers a little bit and I don't get how this works ( I am not a math guy AT ALL), but this is breaking my head
If I pick 2 random numbers = 539 and 1679 ( as an example), and decide to add the numbers that they contain together, it would be like
5 + 3 + 9 = 17 and 1 + 6 + 7 + 9 = 23 and that is 17+23 = 40, and if I do the same thing again it becomes 4 + 0 = 4
now, if I start just adding random combinations of these numbers together, the end result is always going to be 4 :
53 + 9 (62) and 16 + 79 (95) = 95 + 62 = 157 = 1 + 5 + 7 = 13 = 1+3 = 4or539 + 1679 = 2218 = 2+2+1+8 = 13 = 1+3 = 4or5+39 + (1+679) = 44 + 680 = 724 =7 + 2 + 4 = 13 = 1 + 3 = 4
I don't get how we can pick out random number combinations from the 2 initial numbers, add them together and still get 4 as the end result after adding them together lol.please someone explain xd
another example:
797 and 7832
7+9+7 + 7 + 8 + 3 + 2 = 43 = 4 + 3 = 7
79 + 7 + 783 + 2 = 86 + 785 = 871 = 8+7+1 = 16 = 1+6 = 7