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2023.05.31 12:18 No_Tower4869 trip to essaouira from marrakech

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2023.05.31 12:18 Brassysoprano272 Solidarity among races

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2023.05.31 12:18 Equivalent_Spray1473 A tip for anyone wanting to do legendary score on the eastern region (once again everyone may know this already) use ziplines

You get at max 20 ziplines for the eastern region, iv found out that it is completely possible to connect ziplines from capital knot city to port knot city if you have every structure at lvl 2 it seems this is the way to efficiently deliver in the eastern region xD
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2023.05.31 12:18 ninjaturtle35 Sony alpha mark3 and dji gimbal

I'm trying to record 4k video on my Sony alpha mark 3 using a DJI SC2 gimbal but the face detection mode is off (not working) when de gimbal is connected to the camera. The only way that the face detection works with the gimbal is switching from 4k to HD. Anyone knows anything about this?
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2023.05.31 12:17 LastTopQuark Any Opinion on this Monitor?

I made a high performance computer, I have another I constructed that's more general purpose, and a mac laptop. I'm using a KVM switch for the first two (linux boxes) on a single monitor and use the laptop on a separate desk.
I'd like to combine the three, using the monitor below. I'm imagining the KVM switch driving one side of the monitor and the laptop connected to the other side of the monitor, all HDMI. See any problems with this plan? Have any opinion about the monitor? Any concerns that I'm not seeing? Thanks!!
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2023.05.31 12:17 RainBoyThatBoy Connection terminated, I'm sorry to interrupt you, Elizabeth

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2023.05.31 12:17 PurpleSolitudes Best Gaming Routers In USA Available on Amazon

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2023.05.31 12:17 dora_the_explorer08 Religious vs "Slut"

I am F15 (REFORM JEW) and over the past year I have become a lot more religious and have began practicing a-lot more frequently.
Recently, on school camp a girl in my year talked about me to my friend and said that I "cant be religious and a slut" .
For context, I go to an all girls christian school, and this girl happens to be a conservative christian (obviously no hate to conservative christians, this context is just added in order to provide more perspective and background)
And yes, I am religious and I also can be seen as "slutty". This past year i have been struggling with the balance of my life. Five days I week I partake in programs that connect to judaism, but I still don't feel like I fully fit in. And a lot of this is because, I feel i am not "pure" or "whole" enough.
Later in life I would like to become more religious and uphold certain modesty laws, and how can I say I want to do that, if i act like this?
When that girl talked about how I cant be religious and a slut, it really made me think about things. What a lot of people don't understand is that, my 'slutty' behaviours, only happen because i need to be validated and accepted in some way.
I feel quite shitty within myself, because how can I practice this amazing religion, if I can't even respect all the laws. And I understand that as a Reform jew, a lot of this laws are not fully nesscarry for me to observe.
But I want to be able to find my worth within my religion, and not within how am I perceived by others.
The way I am perceived by girls and boys in my year, make me feel like I am not doing a good job at being a jew. But deep down I know that no matter what, I will always crave that validation that i get from certain people. And I am not sure how to feel connected to my religion, whilst also feeling validated.
I am now a religious person, and I find so much joy in prayer and going to shul. But since I do certain things, or dress a certain way; people begin to perceive me for not the person I am.

I'm not sure why i am posting this, but last time I posted something I got a lot of much needed advice.
How do I balance having "sluttish" fun whilst also connecting to Hashem.

thanks everyone !
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2023.05.31 12:16 jpitha Just A Little Further 17/40

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The moment I sat down on the Throne, something activated. The lights that I turned on in the room became brighter, and there were more of them. Galleries on my left and right lit up, empty now but clearly meant for the residents to see me when I make speeches or proclamations. And most surprising of all
I can see.
I can see how many ships are docked - it's 6 counting us. Hah, we're listed as UNKNOWN STARSHIP. Hold on, I can fix that... There. Now we're listed as FarReach - Human/K'laxi exploration Starjumper.
I can see how many people are here - it's 11.5 million - huh, Rapid River Roaring wasn't lying after all.
I can see the food distribution centers - they're offline. What the? How are people getting fed? Clearly something is up there. I won't turn them on just yet until I learn more.
I can see the environmental systems... why are they running at such low output? That doesn't seem right. I think if I push here, and tweak there... There we go. That should help a great deal.
I can see... wait, what's this over here?
I can see the Gate
The Gate is locked.
How did we get through the Gate then? I mean, that means that Ottarn won't be able to get through at least. I'll have to explore that one later.
Turning away from the Gate, I look back at the Starbase. Hmm. It feels like I'm on the edge of something big. If I were to just... let go a little bit... I think I can... see...
I regain consciousness on the floor, out of breath, with Ava kneeling over me nearly in tears from panic. "Melody! Melody! Oh thank goodness you're all right!"
I sit up and look around. Ava wraps her arms around me and hugs me tightly. "I was so scared Melody. After you sat on the Throne, I heard noises like heavy machinery starting up, and then there was this storm of wind, and then your eyes glowed and there was a scream."
"Slow down Ava, a scream?"
"It came from everywhere. It sounded like the whole Starbase was screaming! It sounded like you were screaming. I looked up at you, and you had blood coming from your nose and ears and your mouth was open and you were glowing but your body wasn't making noise. I-I didn't know what to do, so I pulled you off the Throne."
Reaching up to my face I touch my ears, sure enough, my finger comes back wet with blood. I can feel it drying under my nose. What the hell happened?
You tried to integrate with Reach of the Might of Vzzx, but the Nanites weren't ready. You had a partial connection. Ava was correct to pull you off.
But what does it mean? What about all that stuff I saw?
When you sit on the Throne and truly integrate you become Reach of the Might of Vzzx. This is what Builders are.
Wait. Our starbases and starships are operated by AIs. You're telling me that out here they're operated by Builders?
Builders build. They rule. They are.
I look back at Ava "Thank you Ava, the Nanites tell me that you saved me." I return the hug just as tightly. "Builders are the starbases out here. They sit in the throne and become the starbase."
Holy shit. That's the missing piece!
"Ava! I know why everything looks so run down here. They haven't had a Builder on the throne in a long time. Reach of the Might of Vzzx is running on automatic! The wind you heard? The environmental systems were running at a super low setting. I turned up the air and scrubbers!"
Ava breaks the hug and looks at me wide eyed. "You mean that they... don't have AIs here, they have... humans running all the stations? As Builders?"
"Yes, I think that's how it works. A Builder, or a team of Builders lives and works at every starbase and they... become the starbase with the help of the Nanites. My Throne is like a... superpowered version of that. I can see so much more than the Starbase. I was able to perceive out into space, I could see the Gates! Ours is locked by the way, Ottarn isn't going anywhere."
"But, how did we get through then?"
I shrug "Builder magic I guess. As we learn more, we will become more proficient at operating things I think. For now, I'm going to take it easy and just try and get a handle on the basics." I move to get up and get back onto the Throne.
"No Melody! It nearly killed you!" Ava's voice trembles.
I reach for her hand and squeeze it tightly. "It's okay Ava. I know what I did wrong. I tried to go to deeply too early. The Nanites say I'm not ready to fully integrate yet, but I can get on and at least like... read the status log. Find out what needs to be done, and then make plans. I'm also going to try and reach out to FarReach, and let her know what I've found."
"Okay, if you say so." Ava plunks down next to the throne, sitting on the floor. "I'm staying right here though. If you start making the Starbase scream again, I'm pulling you off."
"Thanks Ava, please do that." I smile warmly at her. With the dried blood under my nose and down my neck, it probably doesn't look at nurturing as I meant it to.
Sitting again, I'm more prepared for it, but it's still a shock when I become the starbase again. This time, I reach out for the radio. There, okay, I see how it works. I think about the human system frequency for our Starjumpers and try and talk to FarReach.
There's a pause and a burst of static, then it clears and I hear FarReach! "This is FarReach, joint Human/K'laxi exploration Starjumper, who is this?"
"Hi FarReach!" I say brightly! "It's Melody!"
"Melody? Where are you? What are you doing? I suddenly got flooded with radio until I opened the mic to listen, and then it focused in on the standard channel."
"Sorry, that was me."
"You? Are you at a comm station?"
"Kind of? I'm Reach of the Might of Vzzx right now."
"I know you're on the Starbase Melody, where on the Starbase are you?"
"No no, I mean I am Might of Vzzx right now. I've reassumed my Throne and it turns out when a Builder does that.. they kind of become the starbase.
"Become the-- Melody, What are you doing?" FarReach sounds worried.
"Don't worry FarReach, other than the screaming - that was totally my fault, I tried to go too deep at first - it's fine. It's better than fine actually! I can see everything. I can see the Gates - they're locked by the way, I have no idea why we can traverse them. Also I can see... everything. It's tough to describe."
"Believe it or not, Melody, I have a hunch I know what you mean. You're looking at things like we see them."
"Yes! That's what I was thinking. I don't think they have AIs out here, they have Builders."
"Melody, that's... quite a lot. Is this what being an Empress is over here?"
"I think it's what being a Builder is. As Empress I think I have access to like, a higher level. I tried to access it, but Ava said I made the whole Starbase scream, and she had to pull me off the Throne."
"We heard that! That was you?" FarReach sounds worried.
"Ava said it was. Sorry if I scared everyone."
"And you got back onto the Throne?"
"Well, yes. I am Empress now. This starbase hasn't been managed in a long time. I need to read the logs and figure out how to start affecting repairs."
There's a pause at that. I bet FarReach is talking with the crew.
"So Mei'la was right. Thank you for reaching out and letting us know where you are and that you're safe. Captain Q'ari was worried when Mei'la and Fer'resi came back alone. Ava is with you?"
I look down at Ava, and she looks back up to me worried. I smile down to her and give her a thumbs up.
"Yes, Ava is here with me, she's okay too."
"Thank you Melody. Come on back when you're able. Everyone would love to hear about what you found." and FarReach closes the connection.
Huh. That was odd. She sounded distracted at the end. I wonder why.
The crew told her something she didn't like.
But what, do you suppose?
Many people in the crew do not like your new role and title. Some worry about what it means for them, others worry about what it means for things back home. Still others seethe with jealousy.
No, that can't be it. Why would they be jealous? Why would they worry about what this means for back home?
Melody, you are being naïve again. You are Empress. You can control matter. You can order people to do anything. You rule this side of the Galaxy now, and can easily rule the other again.
But it's not like I'm going to do anything bad to anyone. I'll be a good Empress. A great one even.
Great Empresses are feared as much as they are loved. More so perhaps. We can discuss this later. Look, you are seated upon your Throne. Much can be done here, call up the Gate map.
I think about a Gate map. Springing in front of me is a stylized map of the Galaxy. I recognize the spiral arms and it's actually quite pretty. A small royal blue dot is lit. That must be here.
I concentrate on the map "Show me the location of all Gates."
A flood of yellow dots appears on the map, all over the Galaxy. Far more than we had mapped out, truly there are over five hundred of them.
"Show me currently active Gates."
A worryingly small amount of the yellow dots turns blue. Maybe seventy five of them? Interestingly there is a large cloud of blue dots over on the other side of the galaxy, back home. Other than a small swarm around here, that's the largest other location of Gates.
Even after they rejected your rule, they kept their Gates and they are some of the largest group now active. The Nanites chuckle to themselves.
Hmm. If the Gates are connected to each other - and they'd have to be in order to work then I wonder...
"Ping all Gates. Color code replies; Green as working active gates, Yellow as working but deactivated gates, Red as locked but still active gates, and Black as no reply received."
At that command, I can feel it. My... order, my command leaves the Reach and connects to the Gate. There's a sense of spreading as the command reaches out. How am I able to see the Gates so quickly? What am I seeing?
There is only The Gate. All Gates you traverse are... shadows of The Gate that exist in four dimensional spacetime. They all pass through The Gate that exists in a higher plane.
So Gate traversal is instantaneous?
Well yes. You're not moving once you enter the Gate. The Addressing Module directs the Gate where to put you in Spacetime. It takes no time, because no distance is traveled.
Wild. Did Builders make them?
Yes, long, long *ago. It was one of our greatest achievements.*
Okay, so I have the data, but how to interpret it. Let me try and overlay the results of the Census over the galaxy map. When I look up, my jaw drops.
Way more of the gates are green than I had figured. As in, active, operating and ready to traverse. The majority are yellow, meaning that they're currently not online, but can be brought online. There are only a few red gates, and no black gates.
The Gate system is completely intact.
Wait, what's that red gate over on the other side of the galaxy. There's a locked gate near home. The K'laxi have never reported to us they found a locked gate. I wonder if that's one we don't know about or if...
That's the Gate to Earth.
It's just locked? As in, I could unlock it and open it?
At any time, Empress.
But, we never had a Gate. We explored our system inside and outside and never found any technology - and believe me we looked. We spent millennia thinking we were alone until we met the K'laxi. Why didn't a previous Empress open it though. If it is that easy, they could have gone back at any time.
I want to unlock the Gate. Pass through it, and show everyone what I found, what I am.
You need only say it, Empress.
No. Not yet. I need to be able to go there in a way that's... befitting me.
Back to the starbase. If it has 11 something million people, then it has to be way larger than what I've seen. Show me the whole thing.
I'm shown. I see kilometers upon kilometers of halls, thousand upon thousands of living quarters, I see gardens, and parks and playgrounds and offices and... I see a whole transit system I had no idea was here! I can't believe there's a train here and I haven't ridden it yet!
Remembering Ava, I say out loud "Holy shit, this place is huge. The parts that we've seen is barely a tenth of the whole place. They have a train Ava! Let's go for a ride later!"
Ava smiles "I'd love that, Melody."
Wait a minute. I turn inwards again.
"Give me a listing of all known Starbases."
A list appears next to the galaxy map. Almost every system at one time had a Starbase at least as large as this one, some had even larger ones.
"Give me a listing of known Planets."
A slightly smaller, but still large list appears. I'm starting to feel faint. What have I dived into? There are literally tens, if not hundreds of billions of people here. Back home there around 15 billion humans spread across space, with 4 or 5 billion K'laxi and 3 or 4 billion Xenni. Combined that's...
That's more people than what I can effectively rule. What am I doing? I don't even know about this whole Starbase, let alone the Galaxy. One person can't rule a Galaxy, no matter how much they want to. What are these Nanites trying to sign me up for?
We need you to understand the immenseness of your task, and understand that we do not intend for you to rule alone. Currently, you are the only Builder known, but that never meant you were meant to be the only Builder. Make more.
W-What? I don't even have a partner! I don't even really know yet if I like men or women or both or neither! I'm barely out of my teen years, I can't make more people!
Sigh. Not like that, Melody. Use us. Use the Nanites to make Builders. You are Empress, only you will have the commanding voice, but other Builders will help you to rule. Start with that one, Ava. She already craves it. She will be a welcome and loyal addition.
I look over at Ava. She's still looking at me worriedly. She really does want to be a part of all this - whatever it's going to be.
There are others too. Q'ari wants to be involved very badly, but we don't know if the Nanites will work on K'laxi. We don't know how we feel about K'laxi Builders too.
Don't be racist. They'd do a fine job.
So you say, Empress. Invite them then.
Ugh. If I'm going to do this, the Nanites are right. I need help. I'll need more Builders. Should I do this? I want to do this, but is that the Nanites talking? Every time I let them off leash I tend to sound... intense. I wish I had some coffee.
I wish I could get some range time in.
I sigh. Am I doing this? Am I really doing this?
I think I am. I have never really wanted anything as much as I want this. As much as I want to show everyone what I can do, what I can be.
I stand up and break the connection. I feel... empty for a moment. I can see how people could get addicted to data streams like that. I stretch mightily and sit down on the floor next to Ava.
"Ava. There's a metric ton of work to be done, and I don't think I can do it all on my own. I don't want to do it all on my own. The Nanites were giving me options and I was wondering..."
As I speak, her eyes get wider and wider and she practically vibrates from excitement. She knows what I'm going to ask her.
"Do you want to become a Builder? You won't get the voice that orders people around, that's an Empress thing apparently, only one person as a time can do that. I can see why too, what happens if we both have the ability and try to use it on each other, right? Anyway. The Nanites say I can make you a Builder, and you can help me out. We'll need more Builders too. I want to try on the K'laxi too, Captain Q'ari seems like she wants in, though I don't know if she'll agree to it. Being Captain is important to her. So what do you say?"
"Yes yes yes yes! I want in!"
I hold up a hand. "This means that officially, your old life is over. It means throwing our lot in on this side of the Galaxy permanently. We can Gate home for visits or something, but it won't be for a while, and it'll be as foreigners. We will be cutting ourselves off from our old lives."
"My old life sucked ass. I want in!"
"Okay, last thing." I take a breath. "It could mean - though I hope it doesn't - that we will be seen as enemies back home. You saw the Marien's ship, it's trying to escape and is taking days to get somewhere FarReach can go in hours. FarReach alone has enough firepower to shrug off any threat we can bring to bear. If the folks back home decide to cause trouble for us, it'll be big trouble. If you throw in with me, it becomes your trouble. Our trouble.
Ava kneels down in front of me without a single bit of hesitation. "I want this, Melody. More than anything else I've ever wanted. I accept all the risks, I happily throw my old life away."
We like her. She gets it.
I stand up in front of her.
Okay then, how do we give her the Nanites?
Give her a kiss.
You are kidding me.
We are completely serious. It's the quickest way to transfer enough of us to begin the process. Plus, it's ceremonial, has an air of regal intimacy about it. Also, she'll love it.
I reach down and gently tip her head up with my fingers, bend down and gently kiss her on the lips.
She leans in slightly and melts into the kiss.
Told you she'd love it.
"Rise, Builder."
She stands on shaky legs. "Builder Ava, it will take a day or so for the Nanites to replicate and integrate, but once they do, you will be a Builder like me, and be able to do many of the things I can do. You will be my right hand, and be my voice where I am not. You will carry out my decisions and have the power to make your own. Together with the other Builders I create, we will reunite this galaxy and show everyone our power, our might and our love."
"I am yours to command Empress."
"Excellent. Your first task is to get me my coffee supplies from FarReach, I am dying for a cup."
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2023.05.31 12:16 uruindevrytngustpdb I can't maintain healthy relationships even though I feel I'm trying. Seeking advice from people with similar issues who've found workable solutions/new perspective/realisation.

This post is long but I seriously need to change and wanted to put down all my social issues in one post, because it's cathartic and I want to know if others with BPD have these issues. If you notice any weird perspectives/unhealthy thought patterns I have, I'd like to hear about them and how I could go about changing it.
As a person, I've been described as charming, colourful and crazy. I have a lot of interests and love getting to know people. But in my adult life (25+), that's only when people get to know me and I feel comfortable sharing more than small talk. Otherwise I seem uptight and am a bit guarded. I feel like I've lost my boldness in being myself the more aware I am of my patterns and behaviour since being diagnosed with BPD.
I've been so confused lately. I thought I was sociable and had a lot of friends. I feel like with most relationships in my life (and that's very few actually) including my mother, my sibling, my closest friend and one or two other friends, I have been a good friend. I have listened to them when they had something to gripe about, I've made myself available for them whenever they've needed me, I've compromised according to their needs, I haven't needed much from them. But the second I need them (the close friends), they won't even respond to a text or listen to me when something is bothering me without cutting me off saying 'eh, it happens to everyone'. This happens when their lives are going well in every way, and then I hear from them when they're struggling, I think because I like to listen and they don't get that elsewhere.
The only place I really talk about myself is with my family, but even there I keep feeling a sense of injustice, like my needs are never met and theirs are for the most part. I know I'm not perfect, I'm hot headed with them and get irritated a lot, but is my perception of injustice so skewed? I often feel like I'm being gaslit into thinking I'm overreacting to not having my needs met. And then when I vocalise it (it usually leads to a fight, and I say the worst things because I feel like a pot boiling over), they appease me in a begrudging way and keep a safe distance, and then old patterns come back where I feel like a doormat.
The part that makes me think it's my fault is that I can't sustain healthy relationships outside of my family and close friends. When I meet new people, I'm withdrawn, shy and self conscious, but very friendly and polite, but I never 'make' friends. I don't like to overshare because I'm hypersensitive to people's expression changes, and instantly change what I'm talking about if I notice disapproval/judgment. I'm fine with small talk and superficial chat, but when conversations get more serious, I've noticed I live in a very 'prudish' place where I don't fit in with the culture. It's not ok to talk about sex, mental health, social stigmas, feminism, or to point out injustices in our society. And the people I find that are comfortable with those conversations or share similar opinions often want to push me to do things I don't want to do (not in a healthy way) and don't respect my boundaries. I feel like those groups think open-mindedness means ignoring other people's boundaries and pushing for things without consent. I don't get invited to things and people forget me pretty quickly although they're friendly. I think I've made one friend in 5 years, and that's because they were into me. A lot of my friendships are that. A person of the opposite sex is into me and wants to date but I say no and we stay friends. They then disappear when they have a new crush or relationship, and then reach out whenever they're in-between things. It's only this year that I noticed this pattern, and I feel used and hurt, but also like it's my fault for not noticing that they were so attentive and 'close' friends because they needed me as a stand in for a relationship or wanted to date me.
And the healthy relationships I have had (with coworkers, classmates), I don't know how to keep in touch with them because I had so many depressive episodes and didn't have sufficient things to update them on in my life so became withdrawn and AWOL for months at a time and that has ruined the friendship.
Two things that make me embarrassed and ashamed to talk to people is that I'm unemployed and overweight. I used to be slim growing up and through my teen years, and a high achiever through high school so being overweight now I feel ugly because it doesn't feel like my body. And I feel like a waste of space since I haven't been able to get a job for a few years. I have closed off body language, I think my self consciousness shows and I avoid sports, going out, dancing, exercising in public even though I love it, and things like reunions. I'm working hard now to lose the weight because I haven't ever been able to come to terms with being overweight or accepting my body over the last decade. But I'm pretty lost about the employment thing because my social issues slightly get in the way of being able to stand up for myself in interviews and even seem confident. I've had so many shame spirals over the last 5 years, it's been the worst thing for me mentally. I really need therapy but the therapists I've seen in my area over the last few years are all for medicating with an antidepressant rather than talk therapy.
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2023.05.31 12:16 Excellent-Basket-825 Sales people trying to pretend they are product people on LinkedIn

This is super random. I'm starting to get really frustrated by people who contact me through various ways to pretend that they want to talk about product-related questions.
I used to be very approachable and before I closed down my LinkedIn profile so only people with my email can send connection requests I was absolutely hammered with 50-100 requests where 30 of which had messages, per day. I get it, they want to make business and it's tough.
But what really annoys me now is that you have convincing people striking up conversations about product questions that I frankly am very interested in discussing and after like 4-5 messages it turns into:
"Oh we have a product for that would you like to discuss it further with me?"
And then I go to their profile and I see it's an SDR masking to be actually interested in the topic, and they are clearly not. And this has dramatically increased. I wouldn't be surprised if they now use LLM-powered tools to sound more convincing.
This annoys me so much. All it does is that I become less approachable for PMs who have actually interesting questions. This never happened to me on Substack (because they can't message me but have to publicly put their comments in) or even here.
Does anyone else notice something similar?
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2023.05.31 12:16 RainBoyThatBoy Connection terminated, I'm sorry to interrupt you, Elizabeth

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2023.05.31 12:16 Gnoopschnorf I told my parents I hate myself

I (25F) have hated myself since my teens. Self hatred has become the very core of my being and I don't know who to be without it. I understand now that this is something that can be changed with therapy and that it needs to be changed in order for me to at least get close to a life I'd find worth living. So I've been going to therapy and progress is slow, tiring, painful and sometimes boring and not looking like recovery at all.
Anyway. I've had major depressive episodes since my teens when I was still living with my parents. I thought it was just puberty and hormones so I kept quiet and let it worsen until it came to selfharm and suicidal thoughts. Still, they knew nothing. I moved out at 17 to study elsewhere and start anew: puberty begone!
And whaddayaknow, it freaking worked! For about a year at least. Something bad happened and after that I got my first relationship. It failed because I was not emotionally open to him and traded him for someone else who was very open about his own trauma. I could, however, also not open up to him. I did not realize this at the time, it just manifested itself in depressive and dissociative episodes and major anxiety that I'd be left alone if he ever found out the disgusting person I really am.
My last depressive episode came on because of something unrelated and I finally decided this could no longer go on. I got therapy and told my parents that I did so, nothing more yet really. Lately, I feel that I've been making progress and I see that I can't just shut emotionally my parents out like this if I feel like that emotional connection is something I might've lacked. Maybe I never gave them the chance. Because my parents love me and are by all means amazing parents.
So I told them about my progress, about my hopes for the future, about how I see that my depression is not abnormal and everyone struggles from time to time. And then I finally dropped the bomb, finally I wanted them to hear what I had not dared to show for all those years: I hate myself.
My dad said: "Well that's just stupid. You know those thoughts are wrong so yeah you just have to work on that and not feel that way."
He doesn't mean it in a bad way, he loves me and can't understand why I'd hate myself. He also does not have any patience for people feeling sorry for themselves. But it also just illustrated exactly what I've missed all this time. Instead of empathy I receive dismissal. I guess it's better than when I lived at home, back then I'd receive a short burst of anger or he'd make fun of it.
I love you, dad, but you are not my friend.
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2023.05.31 12:16 ananyaRanz Hot Take : Everybody except Marar👺 is boring 🥱

Just a personal opinion as a viewer
The less Marar is on screen the more boring the live gets
It will either be
Junaiz - Nadira 😤
Ranesha - Anu 💤💤💤
Shobha - victim 💯
Vishnu - Battery 🔋 down and disabled
Rinosh - Midhun - Kindergarten cringe 😬
Cerena - How to be a Chameloeon 101
It is only when Marar does something good/ evil/ funny/ not so funny/ big brain move/ atrocities/ bullying/ provocating/ trigger / getting triggered that this Show comes alive
And if even Marar won't win the trophy 🏆 ( 90%wont) I'l be damned if they give it to pazham vizhingi Rinosh and eternal victim Shobha
If not Marar give to Junaiz for sheer consistency atleast
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2023.05.31 12:16 EKnoxx Constantly switching between audio devices

I generally rotate between two different headsets (Bluetooth and USB wireless) and speakers in terms of audio devices for my PC. Lately I've been having an issue where sometimes, usually coinciding with a USB device being connected/disconnected, my PC will start rapid-fire switching backwards and forwards between two of the audio devices and won't stop until I restart my system. I've tried uninstalling devices, uninstalling drivers, factory resetting the headsets, etc., and nothing I do seems to stop this issue from cropping up every now and again.
My operating system is Windows 10.
Bluetooth & other devices :
Toolbar :
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2023.05.31 12:15 jobingis The Best Career Job Search Sites

In today's competitive job market, finding the right career opportunity can be a challenging task. Job seekers often rely on online platforms to search for job openings, submit applications, and connect with potential employers. One such platform that has gained recognition for its effectiveness is This review will delve into the features and benefits of as one of the best career job search sites.
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2023.05.31 12:15 FlyingSparks82 Buying body only tools from USA

I live in the UK and already have a couple of Ryobi tools, with batteries and charger. I am looking to buy a P321 nailer and have seen a body only on Amazon for a good price, but it is being shipped from USA. Is there any reason this won't work with my existing UK batteries?
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2023.05.31 12:15 Have_questions_ Tracking „Success and Failure“

Recently, I started tracking successes and failures in connection with resisting the urge to engage with pornography.
I printed a rudimentary yearlong planner, and I am marking down the days when I successfully resisted “S” for success and the days I fell off the wagon for failure. Days on which day which was not a problem stay blank.
Additionally, I jot down – in bullet points – what helped me on good days and what triggered or what I suspect as the cause, that led to engaging with porn on “failed” bad days.
So far, it has been helpful to see patterns and figure out possible triggers. I think it's also going to help me to realise the success that I’m having with managing myself, and to get the feeling all like first warning signs that/ if I start struggling much more.
I am very “data oriented” (Autism) so to speak, my short and long-term memory is poor (ADHD). „Traditional“ talking therapy NEVER really gave me results such as I am getting with this self-tracking method and basically studying myself in a “quasi scientific manner”.
I am posting this to say, if whatever your trying is not working, switch it up and find something that works FOR YOU.
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2023.05.31 12:14 MysteriousGenius A best city to live in as a digital nomad

I'm planning to apply a digital nomad visa in Spain next year and perhaps even getting a property and citizenship in future. Now I'm evaluating different cities based on personal criteria and wanted to ask locals' option on which ones I could consider.
The main criteria is presence of IT community, expats and English speakers (I've started learning Spanish, but it will take time). I have nobody at Spain currently and professional talks has always been my way of making social connections.
That might sound like Madrid and/or Barcelona are best options, but I'm wondering what other options do I have. I've been to Malaga as a tourist once, really liked the city and now found out about their TechPark, which makes me think this must be the place, unless it's good only for tourists. Also I'm seeing a lot of people are moving to places like Valencia or Seville.
What do you reckon?
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2023.05.31 12:14 Elascr Laptop charging question (remove if not allowed)

Hey, tried this on the laptop sub but didn't get much luck.
My laptop won't charge.
I have a lenovo yoga s730 - it's a bit of a mess right now, it won't charge, the track pad is glitching, and the R key just flat out doesn't work.
But Right now the biggest issue is that it won't stay switched on unless it's connected to power, even after changing the battery and trying 3 different chargers.
The new battery has said plugged in but not charging since I got it, and has slowly dropped from 50% down to 6% now.
And now to top it all off, both chargers only seem to work at a certain angle, and it just cuts the power if I move 😂
Any guesses as to what I can do to fix?
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