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2013.09.30 17:33 xxbeast15 When you feel old and just gotta say Fuck
When you look at kids nowadays and see their shitty music you can't help but think of how everything is old and you just gotta say Fuck, Im Old.
2023.05.31 12:15 Pitiful-Signature996 When did iPads at dinner become the norm?
Having recently been on a family holiday abroad and whilst eating out in the U.K., I was amazed at the amount of parents who put their kids on iPads at Breakfast/Lunch and Dinner, to distract them into silence.
When I was younger, you ate with the family and enjoyed/endured conversation and company. I do the same with my kids now, as do many parents. It helps kids develop social skills.
Sure, parenting is really hard but when did it become Ok and how do you get them to stop when they’re older?
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When I was younger, you ate with the family and enjoyed/endured conversation and company. I do the same with my kids now, as do many parents. It helps kids develop social skills.
Sure, parenting is really hard but when did it become Ok and how do you get them to stop when they’re older?
2023.05.31 12:15 No-Scheme2049 Life update (late 2023)
Well 77 days after my life update which HOLY SHIT ITS BEEN SO LONG💀 I guess it’s appropriate to say how my life is going now
I’m starting to meet new people but still have a rough time talking to people and being ignored but at this point I’m not really going to let that affect me as much
Also I’m planning a full music career soon, I wanna vent but at the same time I hate venting so much, people are the reason why I hate venting.
I wanna go for like a emo pop punk type of vibe for my music but it’s so hard to produce I only use my phone lmao
Update #2; and I’ve been getting hella better, im still a bit unmotivated and still on edge kind of but I’m hoping this summer I make the best comeback and not let drama get to me, I’m 19 I got other things to focus on other than “online drama” Also I’m so sorry if this is so long but yeah Also Update #3 I did say I was gonna do stop motion but I gotta learn claymation and stuff first before I get to that since it’ll be more understandable and I can get it done quicker
And yeah I’m sorry this is so long, I don’t really speak here a lot but yeah
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I’m starting to meet new people but still have a rough time talking to people and being ignored but at this point I’m not really going to let that affect me as much
Also I’m planning a full music career soon, I wanna vent but at the same time I hate venting so much, people are the reason why I hate venting.
I wanna go for like a emo pop punk type of vibe for my music but it’s so hard to produce I only use my phone lmao
Update #2; and I’ve been getting hella better, im still a bit unmotivated and still on edge kind of but I’m hoping this summer I make the best comeback and not let drama get to me, I’m 19 I got other things to focus on other than “online drama” Also I’m so sorry if this is so long but yeah Also Update #3 I did say I was gonna do stop motion but I gotta learn claymation and stuff first before I get to that since it’ll be more understandable and I can get it done quicker
And yeah I’m sorry this is so long, I don’t really speak here a lot but yeah
2023.05.31 12:15 Constant_Trouble_951 How bad is adrenaline as a food source for pathogens?
How bad is adrenaline?
So i just wondered. How bad is adrenaline as a food source for the pathogens really? I saw a comment a long time ago where someone said that adrenaline is even worse than eating Nofoods when it comes to fuel for the pathogens.. if this is the case I guess I will never heal..
i'm struggling with social anxiety and have situations every week where I release a lot of adrenaline during certain situations. I cant isolate myself as I got responsibilities, the social anxiety is worse when I have my neurological symptoms, and almost gone at times when im in a good period. Just want to clear this up. Im working really hard doing 369 cleanses, taking supplements etc. Feels kinda hopeless if I can't heal due to my social anxiety situations..
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So i just wondered. How bad is adrenaline as a food source for the pathogens really? I saw a comment a long time ago where someone said that adrenaline is even worse than eating Nofoods when it comes to fuel for the pathogens.. if this is the case I guess I will never heal..
i'm struggling with social anxiety and have situations every week where I release a lot of adrenaline during certain situations. I cant isolate myself as I got responsibilities, the social anxiety is worse when I have my neurological symptoms, and almost gone at times when im in a good period. Just want to clear this up. Im working really hard doing 369 cleanses, taking supplements etc. Feels kinda hopeless if I can't heal due to my social anxiety situations..
2023.05.31 12:15 halleymariana I’m a self sabotaging Toxic Rebel!
I’m not sure if this post should go here but I can’t think of any other platform.
Basically, I become unreasonably non functional when anything is “Expected” of me”, especially when these things are related to my own well being. Things like, My Sleep schedule, My productivity or My Health.
People who try to motivate me, end up demotivating me to do such things. Doesn’t matter how they do it. Some permanent people in my life have tried different methods , like good talks or “you’re useless” talks, former never works, latter worsen the situation.
I’m not an outwardly “Rebellious” person, I never oppose to such things, But I think internally I am. Cause if someone “Expects” these things from me, I completely dissociate myself from that thing, Or I just can’t bring myself to do it. It affects my motivation, efficiency, faith (in myself) Everything!
And yes, I do know “Motivation” isn’t required to do stuff, etc etc I Know. And I’ve tried doing things without Motivation, but the efficiency is just at lost, and the Will do to it without motivation lasts for first 2-3 times But then it just goes away. I don’t even have the Will to “Force” myself to do such stuff.
I think internally, my people pleasing nature + perfectionism, plays a huge role, and that combination makes me Procrastinate AF! This is just my guess but even if it’s true, I don’t know what the f to do about it, I can’t do therapy because of financial reasons and I’m not suicidal or anything enough to use free services even if it exists.
I wanna grow but these things just can’t let me, it scares me to imagine future where everything’s still the same, I do dream about a good future But I’m not optimistic about it, I just say dream and be happy for a second. But I don’t think I can make it.
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Basically, I become unreasonably non functional when anything is “Expected” of me”, especially when these things are related to my own well being. Things like, My Sleep schedule, My productivity or My Health.
People who try to motivate me, end up demotivating me to do such things. Doesn’t matter how they do it. Some permanent people in my life have tried different methods , like good talks or “you’re useless” talks, former never works, latter worsen the situation.
I’m not an outwardly “Rebellious” person, I never oppose to such things, But I think internally I am. Cause if someone “Expects” these things from me, I completely dissociate myself from that thing, Or I just can’t bring myself to do it. It affects my motivation, efficiency, faith (in myself) Everything!
And yes, I do know “Motivation” isn’t required to do stuff, etc etc I Know. And I’ve tried doing things without Motivation, but the efficiency is just at lost, and the Will do to it without motivation lasts for first 2-3 times But then it just goes away. I don’t even have the Will to “Force” myself to do such stuff.
I think internally, my people pleasing nature + perfectionism, plays a huge role, and that combination makes me Procrastinate AF! This is just my guess but even if it’s true, I don’t know what the f to do about it, I can’t do therapy because of financial reasons and I’m not suicidal or anything enough to use free services even if it exists.
I wanna grow but these things just can’t let me, it scares me to imagine future where everything’s still the same, I do dream about a good future But I’m not optimistic about it, I just say dream and be happy for a second. But I don’t think I can make it.
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2023.05.31 12:14 Manex42 Unsupported CPU detected. CPU needs to support SSE, SSE2 and SSE3.
 | Hello, anybody have idea why is this happening ? Like I probably know what but dont know how to fix it I know only workaround for now and its disabling CCD2 in bios but its not solution. submitted by Manex42 to HuntShowdown [link] [comments] In process lasso I can see that only CCD2 (non x3D vcache) is running and cant set it to full CPU (CCD1 & CCD2) or just CCD1 due to some permissions. Every other game is running perfect or I can set it to CCD1 but not hunt showdown. It worked from 8.5. (build PC) until tomorrow when I went play with friends and got this message. I currently have CPU: AMD Ryzen 9 7950X3D MOBO: GIGABYTE X670E AORUS MASTER GPU: GIGABYTE GeForce RTX 4090 GAMING OC 24G RAM: Corsair 64GB KIT DDR5 6200MHz CL32 Vengeance Black OS: Windows 10 pro if anything else is important let me know reason why im trying to fix this is FPS problem. When it was working correctly I had like 200-400 fps now I have 120-150 but it feels like 20-30fps. Thanks everyone that is trying to help :) https://preview.redd.it/3x2giys6l63b1.png?width=409&format=png&auto=webp&s=fdb96c89259fea67d9bd477da3095b0ce65f47dd |
2023.05.31 12:14 Logical_Cherry_7588 What was the progression of how different layouts came about? Is this correct?
- Tables
- Float
- Positioning
- Flex Box
- Grid
2023.05.31 12:14 Confident-Loquat7272 Changed mobile number and no socials. Are they likely to contact again?
Usual story, got chatting to a girl on a dating site. Anyway we moved the conversation over to whatsapp and i stupidly sent over some money for some pics via bank transfer. The number seemed legit and they talked convincingly. This was both incredibly naive and insanely stupid of me as i have a partner...who despite my actions the other day I care for and love deeply. I just did an immensely dumb and hurtful thing for some short term thrill.
Anyhow, almost immediately the "girl" i was talking with started to demand money from me saying that she now knew my full name from the bank transfer (incidentally i have their bank details too, which have been verified as legit by the bank). I blocked them, but they then contacted me the next day with a screenshot of my partner's fb page and a few family members fb pages too. They also included some other accounts that I knew nothing about. The obvious ensued with them repeatedly threatening to send "everything" to her and the family members mentioned. I was surprised by this as i haven't had any social media for around 4-5 years and wouldn't have expected that they could have tracked my particular family members down. In any case, they found enough folk for me to panic. I immediately told my partner. She's understandably hurt and livid but is being as supportive as she can.
I didn't respond to their messages. All of them were phrased as some kind of final warning. They repeatedly said they had already messaged someone, only to threaten to message that same person again a few hours later. The ammount of money demanded got less and less and they almost seemed to be pleading by the end for me to pay up. So everything rang hollow. But again, I'm not srure how this works and i don't really know how to gauge it.
This went on from 6pm on the 29th until they petered out at 1:30am yesterday morning and i didn't receive any further correspondence. I have since changed my phone number, bought a crappy burner, deleted or changed names accounts with my name on it (Spotify, Playstation etc) and reached out to the people they threatened to contact incase they did get in touch.
The conversation this girl and i had was pretty tame in all honesty. Just her offering to trade pics for a small sum of money and me saying "cool" and paying. Apart from the embarrassment and shame of being caught in the act of something as cheap and sleazy as this, i'm not terrified of the consequences of a leak. It'll just show me being a total idiot. I am however concerned of the hurt I'll further cause my partner if this drags on.
So in light of the fact that they have literally no means of contacting me, are they likely to leak anything? Or attempt to contact me via her or a family member?
I'm kinda worried now that closing off all avenues of communication with them will lead them to escalate somehow??
Anybody been in a similar situation??
Cheers
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Anyhow, almost immediately the "girl" i was talking with started to demand money from me saying that she now knew my full name from the bank transfer (incidentally i have their bank details too, which have been verified as legit by the bank). I blocked them, but they then contacted me the next day with a screenshot of my partner's fb page and a few family members fb pages too. They also included some other accounts that I knew nothing about. The obvious ensued with them repeatedly threatening to send "everything" to her and the family members mentioned. I was surprised by this as i haven't had any social media for around 4-5 years and wouldn't have expected that they could have tracked my particular family members down. In any case, they found enough folk for me to panic. I immediately told my partner. She's understandably hurt and livid but is being as supportive as she can.
I didn't respond to their messages. All of them were phrased as some kind of final warning. They repeatedly said they had already messaged someone, only to threaten to message that same person again a few hours later. The ammount of money demanded got less and less and they almost seemed to be pleading by the end for me to pay up. So everything rang hollow. But again, I'm not srure how this works and i don't really know how to gauge it.
This went on from 6pm on the 29th until they petered out at 1:30am yesterday morning and i didn't receive any further correspondence. I have since changed my phone number, bought a crappy burner, deleted or changed names accounts with my name on it (Spotify, Playstation etc) and reached out to the people they threatened to contact incase they did get in touch.
The conversation this girl and i had was pretty tame in all honesty. Just her offering to trade pics for a small sum of money and me saying "cool" and paying. Apart from the embarrassment and shame of being caught in the act of something as cheap and sleazy as this, i'm not terrified of the consequences of a leak. It'll just show me being a total idiot. I am however concerned of the hurt I'll further cause my partner if this drags on.
So in light of the fact that they have literally no means of contacting me, are they likely to leak anything? Or attempt to contact me via her or a family member?
I'm kinda worried now that closing off all avenues of communication with them will lead them to escalate somehow??
Anybody been in a similar situation??
Cheers
2023.05.31 12:13 ThrowRA302O INTPs who know how numbers work, I am about to go nuts please help
I was just playing with numbers a little bit and I don't get how this works ( I am not a math guy AT ALL), but this is breaking my head If I pick 2 random numbers = 539 and 1679 ( as an example), and decide to add the numbers that they contain together, it would be like 5 + 3 + 9 = 17 and 1 + 6 + 7 + 9 = 23 and that is 17+23 = 40, and if I do the same thing again it becomes 4 + 0 = 4 (bear with me) now, if I start just adding random combinations of these numbers together, the end result is always going to be 4 : 53 + 9 (62) and 16 + 79 (95) = 95 + 62 = 157 = 1 + 5 + 7 = 13 = 1+3 = 4 or 539 + 1679 = 2218 = 2+2+1+8 = 13 = 1+3 = 4 or 5+39 + (1+679) = 44 + 680 = 724 =7 + 2 + 4 = 13 = 1 + 3 = 4 I don't get how we can pick out random number combinations from the 2 initial numbers, add them together and still get 4 as the end result after adding them together lol.please someone explain xd
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2023.05.31 12:13 New_Bug2913 I recently got on the council housing list and approved for HAP.
I recently got on the council housing list and approved for HAP. I’m in a very catholic household and toxic environment. Long story short I’m a mother of a five month old and my baby daddy and I split when I was pregnant because he’s gay so you can imagine what it’s like living in a catholic household with that going on. I get teased and verbal abuse about my baby daddy’s situation. I applied for housing but I can’t last waiting on the years it takes to get a house. Does anyone have any ideas on how to get housing quicker. I’m currently on maternity leave. I’m studying to be a special needs assistant and I just can’t afford to buy anything right now. Please help.
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2023.05.31 12:13 makemeswet Returning a rented bear canister
Hi all, july 19th me and my GF are starting from Tuolumne Meadows to do the JMT. We are pondering about the bear canister, among other things. Yosemite gov website states that we can only return a rented canister to a wilderness center in Yosemite, however we'll be needing it outsite of Yosemite too (Kings Canyon, Sequoia). Has anyone ever tried shipping it back to a Yosemite Wilderness center? How does it work with the deposit?
We're wondering if we should rent one (for 5$ a week, return shipping costs and possibly no returned deposit) or just buy two at REI (and sell it). Only thing is we live in Europe and bear canisters are pretty useless here, so our best chances are to sell them in the area where we finish our hike.
Any thoughts?
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We're wondering if we should rent one (for 5$ a week, return shipping costs and possibly no returned deposit) or just buy two at REI (and sell it). Only thing is we live in Europe and bear canisters are pretty useless here, so our best chances are to sell them in the area where we finish our hike.
Any thoughts?
2023.05.31 12:13 RazrLord People earning in USD in SL (from US or outside US). How do you guys handle the taxes, and how do you handle receive payments?
So the taxation for foreign income is still sort of debated around (I mean do you guys even report your foreign income or not report it at all). How do you guys handle receiving the USD? Since Wise is blocked and Payoneer is a bit troublesome (with their weird receiving account setup, restrictions and their fees)? Do any of you guys use the PFC accounts, how has it been so far? Which banks would you recommend?
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2023.05.31 12:13 Papluch Call options adjustment after 20/1 reverse split
Call options adjustment after 20/1 reverse split
BBIG recently announced a 20/1 reverse split, I currently have 145 call options 0.50$ strike price - exp Jan 2024 cost of option 0.27$ per contract.
My broker has adjusted the options but the strike price remains the same ? could anyone please clarify what my strike price is after the split and how I calculate an exit strategy if the stock price increases before the expiry date in Jan 2024.
I have been trying to calculate with options profit calculator but failed miserably
Many Thanks
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BBIG recently announced a 20/1 reverse split, I currently have 145 call options 0.50$ strike price - exp Jan 2024 cost of option 0.27$ per contract.
My broker has adjusted the options but the strike price remains the same ? could anyone please clarify what my strike price is after the split and how I calculate an exit strategy if the stock price increases before the expiry date in Jan 2024.
I have been trying to calculate with options profit calculator but failed miserably
Many Thanks
2023.05.31 12:12 booshtukka DJM-900NXS2 - any way to get the Color FX to control Pitch?
My old DDJ-SZ had a pitch mode for colour fx and with a roll it was so good for a build up to a drop. TBH I only ever use Filter and Noise. Is there a way to reassign the other modes or is it all in hardware?
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2023.05.31 12:12 United_Attitude9531 My girlfriend is sensitive in taking jokes but insensitive when SHE'S joking
This has been happening a lot. At one point we even talked about it. She's the type of person that likes to make harsh/sensitive jokes.
Examples:
1) I make music and I showed her a song that I made which she likes really much, then she said "I love that song more than you". At first I didn't take it to hear because she was just joking, and then I joked back by saying I'm gonna delete it forever, and then I responded it back by saying I was just joking, and thanked her and said "It was real nice of you. I accidentally worded it wrong by saying "was", which she pointed out, and I joked back saying "Yeah, was, because you like that song more than me", and then went on "Ohh okay" and ghosted me right now (yeah, this is happening as I'm writing this).
2) Whenever I said something sweet, she would respond "Ew, cringe alert". She did pointed out later on our relationship that she mostly doesnt like all lovey dovey stuff, which is the main reason why I dont like saying sweet things as often as I used to when I first dated her. It sucks because saying sweet things are kinda my love language, I like expressing my feelings, even more so if expressing my love towards my significant other with words (and with gifts from time to time). Nowadays when I say "I love you" she wouldnt respond back anymore like she use to, but she does say she loves me too sometimes, just not as frequent as before.
3) This one was 2 months back I believe. We were joking around about prostitutions and stuffs, and she went like "Yeah, maybe I should be a hooker since I'm not working anymore" she's a university student by the way, almost graduating, and I just started to enter the workfield, she quit her part-time job just a few days before she joked that. She went on and on about how she would actually do it. That joke kinda hurt me, but I decided 'two can play in that game', so I joked back "Okay, but dont blame me if I start sleeping with other chicks too". Okay, maybe that's a bit too far, but then she started to ghost me the whole day, and I spent the whole day texting and apologizing to her, only for her to text me back at night and rant at me about the way I joked, how she doesnt like it when I joke about being with other women.
So yeah, those are some of the examples. I mentioned that at one point we talked about this, and then she went on with "Maybe I shouldnt joke much after this". Then I justified to her that it's not all her jokes are like this, just don't joke about certain things, eventually she's just accept it. Then for assurance, I would ask, "Are you gonna be okay like this", to which she responded in a harshful tone "Yes, don't ask if I'm okay with it, of course I'm gonna be annoyed about changing myself, but I'll be fine in time", to which she does it again anyway.
And that's another thing. Whenever she pointed out about something I did that she doesnt like, I never complained about trying to change, but with her, it seems like she doesn't have the same energy of effort to change herself for me as much as I do for her.
This has happened too frequently, and we ended up fighting a lot because of it. At one point, I've seriously considering about giving up and let it all go, but the truth is I can't. There are still things about her that I really love and I'm willing to accept all her flaws.
But the question is, can she change for me, like I am with her? I kept on wondering that.
I don't know if it's worth it for me to keep her, but I do know that I can't let her go. I still love her so much.
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Examples:
1) I make music and I showed her a song that I made which she likes really much, then she said "I love that song more than you". At first I didn't take it to hear because she was just joking, and then I joked back by saying I'm gonna delete it forever, and then I responded it back by saying I was just joking, and thanked her and said "It was real nice of you. I accidentally worded it wrong by saying "was", which she pointed out, and I joked back saying "Yeah, was, because you like that song more than me", and then went on "Ohh okay" and ghosted me right now (yeah, this is happening as I'm writing this).
2) Whenever I said something sweet, she would respond "Ew, cringe alert". She did pointed out later on our relationship that she mostly doesnt like all lovey dovey stuff, which is the main reason why I dont like saying sweet things as often as I used to when I first dated her. It sucks because saying sweet things are kinda my love language, I like expressing my feelings, even more so if expressing my love towards my significant other with words (and with gifts from time to time). Nowadays when I say "I love you" she wouldnt respond back anymore like she use to, but she does say she loves me too sometimes, just not as frequent as before.
3) This one was 2 months back I believe. We were joking around about prostitutions and stuffs, and she went like "Yeah, maybe I should be a hooker since I'm not working anymore" she's a university student by the way, almost graduating, and I just started to enter the workfield, she quit her part-time job just a few days before she joked that. She went on and on about how she would actually do it. That joke kinda hurt me, but I decided 'two can play in that game', so I joked back "Okay, but dont blame me if I start sleeping with other chicks too". Okay, maybe that's a bit too far, but then she started to ghost me the whole day, and I spent the whole day texting and apologizing to her, only for her to text me back at night and rant at me about the way I joked, how she doesnt like it when I joke about being with other women.
So yeah, those are some of the examples. I mentioned that at one point we talked about this, and then she went on with "Maybe I shouldnt joke much after this". Then I justified to her that it's not all her jokes are like this, just don't joke about certain things, eventually she's just accept it. Then for assurance, I would ask, "Are you gonna be okay like this", to which she responded in a harshful tone "Yes, don't ask if I'm okay with it, of course I'm gonna be annoyed about changing myself, but I'll be fine in time", to which she does it again anyway.
And that's another thing. Whenever she pointed out about something I did that she doesnt like, I never complained about trying to change, but with her, it seems like she doesn't have the same energy of effort to change herself for me as much as I do for her.
This has happened too frequently, and we ended up fighting a lot because of it. At one point, I've seriously considering about giving up and let it all go, but the truth is I can't. There are still things about her that I really love and I'm willing to accept all her flaws.
But the question is, can she change for me, like I am with her? I kept on wondering that.
I don't know if it's worth it for me to keep her, but I do know that I can't let her go. I still love her so much.
2023.05.31 12:12 Neither-Cry3219 Old Man MoJo 13 years. MoJo is our bestest boi ever!
 | Adopted MoJo in 2011 who was rescued from a high kill shelter. He morphed from a high anxiety, fearful pup to our best boi. Loving and chill. submitted by Neither-Cry3219 to OldManDog [link] [comments] |
2023.05.31 12:11 OperAmp Zermatt Premium Canvas for outside in summer?
Hello everyone. I have been wearing birkenstock arizonas for the last three summers. However, I am not really a sandal guy, so I tend to wear them only at home or if I am traveling to a beach destination. I use my EVA arizonas to go specifically to the beach but use the cork ones to walk around during the day, visit places and so on. I guess there are a lot of people like me, after all. When I want to visit a city that is not near the sea, I don't wear my birkenstocks but I miss how comfortable they are after a whole day walking. I visited Mexico a couple months ago and I worn my arizonas every single day when visiting Riviera Maya but I kept them at the hotel when visiting Mexico City, even though it was hot anyway.
I bought recently a pair of Birkenstock Zermatt Premium Canvas in blue. They are just as comfortable as I expected (they are yet to be broken in, but I know how this works) and they are not sandals, so I might be more comfortable wearing them on those occasions when I miss the footbed but I don't want to wear sandals. But I don't know if they may be too "warm" for summer. Even though they are canvas on the outside, the inside is covered in suede. I guess it is the same for Bostons, so maybe if you own a pair of these you can help me too.
I still can return them, but I have to make a decision. If I am not going to wear them outside, I find them too expensive to be used only at home (I could replace them with regular zermatts, for instance, or find another pair of slippers).
Styling is another thing. My gf finds them weird, but they have kind of grown on me. They look like a casual shoe even when worn with jeans, a lot less "sandal-y" than a pair of Bostons, for instance. That's why I am thinking about them for those trips I would like to wear my birkenstocks but, at the same time, I don't want or feel appropriate to wear sandals.
Thank you very much!
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I bought recently a pair of Birkenstock Zermatt Premium Canvas in blue. They are just as comfortable as I expected (they are yet to be broken in, but I know how this works) and they are not sandals, so I might be more comfortable wearing them on those occasions when I miss the footbed but I don't want to wear sandals. But I don't know if they may be too "warm" for summer. Even though they are canvas on the outside, the inside is covered in suede. I guess it is the same for Bostons, so maybe if you own a pair of these you can help me too.
I still can return them, but I have to make a decision. If I am not going to wear them outside, I find them too expensive to be used only at home (I could replace them with regular zermatts, for instance, or find another pair of slippers).
Styling is another thing. My gf finds them weird, but they have kind of grown on me. They look like a casual shoe even when worn with jeans, a lot less "sandal-y" than a pair of Bostons, for instance. That's why I am thinking about them for those trips I would like to wear my birkenstocks but, at the same time, I don't want or feel appropriate to wear sandals.
Thank you very much!
2023.05.31 12:11 tc002may British TV
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a British army advert in cartoon style looking like it’s aimed at 8 year olds plays where it shows a gay man explaining how he feels safe and included in the army because he’s gay, forgetting completely that his job is him risking his life to die for his country
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And breaking news, a mass stabbing has occurred on the Piccadilly line, 27 deaths including a police officer, and back to liz for the weather
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aggressive drill music plays wagwan fam you poosyhols better be drinking Pepsi max an African youth wearing a tracksuit shakes a can of Pepsi max PEPPSI MACKS MACKSIMOOM TASTE NOO SHOOGAH he shouts at the viewer in a very aggressive African ethnic tone
a British army advert in cartoon style looking like it’s aimed at 8 year olds plays where it shows a gay man explaining how he feels safe and included in the army because he’s gay, forgetting completely that his job is him risking his life to die for his country
the next advert starts inside of a house feeling peckish? camera pans to a white man with a black wife, Indian son and Chinese daughter and Moroccan baby and an Alaskan tankok tribe daughter try findus chips! the house has 7 bathrooms, no person apart from a select few can afford the so called “typical family house” it even has a modern kitchen and jacuzzi findus chips, it’s that simple! happy hippy styled guitar music blares throughout the advert barely showing the product for the chips, it’s also narrated by Philip Schofield
And breaking news, a mass stabbing has occurred on the Piccadilly line, 27 deaths including a police officer, and back to liz for the weather
2023.05.31 12:11 Wonky_Cow1305 Is it worth getting a higher wattage PSU?
So this is my current list:
PCPartPicker Part List
Edit: The only part I have not purchased is the PSU. This is just because I knew it could drop in price and there were many other options, I've just been getting parts as they've come on sale.
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PCPartPicker Part List
Edit: The only part I have not purchased is the PSU. This is just because I knew it could drop in price and there were many other options, I've just been getting parts as they've come on sale.
2023.05.31 12:10 Androidtechniques How To Improve Headphone Sound Quality On Android
 | submitted by Androidtechniques to u/Androidtechniques [link] [comments] Not satisfied with the volume of your hands-free voice? Many reasons can cause this issue, and there are many ways to solve this problem. This article discusses various methods, from the simplest to the more complicated ones, to increase the headphone Sound quality on Android phones.This technique is very effective when using Bluetooth headphones. You can also use this method to increase the volume of AirPods on Android. Below is a guide on how to make the headset sound louder when paired with an Android phone.
This is the easiest yet most expensive way to get the most volume out of your smartphone. Buying quality in-ear or over-ear headphones can be an expensive move, but if you get the right product, it will be worth it. There are several options on the market that you can choose from. Many are designed to cancel noise outside the headphones to ensure the best audio experience. This method will be costly, but it is a possible option for true music lovers. For some of these music lovers, more than just getting the best headphones are required. This group of users go to get a digital to analog audio converter. DACs handle Bluetooth and wired hands-free audio setups. Using this tool, in addition to a louder sound, you will get a higher quality output from your smartphone to be hands-free. Some DACs also offer wireless connectivity for Bluetooth hands-free. If none of the above solves your problem, the problem may be simpler than you think. If you use wired hands-free to enjoy music, try cleaning the 3.5mm jack. The headphone jack (if present) is prone to attracting dust in the long run. You can use a clean ear to clean the hands-free input. Similarly, in-ear headphones, especially the silicone series, require regular cleaning. Getting the handsfree dirty is normal and not a big deal, but cleaning it can be helpful. This is easy to do. To clean the dust that enters the hands-free sound channel, blow into it (remove the silicone series first.) Also, always ensure that the 3.5mm metal end of the wired hands-free is clean and especially not wet before using them. Otherwise, your phone may be damaged. Do you use Spotify, Deezer, Apple Music or Soundcloud services? By default, the streaming quality on these platforms is either set to auto or the lowest possible. Therefore, there is a possibility that the quality of playing music in these programs is low due to the low speed of the Internet. This sound quality can also affect the volume. In the Spotify application, by going to the settings and in the Audio Quality section, then Streaming quality, select the music playback quality from automatic, low, medium, high and very high. Other streaming apps have similar settings, although the naming and path may differ. Android phone owners can check the sound settings in the Sound and Vibration section of the settings. Find the Sound quality and effects section at the bottom of the settings list to check the sound quality. By entering it, you will have access to the equalizer settings of your Android phone. Here you can use the manufacturer’s default modes. These modes can be rock, hip-hop, jazz, classical, etc. Select the mode you want or enter the correct settings manually. Note that the exact path of these settings and how to change them may differ depending on your Android phone manufacturer. The Android operating system has plenty of excellent and high-quality music players. By changing your music player, you may notice an increase in the volume of your Samsung or other brands of hands-free. Especially if you use the main players of your phone, third-party players usually offer more features and better sound quality. In the following, we will see that you will have access to the equalizer settings in the settings of Android phones. However, some players allow you to adjust the Bluetooth and wired hands-free sound through the equalizer settings. In addition to players, you can use advanced third-party applications to adjust your equalizer and sound. Note that only some equalizers will work on your ears. These programs increase the quality and sometimes the intensity of the phone’s sound. |
2023.05.31 12:10 PriorComprehensive42 How often do you wallow?
I have a lot of days where I wake up ready to exercise but even after changing into my gym clothes I just procrastinate and then realise all I want to do is lie down and wallow. It's been loud recently and I don't really expect it.
I don't like leaving the house because I have work to do at home, but when I'm at home I just want to do nothing. I know not leaving the house is making it worse for me, but when I meet people I feel more alone than I otherwise would.
I feel like a failure now a days because I couldn't deal with the pressures of my job so I'm doing freelance work now. I feel ashamed when people ask me how's the job hunt going and then about when I plan on getting married.
I'm 25. I don't see myself finding anyone I will want to settle down with and vice versa. It's like my life is a black hole and I can't find a reason to keep going every day. Before, I'd use work as a distraction, but now I just want to ignore everything in my life and pretend I don't exist. When I'm about to sleep I pray that I don't wake up in the morning so that I don't have to face all these things.
There was a point in my life where I was extremely confident and I had an idea of where I was headed, even if things were difficult for me. But then a series of events happened that added new trauma to my CPTSD and since then I've just been lost. I go through my journal entries and there isn't a month where I dont pray for death. I'm starting therapy again but it's expensive and it's online. I sometimes feel like my mind was meant to be broken and my life is meant to be miserable, so all this therapy and job hunting and friend finding is useless because it'll never happen.
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I don't like leaving the house because I have work to do at home, but when I'm at home I just want to do nothing. I know not leaving the house is making it worse for me, but when I meet people I feel more alone than I otherwise would.
I feel like a failure now a days because I couldn't deal with the pressures of my job so I'm doing freelance work now. I feel ashamed when people ask me how's the job hunt going and then about when I plan on getting married.
I'm 25. I don't see myself finding anyone I will want to settle down with and vice versa. It's like my life is a black hole and I can't find a reason to keep going every day. Before, I'd use work as a distraction, but now I just want to ignore everything in my life and pretend I don't exist. When I'm about to sleep I pray that I don't wake up in the morning so that I don't have to face all these things.
There was a point in my life where I was extremely confident and I had an idea of where I was headed, even if things were difficult for me. But then a series of events happened that added new trauma to my CPTSD and since then I've just been lost. I go through my journal entries and there isn't a month where I dont pray for death. I'm starting therapy again but it's expensive and it's online. I sometimes feel like my mind was meant to be broken and my life is meant to be miserable, so all this therapy and job hunting and friend finding is useless because it'll never happen.