I am not sure if this is the correct space to ask for advice. If not please let me know and I'll delete my post. Writing this out is difficult but I have decided to seek out some advice. So I am a 23F who had moved out last year after getting a job in a different city. I had a strict upbringing and I have never had a proper relationship in college as well. Moving out opened up a new world to me, I decided to try out different things, met people at clubs, opened up an account on bumble and all that. Everything was pretty exciting. I am not a person for whom you would take a double look at, I consider myself pretty average and not having a relationship in college had fucked up my self esteem pretty bad. I lost my virginity to a guy I met on bumble, he was sweet, we decided to keep it casual and I ended it after some months. Now the thing is, I came back home after spending a good 6-8 months in the new city. Coming home made me realise how fast the city life is. After doing some introspection, I realised that even though I slept with someone, went on multiple dates, I never developed an emotional connection. I know that I don't open up easily to strangers and acquaintances but sleeping with someone is a big deal, I had hooked up with someone at some point and it was the same thing. It's not that I don't feel anything, I have friends that I would give up everything for if they asked me to. I am very emotional in some aspects of my life and I still cry after watching some sad movies/dramas. I am a hopeless romantic even.
Why am I not able to develop this emotional connection with new people? Is it not the norm to regret making stupid decisions?
I met a guy at a friend's party, we talked a lot, we clicked and I feel it can develop into something else. Now I fear that divulging all this information will make him think less of me. It's pretty shocking that I am able to separate out the physical and emotional aspect of having sex with someone, I feel like I am gonna lose a good friendship over this and he's gonna judge me.
Can you please help me in sorting out my thoughts?

Period: 165.94 days

	Submissions	Comments
Total	974	41705
Rate (per day)	5.87	124.38
Unique Redditors	419	4908
Combined Score	752414	955642

Top Submitters' Top Submissions

1. 90191 points, 114 submissions: Hiseayo
   
   1. Noxcrew added a monument for Technoblade in the hub (1767 points, 108 comments)
   2. 👑Our MCC 25 Champions are the Green Geckos👑 (1631 points, 125 comments)
   3. HBomb got 1st Individual in MCC 24! (1519 points, 90 comments)
   4. MCChampionship 27 Purple Pandas! (1482 points, 203 comments)
   5. 👑Our MCC 23 Champions are the Orange Ocelots👑 (1354 points, 89 comments)
   6. MCC 24 Yellow Yaks! (1353 points, 216 comments)
   7. MCC 25 Pink Parrots! (1332 points, 146 comments)
   8. Let’s all wish Technoblade a happy birthday! 🥳🎉 (1321 points, 47 comments)
   9. Jojosolos got 1st individual in MCC 25! (1312 points, 100 comments)
   10. 👑Our MCC 24 Champions are the Yellow Yaks👑 (1276 points, 143 comments)
2. 27947 points, 40 submissions: E-man_256
   
   1. dream hitting velvet IN F5 MODE (1091 points, 19 comments)
   2. daily MCC memes day 34 (1046 points, 27 comments)
   3. daily MCC memes day 28 (1010 points, 31 comments)
   4. write it down write it down! (941 points, 42 comments)
   5. fruitberries is playing skywars with techno's skin to honor him o7 (933 points, 17 comments)
   6. daily MCC memes day 46 (920 points, 10 comments)
   7. cerulean (cracked) cat maids (913 points, 21 comments)
   8. daily MCC memes day 94 (873 points, 34 comments)
   9. amount of times a player got 1st in footrace (770 points, 35 comments)
   10. proof any s tier duo will be balanced as long as you benched SG (770 points, 31 comments)
3. 11657 points, 12 submissions: kaleidoscope0k
   
   1. Dream’s MCC appreciation tweet <3 (1914 points, 106 comments)
   2. underappreciated MCC moment (1599 points, 68 comments)
   3. MCC 27 is on November 12th! (The Underdogs MCC?) (1270 points, 247 comments)
   4. i am once again asking for a Dave Krtzy buff (please) (1094 points, 56 comments)
   5. Punz is benched :( (872 points, 53 comments)
   6. excuse me sir, this isn't TGTTOS (850 points, 35 comments)
   7. 5up’s pride skin! … happy pride … (776 points, 15 comments)
   8. Pink Parrots during Grid Runners and Build Mart (761 points, 8 comments)
   9. Sapnap: Let me 1v4 Green, it’ll be funny (733 points, 6 comments)
   10. 10th place team honestly (666 points, 17 comments)
4. 10847 points, 9 submissions: florescences
   
   1. Scar making sure everyone is having Good Times With Slurpees! (2044 points, 58 comments)
   2. Dream, the #1 skin-hater, changed his skin for Technoblade up to three times (1879 points, 38 comments)
   3. It’s the same feeling honestly (1463 points, 37 comments)
   4. Dream and George’s perfect synergy during Battle Box (1030 points, 45 comments)
   5. The Duality of MCC Participants one day before the event (993 points, 30 comments)
   6. Number of Vaults in SOT a Player’s Team has Opened in Season 2 (MCC 15-22) (988 points, 46 comments)
   7. MCC 22 Dodgebolt Statistics (910 points, 54 comments)
   8. Sean and Ethan: the Moral Support Maids to Sapnap and Ranboo throughout the Entirety of Grid Runners (836 points, 29 comments)
   9. MCC 24 Dodgebolt Statistics (704 points, 40 comments)
5. 10751 points, 14 submissions: coolchalk
   
   1. Or maybe Scott just really wants Jojo to get 1st place this time (1396 points, 37 comments)
   2. The MCC gods really like them, huh? (1142 points, 27 comments)
   3. Pete clarifying the misconception about his individual placements (1052 points, 57 comments)
   4. Foolish 1v3s in Dodgebolt by walking slowly (733 points, 25 comments)
   5. Watertight argument against Build Mart haters (718 points, 22 comments)
   6. Nearly two years later, Tommy pays it back! (703 points, 5 comments)
   7. Joel will forever remember that one Redditor's name (700 points, 28 comments)
   8. Foolish avoids getting hunted by Dream for a full round during Parkour Tag practice (696 points, 26 comments)
   9. Are people hallucinating? There never were any arms (693 points, 22 comments)
   10. They really saved Ranboo from turning into the next Wilbur (666 points, 14 comments)
6. 10531 points, 12 submissions: yessauce
   
   1. scar has bad news about the next mcc :( (1332 points, 44 comments)
   2. the captain got his mcc coin! (990 points, 21 comments)
   3. Top 10 individual! (956 points, 99 comments)
   4. Purpled 1st place (933 points, 73 comments)
   5. Martyn received his mcc coin! (881 points, 19 comments)
   6. dream has a skin for mcc pride! (858 points, 37 comments)
   7. mcc14 flashbacks intensifies (845 points, 52 comments)
   8. If this team happened in mcc, they would get last place by a lot /j (840 points, 46 comments)
   9. dream and illumina my beloveds (758 points, 17 comments)
   10. happy birthday to Illumina, our beloved s-tier ninja! (757 points, 21 comments)
7. 8990 points, 12 submissions: RCAD101
   
   1. The Teal Tied (1216 points, 14 comments)
   2. Scott is very good at ace race (967 points, 26 comments)
   3. Mcc is scripted confirmed (845 points, 18 comments)
   4. Cyan cross teamers (801 points, 8 comments)
   5. Funnelling… (758 points, 110 comments)
   6. Mcc mods be like (709 points, 27 comments)
   7. He’s out done himself!! (705 points, 9 comments)
   8. Came back for that coin (660 points, 20 comments)
   9. I think dream liked the remix (607 points, 11 comments)
   10. Only a couple hundred away…. (601 points, 21 comments)
8. 7836 points, 10 submissions: ckanaly16
   
   1. It will never happen (1157 points, 23 comments)
   2. Scott leaked one of the teams for this MCC! (965 points, 59 comments)
   3. MCC Team when? (822 points, 40 comments)
   4. My friend who knows nothing about MCC made a tier list (817 points, 71 comments)
   5. Scott, make it happen! (788 points, 33 comments)
   6. Team married guys when? (785 points, 54 comments)
   7. Update on our GoodTimesWithTubbo interactions (762 points, 32 comments)
   8. How many times a player has been dunked in S2 (Canon only) (679 points, 51 comments)
   9. How many times a player has been first to die on a TGTTOSAWAF map in S2 (550 points, 23 comments)
   10. Remember when Same Socks Duo got to dodgebolt in MCC7? (511 points, 5 comments)
9. 7821 points, 10 submissions: Cyber-Gon
   
   1. Reminder that TapL's minecraft froze at THIS moment because he had accidentally unplugged something (1060 points, 12 comments)
   2. Dream suggests a very balanced MCC team (said in Dave Krtzyy's chat) (1000 points, 54 comments)
   3. Everyone: complaining about how late team announcements are meanwhile MCC1 Fans: (915 points, 23 comments)
   4. Jacksepticeye just donated 10,000 dollars! (868 points, 26 comments)
   5. agedlikemilk (767 points, 10 comments)
   6. Seapeeekay was not JUST the 17th person to win an MCC, but the 17th person to win TWO MCC's (703 points, 31 comments)
   7. Gee has the big brain strats for the new Ace Race map (672 points, 11 comments)
   8. My opinions on the remixes we've had so far! (669 points, 39 comments)
   9. False's internet is being difficult - hopefully she can still play MCC (612 points, 36 comments)
   10. MCC is scripted confirmed (555 points, 27 comments)
10. 7531 points, 8 submissions: haarisbaddar
    
    1. If you are a struggling MCC participant, this guide will definitely help you become an S-tier! (1323 points, 63 comments)
    2. I have exposed these so called "S-tiers". Like and subscribe it's free and you can change your mind at any time (1190 points, 129 comments)
    3. Blueberry > Dream (1183 points, 26 comments)
    4. Lazarbeam>Sapnap confirmed (918 points, 12 comments)
    5. Thank me later guys (906 points, 79 comments)
    6. MCC 26 Games! (840 points, 206 comments)
    7. Amogus (597 points, 32 comments)
    8. Thank you for your services Tubbo (574 points, 8 comments)
11. 7396 points, 10 submissions: milliaboo
    
    1. Dream offered Foolish $50,000 if he beat PW in 65 minutes but Foolish failed! (1289 points, 42 comments)
    2. Sykkuno realises who’s on the other teams (and that Tina isn’t actually 3rd on PW) (953 points, 37 comments)
    3. Sylvee, Foolish, Punz & Tina talk about MCC (875 points, 45 comments)
    4. Foolish’s reaction to Sands of Mart (756 points, 61 comments)
    5. Dream confirmed that he’s not playing this coming MCC (639 points, 78 comments)
    6. Foolish is now 9th on the Parkour Warrior leaderboard! (604 points, 24 comments)
    7. First five MCC 23 teams’ averages! (603 points, 109 comments)
    8. Sykkuno says he’ll build a wall (and Quackity and Foolish absolutely lose it) (593 points, 16 comments)
    9. Sapnap, Jack & Ethan talk about how jacked Foolish is (+ Tina and Rae) (564 points, 12 comments)
    10. PPCrew shenanigans on the practice server (520 points, 23 comments)
12. 6868 points, 10 submissions: Eileen201804
    
    1. Oh how the mighty have fallen… (887 points, 56 comments)
    2. People of the subreddit, am I allowed to be the president if I beat Jojo and Hiseayo and rise to first? (859 points, 184 comments)
    3. Everyone knows the "Green Gods" and the "White Shirt, Black Pant Gods" but have you heard of the Fushia Furries (794 points, 40 comments)
    4. Most toxic and nicest tgttos player in recent mccs (734 points, 46 comments)
    5. Everyone’s respond to the refrigerator joke (673 points, 25 comments)
    6. How many times a player has placed top 5 in Parkour Warrior (651 points, 46 comments)
    7. How many times a player is part of the first place team in Sands of Time (638 points, 37 comments)
    8. How many times a player has won in s2 (555 points, 39 comments)
    9. Quickest solution: just don’t make dodgebolt (552 points, 14 comments)
    10. how the teams are right now (525 points, 29 comments)
13. 6703 points, 9 submissions: SierraSerene6
    
    1. The school G fundraised for during all those MCCs has officially opened! (1220 points, 31 comments)
    2. “Scott” showing his consistent Ace Race domination (821 points, 122 comments)
    3. One Year Anniversary of the best moment in MCC history (771 points, 47 comments)
    4. That’s our Champion! (761 points, 24 comments)
    5. MCC23 if the elevator made the teams (690 points, 50 comments)
    6. Cyan Ryans anyone? (666 points, 18 comments)
    7. If they don’t include the 3-Pete I’m rioting (633 points, 46 comments)
    8. No one: TapL holding his turtle near the entirety of PKT (627 points, 12 comments)
    9. Don’t text and dodge (514 points, 4 comments)
14. 6128 points, 9 submissions: Moist_Ad1190
    
    1. I'm still not over the back to back SoT skip (1335 points, 47 comments)
    2. Can't wait for Orange dynamics in SoT (828 points, 15 comments)
    3. Dear contestants please PLEASE (631 points, 31 comments)
    4. HITW 24 Walls Stats (629 points, 22 comments)
    5. Meltdown23 Stats: kills, freezes and crates (587 points, 40 comments)
    6. All Canon SkyBattle Kills (MCC9-MCC24) (553 points, 22 comments)
    7. S2 Battle Box Kills (MCC14-MCC24) (533 points, 45 comments)
    8. Duration of all MCCs (MCC 1-MCC 24 +Non-Canon) (521 points, 25 comments)
    9. fair trade offer (511 points, 29 comments)
15. 5944 points, 7 submissions: 0Iivers
    
    1. MCC 25 Green Geckos! (1285 points, 149 comments)
    2. He's just so quirky guys! (1103 points, 36 comments)
    3. MCC 25 Lime Llamas! (826 points, 74 comments)
    4. Stop it connor bad bad connor (774 points, 6 comments)
    5. Thank you Scott Smajor very cool (750 points, 16 comments)
    6. Callum/CPK told us to post his new PB on the reddit. So, I shall. (648 points, 31 comments)
    7. How many times a player killed Fruitberries in MCC 15 Sky Battle (558 points, 12 comments)
16. 5831 points, 8 submissions: GhostRaptor4482
    
    1. "MCC represents all aspects of Minecraft" (1108 points, 38 comments)
    2. least controversial meme ever (1057 points, 26 comments)
    3. It's becoming quite an issue (685 points, 7 comments)
    4. No Context Needed (644 points, 19 comments)
    5. Number of times a player has gotten killed by ConnorEatsPants in battle box (daily tier lists 65) (643 points, 17 comments)
    6. The realization hit me like a brick wall (630 points, 18 comments)
    7. Number of times a player survived in survival games (546 points, 27 comments)
    8. Green Gods on top (518 points, 15 comments)
17. 5713 points, 8 submissions: AssociationNo9219
    
    1. MCC 26 Green Goblins (1179 points, 130 comments)
    2. MCC 27 Red Rabbits (902 points, 70 comments)
    3. MCC 26 Fuchsia Frankensteins (678 points, 81 comments)
    4. MCC 27 Yellow Yaks (677 points, 76 comments)
    5. MCC 26 Mustard Mummies (618 points, 46 comments)
    6. MCC 26 Violet Vampires (599 points, 74 comments)
    7. MCC 27 Green Geckos (551 points, 35 comments)
    8. I kinda love the unbalanced teams once in a while (509 points, 14 comments)
18. 5535 points, 8 submissions: meringushiii
    
    1. posting this before(?) team announcements to manifest it into existence. copium (896 points, 40 comments)
    2. inb4(?) team announcements, i drew some funny little mcc people as funny little creatures :D (813 points, 44 comments)
    3. the mcc24 teams, but i turned all of them into the tbh creature. (yippee!!!!!) (798 points, 41 comments)
    4. the current state of half of this subreddit right now: (710 points, 23 comments)
    5. i could’ve sworn he had arms…. (657 points, 22 comments)
    6. funny green people who are good at video game!! :D (567 points, 18 comments)
    7. current status: (557 points, 15 comments)
    8. (half drawing) mcctober, day 26: i dont have a favorite meme in mind but i chose this one bc i hadnt seen the ranboo clip when i saw this and i was. so confused and it stuck w me LMAO [credit to u/xrhysb !!] (537 points, 18 comments)
19. 5021 points, 7 submissions: SpEedxyL
    
    1. The Story Of Build Mart In MCC 22 (849 points, 20 comments)
    2. Number of Times a Player's Team Was the Last to Leave in SOT in Season 2 (Canon) (820 points, 19 comments)
    3. Preserving The Fruitninja Dominance (779 points, 22 comments)
    4. Sapnap: "Is This MCCI?" (732 points, 22 comments)
    5. A Big Commitment (702 points, 11 comments)
    6. Number of Times a Player Was Top 5 In a Movement Game In Season 2 (Canon) (579 points, 30 comments)
    7. The 100% Dodgebolt Win Rate (560 points, 16 comments)
20. 4363 points, 4 submissions: TapLHarv
    
    1. I DID A LAST MINUTE ATTEMPT BEFORE TODAY'S EVENT TO PB ON PARKOUR WARRIOR AND I SHAVED 2 MINUTES FIRST TRY :L! (1475 points, 55 comments)
    2. Why I Didn't Sign Up For This MCC (1157 points, 54 comments)
    3. Important TapLLock Update! (1065 points, 23 comments)
    4. Hello! Please critique me for this MCC :D (666 points, 62 comments)
21. 4232 points, 4 submissions: bluujjaay
    
    1. The Thread (1611 points, 219 comments)
    2. Two teams independently singing the same song at the same time during MCC22. (917 points, 28 comments)
    3. MCC Pride 22 Swear Counter: Are any of us surprised? Please see the comments for details (854 points, 88 comments)
    4. All these puns were making me Blushi, but we have to just grin and b-Eret. (850 points, 82 comments)
22. 4156 points, 6 submissions: MasianQvigi
    
    1. Aged Like Wine (881 points, 9 comments)
    2. Guys This is a Antfrost Appreciation Post (803 points, 17 comments)
    3. That's Why I Make Discussions (665 points, 15 comments)
    4. An Old Comment I Found (664 points, 23 comments)
    5. Grian's Build Mart Curse (605 points, 23 comments)
    6. It's Krinios! (538 points, 17 comments)
23. 4088 points, 5 submissions: ExMachina97
    
    1. Remember when Dream said he joined MCC just to vs. Techno.. theyve come so far since :') (946 points, 19 comments)
    2. How well do you think Dream's TGTTOSAWAF strat worked? (918 points, 31 comments)
    3. MCC 24 Sands of Time Leaderboard (833 points, 78 comments)
    4. MCC 24 SKY BATTLE KILLS (718 points, 45 comments)
    5. TGTTOSAWAF Fastest Completions (MCC 23 Updated) 3 New records (673 points, 31 comments)
24. 3900 points, 6 submissions: Loose_Faithlessness5
    
    1. Let's Bring MCC on Stage Too ! (937 points, 24 comments)
    2. A lot of people still don't realize how big Scott's influence is in Minecraft Community. It's crazy that without him, many of new friendships and interractions between creators might not happen. You're an amazing person Scott, Thank you so much Scott ! (651 points, 12 comments)
    3. Quig meet up with Zeuz and Sasha ! (643 points, 25 comments)
    4. A Big Hug To Noxcrew and Scott (579 points, 16 comments)
    5. I Miss Fundy and I Miss Orange Catmaids (570 points, 19 comments)
    6. Scar : Oooh Im Ready, Bring it to the daddy ! (520 points, 22 comments)
25. 3882 points, 6 submissions: username6702
    
    1. Just Noticed They Added A Techno Tribute Grafitti To The SG Map <3 (818 points, 5 comments)
    2. Shoutout to this moment from Dodgebolt (802 points, 24 comments)
    3. 'Things In Common' Meme Teams (not balanced) (685 points, 40 comments)
    4. Petition for Dream to wear a yellow skin (and see if George notices) (534 points, 16 comments)
    5. Now That MCCI Is Out: (532 points, 12 comments)
    6. Possible MCC27 Players (511 points, 67 comments)
26. 3832 points, 4 submissions: Rpeezyy
    
    1. Phil is gonna catch 'em all (1388 points, 49 comments)
    2. A little late but just thought of this (890 points, 11 comments)
    3. Complaints about every normal MCC team name - a presentation (803 points, 40 comments)
    4. The F in Fruit stands for F tier (751 points, 6 comments)
27. 3749 points, 6 submissions: Lasooz
    
    1. Amount of Times Someone sent a Message in the Chat during MCC 24 (852 points, 33 comments)
    2. Can't wait for his next one (688 points, 21 comments)
    3. Amount of Times Someone Typed in the Chat During MCC 23 (651 points, 21 comments)
    4. The Amount of Times Someone sent a Message in the Chat during MCC 26 (534 points, 19 comments)
    5. Amount of Times Someone sent a Message in the Chat during MCC 25 (522 points, 27 comments)
    6. Don't Know Which One I'd Like More (502 points, 35 comments)
28. 3734 points, 5 submissions: Owenish
    
    1. o7 to the 12 players who won too late to play in All Stars but too early to play in Underdogs (1155 points, 40 comments)
    2. MCC15 never happened (831 points, 34 comments)
    3. Revenge 11 months in the making (648 points, 6 comments)
    4. Hopefully the other 3 still play (561 points, 11 comments)
    5. Meltdown rly screwed them over (539 points, 4 comments)
29. 3707 points, 4 submissions: Josh7a
    
    1. Philza getting PG streamers to swear (1548 points, 91 comments)
    2. Illumina my beloved (1014 points, 19 comments)
    3. MCC S2 particapents ranked on how much i like their profile pictures. (574 points, 48 comments)
    4. MCCP22 Ace race in a nutshell (571 points, 15 comments)
30. 3706 points, 2 submissions: Smallishbeans
    
    1. SolidarityGaming Doesn't use a mousemat whilst playing minecraft.. (2393 points, 178 comments)
    2. A Series of Events (1313 points, 45 comments)

Top Commenters

1. Hiseayo (38995 points, 325 comments)
2. x_L3m0n (14050 points, 994 comments)
3. PurestEvil5_9 (13707 points, 478 comments)
4. jojosolos (13096 points, 73 comments)
5. Eileen201804 (13066 points, 408 comments)
6. TheMiserableMunchlax (11973 points, 286 comments)
7. Antfrost (11652 points, 76 comments)
8. illumina1337 (9801 points, 71 comments)
9. haarisbaddar (9189 points, 136 comments)
10. rexplayz224 (9140 points, 221 comments)
11. eyadGamingExtreme (9033 points, 201 comments)
12. CyberWeb2143 (8266 points, 740 comments)
13. yessauce (8214 points, 142 comments)
14. kaleidoscope0k (7905 points, 158 comments)
15. Punztw (7666 points, 60 comments)
16. Practical_Jacket_524 (7113 points, 83 comments)
17. Alarming-Customer-51 (6013 points, 154 comments)
18. sixeyedbird (5857 points, 324 comments)
19. E-man_256 (5570 points, 141 comments)
20. V310c1ti (5290 points, 118 comments)
21. hanskloek (5110 points, 93 comments)
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23. Cyber-Gon (4897 points, 136 comments)
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25. kryticzeuz (4678 points, 198 comments)
26. _illegallity (4562 points, 145 comments)
27. East-Mirror3510 (4526 points, 207 comments)
28. florescences (4450 points, 40 comments)
29. Peng1e (4327 points, 131 comments)
30. bluujjaay (4240 points, 116 comments)
31. soysoss0818 (4164 points, 103 comments)
32. RealPurpled (4105 points, 53 comments)
33. Big_Brief7847 (3983 points, 51 comments)
34. RealFireBreathMan (3913 points, 55 comments)
35. getoutofyourhouse (3824 points, 79 comments)
36. dreamistaken (3824 points, 6 comments)
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38. DarCosmic (3624 points, 225 comments)
39. Tyler_Homan (3482 points, 158 comments)
40. Oli-OrionSound (3327 points, 15 comments)
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45. Argentum1909 (3085 points, 110 comments)
46. 5up7 (3077 points, 36 comments)
47. Erminence (3062 points, 111 comments)
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50. TinyTiger1234 (2890 points, 112 comments)
51. bbsmydiamonds (2795 points, 86 comments)
52. _Zombieboi_ (2745 points, 97 comments)
53. FinchRosemta (2569 points, 169 comments)
54. Jakeyboy66 (2565 points, 45 comments)
55. TheCeriseHood (2558 points, 73 comments)
56. coolchalk (2527 points, 35 comments)
57. Minetish (2481 points, 87 comments)
58. Emperor_Nail (2449 points, 28 comments)
59. BackgroundTotal2872 (2438 points, 129 comments)
60. InfinityEternity17 (2431 points, 132 comments)
61. _justonemorefan (2392 points, 46 comments)
62. username6702 (2332 points, 45 comments)
63. milliaboo (2299 points, 48 comments)
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65. Illumi223 (2181 points, 93 comments)
66. AoiAot (2181 points, 92 comments)
67. Spectaquor (2165 points, 108 comments)
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80. thursday04 (1789 points, 10 comments)
81. localnolife (1772 points, 56 comments)
82. JolteonUltra (1755 points, 41 comments)
83. mc395686 (1747 points, 95 comments)
84. WubzScribbles (1710 points, 36 comments)
85. 0Iivers (1709 points, 62 comments)
86. Conscious_Abalone_29 (1703 points, 90 comments)
87. Krimson_F (1680 points, 37 comments)
88. Nathanoy25 (1648 points, 48 comments)
89. K1ng_M1Das (1644 points, 25 comments)
90. Cerys-Rose- (1644 points, 22 comments)
91. conchi_space (1639 points, 89 comments)
92. CatchEmbarrassed4127 (1624 points, 48 comments)
93. GIBBEEEHHH (1617 points, 87 comments)
94. GamerA_S (1613 points, 85 comments)
95. nari_rain (1610 points, 142 comments)
96. Hmmmgrianstan (1592 points, 65 comments)
97. MainwarringOfCynira (1563 points, 80 comments)
98. RCAD101 (1561 points, 58 comments)
99. loumenn (1539 points, 108 comments)
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I recently installed the VegasPro 20 trial package and then purchased a key for just the Vegas Edit package (it's all I need for the work I'm doing).
However, now every time I open MS Teams, my camera image reads "Please open VEGAS Stream". It takes a bit of fiddling to get Teams to acknowledge my webcam and some Googling has revealed that this is a known issue with Teams automatically selecting a virtual camera profile instead of an installed device.
Does anyone know how to delete the virtual camera profile? It's not showing as a camera in the Windows 11 device manager, only my webcam is listed. Thanks in advance!

Hello,
I am using the experimental pipeline of OpenRGB and wanted to ask whether the OpenRGB auto updates when new changes arrive or do I have to do it manually?
I saw posts from a year ago that said there is an auto updater done by 3rd party but just making sure if auto update is still not an option for standalone app.
Thanks!

A lil background. I've been on my "hoe phase" for the past few months and tried hookups with different people (still clean naman so thank goodness). But recently, I've been feeling more and more...empty I guess. Yung feeling na parang di na worth it kung magpadala ka na lang sa bogli whenever you need someone. Yun na yun siguro. I need someONE, not someONES hahaha.
I've only ever had hookups with guys for the s*x but in terms of relationship, I'm open naman to both genders lalo na pag long term na yung relationship. Maybe I'm kinda biromantic but homos*xual? Di ko na rin mafollow yung letters and words sa LGBT+++ spectrum but I guess that's what would describe me the closest that I know of.
So ayun. I'm trying my luck here if maybe...just maybe I could find that someone who would be willing to adjust with me and explore as to what an actual serious relationship na hindi revolving around s*x would be. Syempre given na yung magkavibe tayo or at least we compliment each other in a way haha. Looking for not just a "constant" but "in the long run" 😊
A bit about me na pang turn off 😂
- Chubby with glasses
- Casually watches anime, movies or series depende sa mood haha
- But mostly listens to music, particularly jrock,jpop and the 'english' rock and pop plus some opm on the sides din. To the point na hindi ako lumalabas ng bahay na walang nakasaksak na bluetooth earphones sa at least isang tenga (for safety na rin minsan lol)
- Not as presentable as I'd want to be because of my build but will try my best naman to dress to the occasion since I care more about being comfortable 😁
- Works a 9-6 job from Monday to Friday so mostly weekends lang din free for long dates/lakad
- Mostly introverted pero I tend to be more talkative to people I'm comfy with of course
- Sometimes called Britney lalo na sa work. But you'll have to stick around to know the story LOL
- Minsan bipolar, minsan maraming mood swings pero hindi naman ako nananakit haha.
So ayun. I'm not sure pa rin how this would work but I'm damn ready to try more meaningful connections with people.

My bf (25M) and I (23F) have been together for about three years now. A year ago we had a big boundary issue when I found out he was talking to his friend (25F) in a way I found was wrong. He apologized and said he’d stop it. Later on I found out he didn’t stop it at all, and we had another argument. Eventually he really did stop. It’s been over 8 months of him not talking to that friend and there’s nothing weird on his phone. I developed the bad habit of needing to check his phone to make sure nothing is going on from the moment he broke my trust repeatedly. It’s usually when he’s sleeping. Recently (the past three days, which I know isn’t a lot but feels like it is) he’s been more protective over his phone. When he realizes he left it in a room with me he’ll come in and grab it. Hell sleep with his phone under his pillow rather than on the bedside table etc. yesterday I got extremely anxious about it and told myself I’d check today to make sure everything is good. But he slept with it under his pillow again and then later on put it to charge on the table. I got up to use the bathroom (which he usually sleeps through, snoring and everything) and he was suddenly wide awake and he turned to face the side the table is on. I come back and lay down and he turns towards me and asks if I’m okay. He doesn’t go back to sleep. His eyes are closed but that’s it. If I moved a little, his eyes would open and he’d ask if everything is okay again. This only makes me much more suspicious something is indeed going on. I know what I’m doing isn’t right but that’s the only way I’ve been able to comfort myself and now it seems that’s done. (A while ago when we argued and I asked him how I’m supposed to trust him now he told me to check his phone when I’m anxious.) I don’t want to need to. But this is making me worried. Does this sound suspicious ?

I boot up the game, slog through the introductory segments, get the wing suit, put on a podcast and complete everything short of the getting all the collectibles.
Far Cry 4 is one of the few games I’ve beaten more than once and my only complaint is that the story is a bit shit (but Troy Baker as Pagan Min is a silver lining). I’m not too sure why I find it so relaxing. Maybe it’s the perfect mix of player agency and lack of consequences for your actions. A game many people say is relaxing is Stardew valley but whenever I play it, I always get so stressed about how to spend my time and get so overwhelmed. Meanwhile in Far Cry I can just spend my time doing whatever and go at my own pace. Interestingly though, I don’t enjoy Far Cry 2 or 5 or most of Ubisoft’s other open world games.
I dunno, it’s just kinda chill and I can turn my brain off for a couple hours. Anyhow, thanks for reading my nonsensical ramblings.

I want to migrate my nextcloud server to new hardware.
I'm thinking to move from manual install to a snap or docker for ease of backup and future migrations.
I looked at the snap, it uses MySQL, not MariaDB. And I'm not even sure how I'd import the DB into it anyway. Other than just copying data over from one client to another and letting it sync...any other ideas?
My wife also syncs photos from her phone. Would probably have to have her delete her already synced photos from her phone to stop them re-syncing, hey?
Thank you in advance for your wisdom offered.

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Hi all.
Problem: i don't want particular albums to be accessible by apps except gallery (for example when i open whatsapp and select photos to send to someone, i don't want to see my hentai collection folder there lmao).
On my Samsung it was really easy, i just open gallery, select album and click hide. Done, those photos won't popup in any other apps and can be accessed only through samsung gallery
Here on this phine I can't find how to do this. I know there is a secure folder, but you can't move whole albums there, just single photos one by one.
Can someone suggest me something please?

Hello hello! I am a SAHM to 2 children(4 yr old & 4 month old). My husband is the “breadwinner” and is earning very well. He just got a big promotion and work stress has increased. We don’t live close to family so we don’t have “help” per se but we have a cleaner who comes to clean every other week. My husband drops my daughter to her kindergarten daily and picks her up 3 times a week (when he works from home) and I pick her up 2 times when he works from office. Once he gets her back @3:30, I am with both kids until about 6:30 when he gets done (when he works from home) he then looks after the baby for about an hr while I cook bathe and feed the toddler. He then takes the toddler to bed and I take over the baby feed make him sleep etc. I am pretty much exhausted and sleep deprived and constantly resentful. I also get the toddler ready in the mornings for nursery no matter how hard the night with the baby has been. My husband gets ready and the toddler is ready by the door for him to take. On the days he works from office he gets home at 7:30. What realistic expectations can I have from my husband in our situation to help me out a little? I want to keep an open mind and i will try my best to understand if i shouldn’t be expecting more.

The warning signs of a con man
So recently, I wrote about catfish on dating sites. Now I am here to tell you the signs of a Con man, and believe me, there are signs. And if you open your eyes, you will be able to see them miles away.
Yes, ladies, there are Con men out there, waiting and preying on women. You might say, not me, I am way too smart to fall for a Con man. But not so, it's not about how smart you are. It's about how much smarter he is.
I consider myself a smart, street wise woman. I don't believe a guy with a line, a get rich quick scheme, or will I ever part with my hard earned money, yet I got taken in by a con man. Just as many of these wonderful, smart, beautiful women that I have met on this journey after meeting this Con man.
Oh yes, this one had conned 6 women so far that we know of. I know there were many more out there that we don't know about. I know there were 6 because they reached out to me.
See for a Con man, this is his life. He gets a thrill, a high from hurting unsuspecting women. Con men are sociopathic liars, this is what they do, and they have no remorse whatsoever. In fact, they try to blame it on everyone else, never taking responsibility for their own actions.
Let me tell you, these women are all educated, have good jobs, are smart, beautiful, and kind. So you ask, then how could they possibly get conned? Because he listens. We talk a lot, ladies. Yes, we are open books. He listened when you said you were in a physically abusive marriage, a verbally abusive marriage, that you had a horrible childhood. He listened when you said that you're looking for a father figure, that you never felt loved, that your self-esteem is low.
He then takes all the facts he gathered and then uses them. He will tell you that you are beautiful. He will say he never met anyone like you. He will say he is going to step up because none of the other men in your life have. He will do romantic things and sweet gestures. He will charm your children and find out what they are into. He will weasel his way to your heart through them.
He will find out what you like to do and research it so he can say he also likes that. You will be thinking, oh my God, he's perfect. How lucky am I? Just then, he will tell you he's never felt like this and that he's falling in love with you. He will tell you that he's never met a woman like you.
Yes, do you see that red flag? Yes, you do, but you're running past it so fast, you say, nah, that really wasn't a red flag. Then he will reel you in with a sob story about his horrible childhood and his past relationships. How he was so hurt by a woman, usually his wife, and how he stayed because he loved his child.
Now, you being the kind nurturer that you are, you're being sucked in. We all want to fix that man. We all want to show him what a great woman we are. So we start to do things back, romantic dinners, we buy gifts, and we open our hearts a little more.
He then will buy you gifts, make dinner for you. He will bring flowers, he will wash dishes, do things around your house and just when you think it could not get any better. He will then tell you that you are the woman of his dreams, that he never wants to spend another night without you. He will say that yes, he knows it's quick, but he wants to marry you. He may even give you a ring. He'll show it to your friends, your kids, and your family he will have sucked all of them into his plan.
At this point, your first thought will be that this is going way too fast. Something is not feeling right in the pit of your stomach, but you will justify this as well.
He will see your hesitation and he will sweet talk you some more. He will tell you things you've longed to hear, things you may have never heard before. He knows you're a goner. He knows you're in love with him, and he knows that he is as good as in.
So against your better judgment, against the red flags smacking you in the face, you will let your heart overrule your head. You say yes, you move him in. You help him out when he tells you he's in a bind. You may even give him money. You believe all that he tells you that no one gives him a chance. He's trying to be a better man, but everyone is out for him. Now you're in defense mode. Oh no, you didn't just talk about my man!
I was lucky, I didn't move him in. I didn't give him money. He knew I wasn't dating a broke brother since he knew me since we were kids, so his game was different with me but still trying to work towards his end result.
I was just blessed to have divine intervention to find out what he was doing. He was doing this to not only me but 5 other women as well, the same lines, down to his priest blessed this cross for you,
Yes, since then, while I have been speaking about domestic abuse, I have met these other women. I have to tell you, I like them, he at least had great taste in women. It's a shame for him because these are some wonderful women who loved him, but he has taught each and every one of us a lesson. This is a lesson that I will keep sharing with all of you, as I never want anyone to fall prey to this type of man.
We learned that when something doesn't feel right, it's not. We learned to know when something seems too good to be true, it usually is. We learned that we weren't stupid, we were kind, loving, and we believe the best in people. This is his job and he is really good at it.
So today, my friends, take heed, and listen to your inner voice. Listen to what others have said and went through. Always know your own worth, and then you will never need to get it from someone else and fall victim. Remember, there are Con men out there waiting to prey on you. Don't be another victim.
"Be the change you want to see"

The Three-Step Method
Last week, I felt myself falling into a rut.
The first sign was that I felt physically and mentally drained—I didn't want to wake up at my normal hour, didn't want to travel to an exciting event I had committed to, and didn't want to do the daily writing that I normally love.
Fortunately, I've developed a useful set of principles for managing these swings and working out of them.
I follow three general steps...
Step 1: Stop Digging
"The most important thing to do if you find yourself in a hole is to stop digging." ― Warren Buffett
Think of being in a rut as being at the bottom of a hole. We're typically digging ourselves deeper into that hole without realizing it.
The two most common ways that we dig ourselves deeper:

• Negativity: It's easy to be hard on yourself when you're in a rut. You start using negative self-talk to criticize your lack of motivation and discipline. The negativity is a self-fulfilling prophecy—you start to believe negative things about yourself, which leads you to find evidence to support those negative beliefs. This is digging you deeper into the hole.
• Exhaustion: Imagine a car stuck in the mud. Ambitious people assume that they can get the car out of the mud by revving the engine and propelling forward, but the tire spins faster and faster and the car digs itself deeper and deeper. Most of us have been conditioned to believe that rest is bad—lost productivity, wasted time, opportunity cost. We dig ourselves deeper because we avoid the rest we need.

The first step is to stop digging.

1. Upgrade Your Mindset: Eliminate the negativity and cut yourself a break. If you catch the negative self-talk happening, stop it in its tracks.
2. Take Rest: When you find yourself in a rut, don't try to get out of it in an instant. Give yourself the time and space to rest. Remember that "rest" doesn't just mean sleep (consider the seven types of rest here).

If you've successfully stopped digging, congratulations, you've made it through the most important part.
Step 2: Change Direction
The next step to getting out of a rut is to change direction.
There are all variety of factors that are outside of your control that may have contributed to you falling into a rut, but this step solely focuses on those within your control.
Look internally and externally at the controllables:

• Internally: How am I complicit in creating the conditions that I don't want? This question forces you to pause and look inward—to ask whether there are any actions, mindsets, or patterns through which you were contributing to the rut. How can you change those conditions?
• Externally: How is your environment negatively shaping this reality? Most of the time, your environment contributes to your rut. You may just need a change of scenery, or you may need to remove some people or things that are draining your energy and contributing to the negative cycle.

As you change direction, focus on your identity: What mental and physical space would the ideal version of yourself occupy here?
Step 3: Create Movement
The last step to getting out of a rut: Move.
If you wait to act until you feel motivated, you may never start. Motivation is a natural byproduct of movement. When in doubt, just start moving.
Movement —> Momentum —> Motivation
To start the cycle, all you have to do is manufacture a tiny bit of movement. If you do that, you can sit back and let it take you for a ride.
My favorite method for manufacturing movement: Minimum Viable Progress. Minimum Viable Progress says to just do a tiny bit, as anything above zero compounds.

• If you're trying to get back into your workout habit, don't worry about going to the gym for two hours, just go for a 15 minute walk outside.
• If you're trying to get back into your work flow, don't worry about executing four hour blocks of deep work, just focus on one task for 15 minutes.

Avoid the tendency to think that the movement has to be perfect or robust. As Atomic Habits author James Clear says, "Just because it's not optimal, doesn't mean it's not beneficial."
Narrow your focus and start small—even tiny. Build from there.
Staying In The Game
Life is a long, long game that all comes down to allowing positive actions to compound for the long run. With this in mind, simply staying in the game is the most important thing.
Ruts will happen.
When they do, slow down and allow yourself to work through them. The worst thing you can do is push the engine harder and risk taking yourself out of the game for a longer period than if you had worked through it.
My three-step method to work through a rut:

1. Stop Digging
2. Change Direction
3. Create Movement

Give it a shot and let me know what you think.
Important Note: This piece is not intended to replace professional mental health support. While my strategy will certainly help, if you believe the rut is driven by a clinical issue, seek out the advice of a mental health professional (or, if you don't have access to one, open up to a friend).

The Three-Step Method

Last week, I felt myself falling into a rut.
The first sign was that I felt physically and mentally drained—I didn't want to wake up at my normal hour, didn't want to travel to an exciting event I had committed to, and didn't want to do the daily writing that I normally love.
Fortunately, I've developed a useful set of principles for managing these swings and working out of them.
I follow three general steps...

Step 1: Stop Digging

"The most important thing to do if you find yourself in a hole is to stop digging." ― Warren Buffett
Think of being in a rut as being at the bottom of a hole. We're typically digging ourselves deeper into that hole without realizing it.
The two most common ways that we dig ourselves deeper:

• Negativity: It's easy to be hard on yourself when you're in a rut. You start using negative self-talk to criticize your lack of motivation and discipline. The negativity is a self-fulfilling prophecy—you start to believe negative things about yourself, which leads you to find evidence to support those negative beliefs. This is digging you deeper into the hole.
• Exhaustion: Imagine a car stuck in the mud. Ambitious people assume that they can get the car out of the mud by revving the engine and propelling forward, but the tire spins faster and faster and the car digs itself deeper and deeper. Most of us have been conditioned to believe that rest is bad—lost productivity, wasted time, opportunity cost. We dig ourselves deeper because we avoid the rest we need.

The first step is to stop digging.

1. Upgrade Your Mindset: Eliminate the negativity and cut yourself a break. If you catch the negative self-talk happening, stop it in its tracks.
2. Take Rest: When you find yourself in a rut, don't try to get out of it in an instant. Give yourself the time and space to rest. Remember that "rest" doesn't just mean sleep (consider the seven types of rest here).

If you've successfully stopped digging, congratulations, you've made it through the most important part.

Step 2: Change Direction

The next step to getting out of a rut is to change direction.
There are all variety of factors that are outside of your control that may have contributed to you falling into a rut, but this step solely focuses on those within your control.
Look internally and externally at the controllables:

• Internally: How am I complicit in creating the conditions that I don't want? This question forces you to pause and look inward—to ask whether there are any actions, mindsets, or patterns through which you were contributing to the rut. How can you change those conditions?
• Externally: How is your environment negatively shaping this reality? Most of the time, your environment contributes to your rut. You may just need a change of scenery, or you may need to remove some people or things that are draining your energy and contributing to the negative cycle.

As you change direction, focus on your identity: What mental and physical space would the ideal version of yourself occupy here?

Step 3: Create Movement

The last step to getting out of a rut: Move.
If you wait to act until you feel motivated, you may never start. Motivation is a natural byproduct of movement. When in doubt, just start moving.
Movement —> Momentum —> Motivation
To start the cycle, all you have to do is manufacture a tiny bit of movement. If you do that, you can sit back and let it take you for a ride.
My favorite method for manufacturing movement: Minimum Viable Progress. Minimum Viable Progress says to just do a tiny bit, as anything above zero compounds.

• If you're trying to get back into your workout habit, don't worry about going to the gym for two hours, just go for a 15 minute walk outside.
• If you're trying to get back into your work flow, don't worry about executing four hour blocks of deep work, just focus on one task for 15 minutes.

Avoid the tendency to think that the movement has to be perfect or robust. As Atomic Habits author James Clear says, "Just because it's not optimal, doesn't mean it's not beneficial."
Narrow your focus and start small—even tiny. Build from there.

Staying In The Game

Life is a long, long game that all comes down to allowing positive actions to compound for the long run. With this in mind, simply staying in the game is the most important thing.
Ruts will happen.
When they do, slow down and allow yourself to work through them. The worst thing you can do is push the engine harder and risk taking yourself out of the game for a longer period than if you had worked through it.
My three-step method to work through a rut:

1. Stop Digging
2. Change Direction
3. Create Movement

Give it a shot and let me know what you think.
Important Note: This piece is not intended to replace professional mental health support. While my strategy will certainly help, if you believe the rut is driven by a clinical issue, seek out the advice of a mental health professional (or, if you don't have access to one, open up to a friend).

Would it be possible for someone to be bound with more than one honorblade at the time? If so, imagine how cool would that be if Kaladin and Seth retrieved 5 honorblades from Shinovar for Szeth to bind with them, so he would have access to all 10 surges.
He already has experience in using all of them and combined with his prowess in kammar, having Nightblood and an infinite supply of Stormlight from Dalinar, we would have the most overpowered killing machine in cosmere.
An enemy that can fly, slide, soulcast air into oil, jump in and out to Shadesmar, turn anything to dust, with command over stone, bamboozling enemy with lightweaving, or maybe even being able to open his own perpendicularity, also equipped with god-killig weapon, would win any duel and it wouldn't be even close.

Hey,
I'm trying to build an NER model using a Bert-like model (probably one that's a multi language because my training data is in english but real data is in french)
My question is about the entities I'm trying to identify, All of them are composed of many words, they're usually seperatd by either a white space, comma, a dash or even a dot sometimes.
Here's an example :

• QLQ-BR23 which is composed of 2 abreviations and seperated by a dash
• Functional Assessment of Cancer Therapy - Lung

I'm working on annotating my texts using Doccano but I'm not quite sure how manually anotate these words using the IOB scheme :
should I seperate the comma, dot, dash and so on from the words and treat it as part of the entity's name or should I keep the words attached by a comma and consider them as a whole entity? I guess it depends on how my bert like model will do the tokenizeation?
​
HELP!!

Hey Reddit community,
I need your expertise and recommendations! My daughter is growing up so quickly, and I want to capture all those precious moments with her without intruding on our special moments together.
I'm looking for a camera option that won't distract or make my daughter camera-conscious while we're playing and having fun. I want to be able to capture what I see with my own eyes, without the need to hold a device that might take away from the experience.
Are there any camera solutions or techniques that you can suggest to help me achieve this? Maybe something discreet, hands-free, or remotely operated? I want to ensure that my daughter's natural joy and innocence are captured authentically.
Additionally, if you have any tips or advice on how to approach photography in a non-intrusive manner, I would be incredibly grateful.
Thank you all in advance for your invaluable insights and suggestions. I'm excited to hear your thoughts!
TL;DR: Seeking advice on non-intrusive camera options or techniques to capture precious moments with my daughter without distracting or making her camera-conscious. Open to suggestions for discreet, hands-free, or remotely operated solutions. Tips and advice on non-intrusive photography are highly appreciated!

The sort of app im thinking about is a one app to rule them all sort of app. Im thinking how better the user experience would be if you could just open up an article, have a slight pause (while the app does its thing) and continue reading, like we used to do. Where the tech-heads at?

I use OctoPrint on a Raspberry Pi 4 B with a Creative Live! Cam Sync 1080p V2 as a single camera. The stream works but if I keep the OctoPrint window open, after some time the video blacks out (sometimes this happens quickly and sometimes the video is available for a longer time). After reloading the page the stream works again.
The settins in octopi.txt are

camera="usb" camera_usb_options="-r 1920x1280 -f 5 -d /dev/video0" 

While there are some forum posts regarding the webcam stream, I still have not found one resolving this issue.
So any help or hints how to get more insights appreciated!